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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 11/11/2008 5:49:12 PM | I have been online for a long and I think some girls like to play head games. I love to go out and enjoy myself because life is too short not to enjoy yourself. I like to take relationships slow and not rush in to anything. | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 11/11/2008 6:03:45 PM | | I have been online for a long time and I think some girls like to play head games. I like to take relationships slow and not rush. I too go to work and come home some times I wonder if online dating really works in Little Rock, AR. I just get really frustrated. | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 11/11/2008 8:18:11 PM | | I have met a lot of very nice people here at the local POF get togethers.....maybe you need to give that a try!.....get out.....meet new people....make new friends!......they have a get together at Willy D's every 2 weeks!......maybe the people that get out to these functions are a little more sincere ......but remember.....we all have a comfort zone.....and its kind of hard to get out of that comfort zone.....so some might appear cliquish......but might just be shy like me!.......and some of us are looking for something so very specific.....only that special one will do!......so dont ever take offense......me.....I am not looking for a mate.....I just want to enjoy each day to the Max.....and hopefully make some very nice friends along the way!.....lovers will always come and go.....but true friends are forever! | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 11/12/2008 1:13:15 PM | There still are alot of good men available here in Arkansas. I know several of them , they too are trying to find a good woman, but, to no avail. Try going to some of the POF activities. This way your not obligated to no one but yourself. If you like a person that is appealing to you and you want to see were it go's, then, you can take if from there. You must understand that this is a site to try and meet people, as any other site. You are going to find a lot of bad  Sometime, you just have to go  a little deeper and longer to find that prize trophy that you hoping for. I do wish you the best. | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 11/22/2008 4:40:28 AM | BC, I wonder that too!!
How can some men think that just 'cause they spend $40 on you for dinner and drinks that you're good for a Shag!! I don't think so, guys!! I'm sure that BC will agree, but it's worth a heckuvalot more than just $40!!
Wouldn't that make most women hookers?? LOL
If you expect me to do something like that to me.... in this economy....
buy me a house!! LOL
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 12/13/2008 8:20:20 AM | The problem I am having is the women I have met want Mr Perfect right off the bat. The slightest hint of differences just sends them looking for someone else.
I met someone here and was seeing her and it was a relationship when your intimate and leaving personal items at my home, spending every other night here and it turned out she was scoping out her next date behind my back. I was not Mr Perfect so she went looking elsewhere.
Read the book and not just the cover.
My range is 50 miles from Bryant. | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 12/25/2008 5:48:07 PM | I LOVE THIS POST!
I like to be around someone who knows more of what is going on in the world, and not just whats goin on in their back yard. I have been all over the world growing up.
Sorry I never got turned on by watching movie Deliverance. | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 12/26/2008 1:16:06 PM | What about a rule, such as, emailing someone 20 times before their picture pops up?
Or a rule, like, we should date someone 20 times before getting very intimate.
The emails need information exchanges and the dates need to include conversation, lots of it. People have their stories and their goals. All of it is interesting and it takes time to understand another person. Our value judgments quickly interfere with the free exchange of those words that are personal, valuable and it is the same words that allows one individual enough information to be able to make a good choice about another.
You know what option is being used right now. Listen to what is being said right here.
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 12/26/2008 2:07:27 PM | | It isn't just AR. I've lived all over & traveled to nearly every state in the lower 48..& then some. It also isn't about that dating sucks. It just means there are a lot of Prince's that just don't happen to be my prince. The same in reverse for the fellas. It doesn't mean there aren't quality people out there. It just means we haven't found the right one yet. That's not to say there aren't some folks out there truly lacking, but then perhaps there is someone for those folks too. I just know it isn't me. I only want one; the right one for me. | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 12/26/2008 6:24:12 PM | Quoting Mike72801
It's not just you. The few times I really felt a connection they didn't and visa-versa.
I have met decent women in Arkansas, but the chemistry was just not right for both of us. 
It is good to know that it works that way for someone besides me. LOL | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 12/27/2008 3:18:04 PM | Where I live in North Central part of the state (Marion-Baxter counties) there's not that many places to meet people either. I don't get alot of chances to get out. I have 3 children at home and my appointment book is a necessity.
I meet friends for lunch at Chilis at least once a month. Just this year my friends got me doing Karoke. I got my reservation for New Year's eve at the 178 Club restaurant where they are having Karoke.
Saturdays I am at the local bowling alley watching my kids bowl for a youth league. Sunday Morning - I am at Church.
 I love this state being a transplanted Hoosier since 2/95 but I have lived in many places being in the Air Force. I am not a girly girl and don't wear much jewelry, or makeup. I can't change my oil but I can shoot a pistol (left or right), fish, hook up a computer and other stuff and talk intelligently about many things. And to my oldest kids embarassment I even talk to strangers sitting in waiting rooms, stores and Silver Dollar City. I may never know their name and they don't know mine.
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 12/30/2008 6:53:00 PM | I think for most that too little effort is given towards starting a friendship with too much effort given to starting a relationship.
I may never have another relationship though I "almost" always enjoy the friendship...the sharing and the caring. | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 1/2/2009 10:42:37 PM | | LadyHawk, that's exactly the story I was thinking of. There's a saying: If you spot it, you've got it, and I find it applies more often than I would like. Who doesn't have those days when everybody seems all grouchy and ugly and it's just a reflection of the kind of day you're having? | |
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