| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 5/26/2009 11:32:00 AM | | I'm still waiting on a definition for "decent" as it is used here. Sometimes what I think people are trying to say is that they feel they have not been treated as "decently" as they should have been in a relationship. Ever considered asking yourself why that happened? Could it be that your constant search for someone significantly younger, wealthier, talented, educated than you are is rendering you less than satisfactory results? Hmmm...now...I wonder how you could prevent this from being a recurrent theme in your relationships??? Hmmmm..... | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 5/26/2009 1:23:24 PM | | Oh yeah...and I forgot to mention all the people that continue to meet their next love interest in a bar and wonder why they keep ending up with people who have a problem with alcohol. Teeheee!! I'm on a roll today!!! | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 5/29/2009 8:00:20 PM | | To Mustang Sally, I don't know if you know it but I owe you a sincere appology. I read this post and thought you were the author. AFTER I complained about you talking bad about the men in Ark. I realized you were rebuking the author for the unscrupulous remarks made. So I humbly appologize and if you give me a minute, I'll get this big ole 10D Larry Mahan Boot outta my mouth so i can mbx 638grmblegrumblegrip. Sorry Dear, I am a Hillbilly. Please take that into Consideration, before you shove that boot where the sun don't shine. I run my mouth but I readily admit. I was wrong. Have a nice nite. I am a Disable Viet Nam Vet. Thanks for speaking up for people just having different whims and desires which this web site is here for. Ed (CALL ME MUDD) | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 5/30/2009 6:28:34 AM | | Well, 8insideu, if you are saying you filed a complaint about me...you wouldn't be the first. teehee!! If you posted something negative behind me and then deleted it. Again, wouldn't be the first time!! Nope, far be it from me to label anyone. I am far from perfect, but questioning someones 'decency' simply b/c we were not romantically compatible is something I do not THINK I would do. My point with my post...was for people to look for imperfections in themselves first. I know...it's tough to do!! Darn near impossible!! | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 6/20/2009 11:10:40 AM | Hey, Charles I have been on here for awhile and only met a couple. People say that want to meet and then when you try to make friends and such they never respond. Ihave prayed too and are a devout christian but it gets discouraging sometimes as i am a nice person with al ot to give?
I too wonder where all the nice men are ?? | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 6/20/2009 7:30:02 PM | well, it's a universal problem... and sometimes women have too high of standards for just meeting someone. ,,, even would be dirty old men..
kids and grandkids make things extremely hard, especially for people who say they want to develop a relationship and then don't take the time when both of you are off to do things together. Like I was suppose to be having a lady friend call me back tonight and it sure looks like I'm being stood up when I could have gone to the POF dance at the Legion instead! | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 6/28/2009 1:44:17 PM | It may not be so much having "too high of standards for just meeting someone." Finding time can be a problem as a more mature person with kids and/or other responsibilities. So if we don't think we are going to click with a guy, we may not be as eager to try to set up a meeting. BUT I think that could be a mistake. Sometimes people are a lot different in person than I expect them to be (sometimes better, sometimes worse... lol). That's why I think it's great to have the POF events and hope we have more in the northeast part of the state.....
Lora
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 7/18/2009 6:44:03 PM | | I hear this all the time. "Where are the good guys at?" "Where is a man who will treat me as a lady not a sex toy?" I have had women ask me, "why can't more guys be like you, Paul?" Then they look over me as if I wasn't even there. Kind of ironic isn't it. They are looking for a gentlman and they don't even know he is right under their nose. My suggestion is try looking at the guy who you wouldn't normally date. | |
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| why does it suck trying to find someone decent in Arkansas?
Posted: 11/8/2009 4:01:07 PM | | This is just my thoughts but I think that both sexes feel this way. I am not so sure it's Arkansas either. Obviously this is a smaller area so there are fewer to chose from, but it is hard in general to find the one who is right for you. I have found that alot of the approaches I get are just, "Hi." That doesn't really tell me anything. I also have a son who is 22 and he has the same issues. He tells me there are no decent women out there. I wish there was some place besides a bar to go to meet people. | |
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