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 2sirwithlove

Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 73
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Posted: 6/10/2008 4:50:33 AM
^^ hey tosir where you come from!!. Lol I totally agree. ... O and my god going down on your self ... now thats a party trick or even and olympic sport


I said ALL BY MYSELF! Not ON MYSELF!

But hell yeah, if they made going down an olympic sport I would be a world champion! So I have been told anyway!

Now where is my gold medal?
 Hagars

Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 74
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Posted: 6/10/2008 4:54:59 AM
Firstly would u prefer to be referred to as Maya or Epona?

Secondly So wish everything was black and white, for centuries some have tried and only created more black from the grey.
An opinion is a unique thing, Taking offence to an opinion is a divine right.
Aggression whether passive or blatant will always occur but is not right, best to sit back and watch the aggressor, the behavior will most times not be the first or last episode and it will not promote unity and contentment in their life.
 happy lil vegemite

Joined: 4/2/2008
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Posted: 6/10/2008 4:56:29 AM
o shush 2sir .. now i just have to say..

do you have a chest to pin it on! .. that was so like yesterday. lol and gold medal babe youd get more than a gold medal for that party trick.. lol NO one could hate you for that
 PosterGirl

Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 76
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Posted: 6/10/2008 5:16:20 AM
Liked what Bionic had to say above me there...not sure how to say this without offending anyone, but at times the under lying hostility in some of the threads here puts you off posting [StoopidGrin]
I will read through a thread...feel a sense of connection to posts and general attitudes ect....it's fun to read a thread where folks are doing the friendly banter and bouncing off one another... is why most of us are here, for a giggle and some sense of connectedness.
But if the thread turns semi personal with references to past history betwixt posters etc I tend to just not read on or choose to not reply...it all seems too incestious...bit like hearing the neighbours argue.
I mostly 'read' threads.... have a weird sense of invading others territory if I post...lol... and my posts tend to vanish any way...all good..:)...But to be absolutely truthful, for the sake of freedom and not to offend, as an observer I've not found the forums the most friendly of places.
Maybe I just read the wrong threads....
 happy lil vegemite

Joined: 4/2/2008
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Posted: 6/10/2008 5:21:58 AM
I so get that.. its like that wierd feeling you have when you hear the nieghbors fighting. An uneasy sence of not wanting to be involved but being in the same nieghborhood.

I think Hating anyone or minimalising it down to something else is kinda sad. Very very few of us know each other well . We are all strangers or friends who just havent met yet... well thats how I choose to veiw it.
 saltytowers

Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 78
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Posted: 6/10/2008 5:23:51 AM
Poster... try cruising around in the different forums
Some are quite interesting

But no matter where you go
There will be jerks and people here just to 'jerk' people around and get some kicks

I think its cool!
I find out who I never want to be friends with!
 likes_a_laugh

Joined: 3/17/2007
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Posted: 6/10/2008 5:34:17 AM
I was just poking about on a chat room on another site when a boofhead showed up and started cornering and belittling people. The poor bugger couldn't help himself from attacking, belittling and degrading anyone who responded to him.

I had some fun with him playing the dimwit with this intellecto-nazi pr1ck. Sadly, others either shut up or left the room. It turns out he's a regular and targets the emotionally weak to get his jollies on line.

Argumentative boofheads roam the world looking for attention and making enemies wherever they go. Sometimes you do have to state your case in a healthy debate, but it's never an excuse to get personal.

Sheeatt, maybe I'm one of them???
 happy lil vegemite

Joined: 4/2/2008
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Posted: 6/10/2008 5:51:22 AM
^^ No one need be personal .

Being hateful can result in being hated which can result in hating its a cycle. Some choose to drip dry some choose to spin dry some choose to hand wash their dirty linen, in public some in private.

Double entendre, innuendo, psuedo logic, or just plain bad manners by people at times can not always mean they put theyre best foot forward.
Sadly in real life or online people are falliable. Some just get emotional to I guess.
Either way its sad to think some people feel hated.

NO ONE can make you feel anything.. how you feel about it is a choice. ( thank god)
 saltytowers

Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 81
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Posted: 6/10/2008 6:06:35 AM
Theres a very famous quote by (I think) Eleanor Roosevelt
"Nobody can make you feel inferior...without your permission"
 ThatWomanAgain

Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 82
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Posted: 6/10/2008 10:23:20 AM
I believe I have built up a fan club of hate fans...... The damsel is still there inside me, but someone on another site where I have been entertaining the masses for a few years suggested that I let people know of my presence here. I think I confused him a little bit, so yes its still the damsel, and I`m still full of lots of information no one wants to know.. so hate me, I don`t care....... I can go around all day with a smile on my face knowing that I have entertained some, and knowing I have annoyed others. but remember, there may be someone worse than me around the corner....As long as I stick to the rules I believe I am entitled to my opinion.......Australia HAS NOT banned freedom of speech YET!
 Hagars

Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 83
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Posted: 6/10/2008 6:42:17 PM
that wickedwomen posted "Australia has not banned free speech yet"

Actually our government now can take away our right to free speech in a very easy non accountable manner
 virgogidget

Joined: 11/10/2005
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Posted: 6/10/2008 10:22:43 PM
Jan
Just be you, best to stay away from people like that.
Some people just think their all that and more.
You dont need people like that in your life.
Some gr8 posts here.
 deepsea66

Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 85
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Posted: 6/11/2008 1:30:18 AM
Just thought I'd add a saying that i like...

What other people think of me is none of my business.
 virgogidget

Joined: 11/10/2005
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Posted: 6/11/2008 2:55:07 AM
Deepsea
good point
 AbbieF

Joined: 6/24/2007
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Posted: 6/11/2008 3:34:40 AM

What other people think of me is none of my business.


I like that one! I believe if people have nothing better to do that gossip or think ill of me without saying so then they must have very dull lives.
Hehehehehehe I like to leave them wondering - what I actually get up to lol
 likes_a_laugh

Joined: 3/17/2007
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Posted: 6/11/2008 5:44:04 AM
Hey Deeps, nice line...

I have a similar take on that: 'What other people think of me is their effn problem'.

But then again being hated on site is way better than being hated on sight...
 happy lil vegemite

Joined: 4/2/2008
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Posted: 6/12/2008 2:48:44 PM
Great line^^^ My Older Brother used to say it all the time. Didnt understand it till I was in my 20s itsa good mantra.
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