| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 7/1/2006 10:40:10 AM |
We're just a bunch of old people with our own opinions. You know you best, and eventually some young guy is going to know the best of you. You may have to approach him, you may not, but don't let a bunch of old farts tell you how best to express yourself. You'll have to figure that out through trial and error, but I'm sure you'll get it. You're young and hopefully have a lot of time to figure out what's important to you. Don't sell yourself short. Live and see what life brings. - JMBlucat
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 7/1/2006 10:59:34 AM | Of course we do all realize that the original post is like a year old and in all likelihood she isn't seeing all these wonderful replies.
On an unrelated note: I love molonel but saidly that loves goes unrequited! | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 7/1/2006 11:11:38 AM | hey dont get down on yourself ....i see a very hot fine looking woman ....you have a unique look which i think is great id approach you ...lol i bet you would turn me down haha i wish u lived closer all we have is the same ol lookin barbie chicks  | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 7/1/2006 11:13:14 AM | to quote an old al stewart song -again...
"you were staring out into the distance,
not seeming to hear what i said,
why did you put up such resistance
-like all the lights were red"
ps: i like the pink hair, but would be afraid to kiss any girl with fish hooks in her lips. | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 7/1/2006 1:09:42 PM | | LOL Jasmine. Oops, colour me oblivious. Never even noticed the date of the thread. Possibly a time frame need be implimented on when to put a thread to rest. Though this was a great one. I hope this girl gets to see this. Someone should message her and suggest she look at it. I tried but restricted. | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 7/1/2006 3:58:59 PM |
On an unrelated note: I love molonel but saidly that loves goes unrequited! - Jasminekai
You stole my heart the first time I saw that pic of you with the sword, Jasmine. Alas, that we live so far apart, and I must content myself with savoring your wit, instead. | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 7/3/2006 8:19:07 PM | | Right on! Actually, it doesn't matter how ugly you are, some guy will want to hit on you. It's got a lot more to do with the secret messages you give out. Are you available? If you send out the message that you are, someone is going to hit on you. Your shyness is probably part, if not most, of the problem. Work out a series of responses for any questions which might be addressed to you. Try and make them a little teasing, if you can. Show off your best physical features, if you can bear to... | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 7/4/2006 8:28:49 PM | | I hate to say this but nise rings make me sick.Put it any place else is ok for me.It's like looking at a snotty nosed kid.Even whe I was a little kid it turned my stomach.You're really good looking but nose rings turn me off.What do you do with it if you have a head cold? | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 7/5/2006 12:01:55 AM |
I hate to say this but nise rings make me sick.Put it any place else is ok for me.It's like looking at a snotty nosed kid.Even whe I was a little kid it turned my stomach.You're really good looking but nose rings turn me off.What do you do with it if you have a head cold? - LovingAngel
I'm going to go out on a limb, here, and guess that you probably don't hit on a lot of 19 year old girls, anyway? | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 7/5/2006 9:41:41 AM | i read your post and a few after that....i didn't even read anymore.....i just wanted to say that u are beautiful just the way u are.....u have good stucture in your face, u are by far prettier than most women.....i wouln't listen to all the ppl trying to tell u to change your nose ring or whatever....u are u, no matter what u wear.....remember that......and if u wanna attract someone for u, the only solution is to be the best u.....don't be soo worried bout it, your special someone will find u or u them, when the timing is right.....but still keep those eyes open and don't be soo shy.....what's the worst that could happen but getting over rejection and moving along, it's life hunnie | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 7/5/2006 10:04:26 AM | You said in your profile that you are blunt and honest and so I will do the same. Not all guys like so many piercings, they are an aquiered taste and guys could be intimidated by that.
Certain styles will attract certain types of people and you probably didn't meet those yet.
Also, you said you are fat and not to email you if that is the probem. Maybe guys have problem with that too. Maybe they would prefer to see that you try to take care of yourself and your body and are working on it. Maybe they at least want to see the attempt. I have few extra pounds too but I work out and try to get in shape mostly for health reasons. Maybe guys care about that too and want a healthy woman. I have the feeling you are attracted to the types of guys . that might not like your style. You said you like shy guys and those guys might not like your bold style. | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 7/5/2006 10:14:31 AM | hi there.
everyone is telling you to change, do this do that.
stay as you are if you completely change yourself then that would make you not the real you.
if guys dont like you as you are then thats their loss.
why cant people see beyond appearance and before you all shout at me yes you have to be attracted to someone of course(im not that stupid).
good luck and im sure you will have luck with that right person soon.
x | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 11/10/2006 3:05:33 AM | | Hiya, I don't believe your ugly, actually quite the opposite, your very beautiful and independant, which is why you intimidate most guys, cause most are scared of independantly thinking women and they now just by your appearance that they couldn't control you and as for your nose ring and dreads, I think their really nice looking, they compliment eachother and your overall appearance very well. So the answer I guess is no, your not ugly in the least, your beautiful and independant, so don't let anything get you down, cause your Mr. Right is out there, and all will be good, just give it time. Well, blah for now...laterz... | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 11/10/2006 3:28:44 AM | Do you want honest advice or do you just want a lot of guys telling you that you are beautiful.
Guys want in order
Girls who like them (love)
Girls who like guys
Girls who like sex.
Looks do matter bu they are a long way back. You have to be butt ugly, literally, as ugly as a dogs butt for looks to put the guys off. You certainly arent.
Guys like girls who like them. Guys hate girls who don't like them. If you show any dislike for guys, even unintentionally, it will put the guys off. Right off!
If you and the girlfriends EVER vent on about what baastards all men are then thats displaying hatred of guys. And this is something that most girls do. Stupid stupid stupid.
Forget your face. It's not important. It's whats behind your face, your brain and your attitude thats important. | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 11/10/2006 3:33:58 AM | Honestly this post is a Bit late but I can offer you a couple of reasons for this situation, you Might possibly be intimidating but not for the reason you think.
Alot of guys (Myself Included here) Find it very hard or almost impossible to Approach a Beautiful Woman and Sufficed to say you DO Qualify as Beautiful dont ever let anyone tell you differently, Most guys though Just seem to assume that if they Approach a beautiful woman
A: She is either going to shoot them down or simple Snub them.
B: They havent Got anything to say she probably hasnt heard a million times before.
C: They simply Cant think up something to say to her that they Believe will make a good impression or they simply cant see why Someone like you would be interested in the Average Guy.
Now before you say it I know these are mostly False Ideas and your probably very easy to talk to, But that doesnt always register and the fear of Rejection is a very strong one for the average decent guy and its difficult to convince yorself that someone who looks like you do Wont just reject them out of hand.
I hope this helps in some way sape or form...if you ever even read it that is lol this is probably a fairly old Posting and there looks to be about 3 million pages of responses.
I do hope you get the information your looking for and I hope that in some small way if you do happen to read this it helps you.
Please in no way think your ugly though thats as far from the truth as you can get and still be on the same Planet ;)
I hope this finds you well and with a smile on your face.
James | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 11/10/2006 3:52:23 AM | ok, i have not read all the posts, so if this has been covered, please forgive me.
1.) you are very beautiful, so it's not a question of you being "butt ugly"
2.) I suspect that because of the dreads, piercings, etc., that you are in a social group that is full of guys that lack self-esteem or testicular fortitude, and that pretty much 99.9% of them would kill to go out with you, but they lack the courage to even think of asking you.
3.) because your look is not "mainstream" you are probably intimidating to the more average guy that would otherwise want to go out with you.
As far as all that goes, I'd love to go out with you, other than the fact I'm about old enough to be your father. 
Greg | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 11/10/2006 9:18:21 AM | The style of your appearance says a lot about you. You are definatly part of a sub-culture. Nothing wrong w/ that. But, you are limiting the # of guys that will be attracted 2 u.
Personally, I'd hit on you in a minute if I was nearer your age. Maybe it's the cheerleader syndrome-guys just think that a girl as hot as you already has a b/f & a long waiting list, so they think they don't stand a chance. | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 11/10/2006 12:32:16 PM | op.. interesting how you call yourself buttugly yet pose in your pictures which i KNOW deep down inside you know you are pretty in a very unique way.Sexy even.
You just needed to hear that you are pretty to get a bit of self esteem boost? Well, you got pages of it!!
Something tells me theres a connection between your crying for verification of how pretty you are , you not getting guys to approach you and your shyness.
Bring up that feeling of of how sexy and pretty you are when you are posing for those pics and take it to the guys.
Simple as that. | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 11/10/2006 12:43:33 PM |
Molonel* I wish there were more people out here like you :) - Tizzle
Well, thank you.
I love to hear the sound of ass kissing in the morning....... - newandreadyforu
Don't confessions like this belong over in the Sex and Dating forums?
I mean, it's not my kink, but whatever floats your boat, man.
As long as it involves consenting adults, and all that. | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 11/10/2006 1:15:45 PM | | there is nothing wrong with you. you're not butt ugly. You have a nice face It's just the piercings and the hair some guys like that kind of style others don't. It's not really my thing. I think you would look more attractive without the piercings. but that's just me if that's your style that's your style. Nothing wrong with it. Don't change for nobody | |
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