deni30
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Joined: 12/11/2007
Msg: 176 | |
| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 1/6/2008 3:12:45 AM | | I think what you might need to do is be more approachable. Learn how to flirt effectively. Men pick up on non-verbal cues. For instance, hold a stare for a full 5 seconds (count it out, it's long enough to feel a lil uncomfortable to the person conscious of doing it lol) and the same goes for a smile. Touching a man, on the arm even- is a good one also. Stop them and ask stupid questions- like, "is your name Matt? No? oh, you look like my friends brother" is one I use. Ask men for help (not that your helpless, it's just an opener) like for directions or something, if they like you they'll use the opportunity if not they'll likely at least be polite! WHen you are talking to them use their name several times. Finally, be confident- it's like men can smell it or something and I swear it works like mojo. I'm not the prettiest girl around though I work my xtra pounds, attributes and personality like nobody's business and the men line up hun. I think you're beautiful and please don't compromise who you are. :) Good luck. | |
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Nona37
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Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 177 | |
| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 1/6/2008 6:22:16 AM | Naeco:
Thank you for that great observation, maybe we should contact her and inform her of the activity which has been happening on this thread SHE started!!!!!! lol
Migivadam: I LOVE THAT SONG!!!!!!! :)
DENI: I like your advice so much, I'M GOING TO USE IT!!!!!!! ha | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 1/6/2008 7:11:17 AM | Oh! kitten, that not true! someones tried to catch you several times .
They have foul hooked you in the nose, and now you do have an intimidating look about you. ~ You look like a fighter thats still standing and worse the wear. I be thinking, damn!, I don't know if want to share this small boat with "that" or not?
She might be some wild african, man eater, and have razor sharp teeth and can take a finger or pecker off with one single bite.
really thou ~ I know that this adournment is "in" fashion now. It's your generations way of being different yet being the same.
One young poster stated "don't change, you'd just be shallow" ~ funny!! ~ like he knew something about depth, heheheh !
I don't know what kind of young man that your looking for kitten? ~ If you are looking for a young man that will love you for what you truly are ~ the person deep inside that has a big heart and warm feeling and has alot of love to offer. A person with depth, intelligence and love for life. A person that was confident in herself and knew who she is. ~ I'd show that person and 86 the hardware, the fad clothing that screems " I wanta be cool!" ~ I'd suggest you be yourself and not give in to the rebelious juvenile pressures. ~ and join the rest of us here in this screwed up world.
You making yourself appear butt-ugly is not going to change the world my sweet ,but only restrict your rightful place in society. Limit what you could have had, what you could achieve.
Now! go have fun ~ you are beautiful ~ go get a real life ~ quit fighting the system ~ I know it seem hopless at times ~ but you ~ in your own way ~ are doing your part. Trust me, your time will come. ~ dar | |
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Nona37
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Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 179 | |
| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 1/6/2008 9:13:11 AM | Dance:
THis is TOTALLY way off topic here on this thread, but you are on the "Saddam" thread, same as I, and I will reply to your statements as soon as the moderator let's me :) lol
Good advice you gave here, by the way :) | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 1/29/2008 8:46:20 PM | uhhh soo yeah like.. you're on like... 20 people's favorite's lists and so like... i'm totally not sure what you're talking about... like ... lol! sorry couldn't help myself.
Anyhooo... i don't think you're ugly. Very pretty face. skin looks good.....extremely important by the way. Lose the nose ring, get a haircut and get smooth, touchable hair... and get yourself in the gym.
Girl! you got it... you just need to know how to work it... and the nose ring and the hair... just aint workin it... know what i mean?  | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 1/29/2008 9:00:07 PM | Don't change a thing!!
I love your straight forwardness and your individualism. You stand out!!
I think the only thing I would worry about is that you are hiding some emotional baggage behind all of your "uniqueness" and that may be projecting an insecure angry image.
Be who you are and be proud of it. You most certainly do not want to change for anyone and more so you don't want anyone you would have to change for!!
As corny as it sounds, you have to love yourself before anyone else can. | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 1/29/2008 9:08:01 PM | Well,.. your DEFINATELY NOT butt-ugly It MAY be that "Funky fresh" thing.. maybe they thing you smell bad or something Even the nose ring looks ok..(you do keep it clean, right?) Perhaps they're intimidated by piercings... You DO got that "tough" look in a soft kinda way. Anyway, your not butt ugly..so I'm going for intimidating.  | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 1/29/2008 9:26:14 PM | Nah..you are gorgeous! Some guys just probably aren't attracted because of the nose ring. They probably read you wrong because of it. They make assumptions about you etc.etc..
That is NOT to suggest that you should change it if that is what you like, though.
If you really want to keep the nose ring, sooner or later, you will meet someone who is not intimidated by it.
And right..like someone said earlier..you are quite young yet. You have lots of time.
Get out there and live, and laugh..and maybe..just maybe ,you will find ...love?  ...sorry..yeah..that was hokey..but it just flowed out...sorry about that..
I'm not normally the sappy sort.
Soleil | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 1/29/2008 9:54:47 PM | BornAUnicorn, you are drop dead gorgeous judging by all of your pics....
you have chosen a particular look and you like it! so be happy with it
inside and out you may be shy but I bet if you smile a shy smile it will get them looking your way- beauty is also supposed to come from the inside and I think you are
also that too.....I see it in your eyes.....just be yourself if thats not good enough you don't need him...period.. | |
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| I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 1/29/2008 10:16:31 PM | Nose ring doesn't scare me a bit..
My advice, approach guys instead, and have fun with it. Why so many people are obsessed with people not approaching them is beyond me, there are probably billions of reasons for why no one has approached you.
Perhaps the better question to ask is, For what reasons have you not approached someone you liked? see that list.. yup, its universal.
If you do approach people you like.. then keep it up.
Just imagine what would happen to a tree if it didn't push its roots down and look for water.. it would likely die before anything decent ever came to it !! | |
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