| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 4/27/2008 7:51:56 AM | If you don't tell the man he's being too rough, he'll never know.
One of the best peices of advice I ever got when it comes to foreplay was from one of my ex's. She told me "You are too rough. Go watch some lesbian porn and see how they do it, then we'll try again."
That made such a difference! Just watching one or 2 of those, i learned a lot about how/where/why to touch a woman, how to be much more gentle and when to know how that she wants it rougher. | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 4/27/2008 9:55:26 AM | | ya i guess it depends on the person. but dont girls ever fantasize about rough stuff, i dont mean too hard but just enough to get attention? | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 4/27/2008 10:03:40 AM | | The rougher the better..................but then again, most guys cant handle that . | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 4/27/2008 10:09:39 AM | If you are with the right kind of man you don't need to tell them because they pay attention to how your body reacts and watch your face because they want to do what makes you feel good.
What the OP describes is someone that merely sees foreplay as a means to an end, they are focused on the copulating and have not figured out that the sex is so much better if you focus on the journey instead of the destination.
There is a time for rough foreplay but approaching a woman like she is a human radio usually doesn't cut it for anyone. | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 4/27/2008 11:06:51 AM | Rough fore play is awesome. Not too rough.. AND THE NIPPLES ARENT SQUEEZIE TOYS!!!!!!!!!!!!
God, I hate that.. Lol ouch! ><;
But as I am a biter and love to bite/be bitten.. rough.......yes pls!  | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 4/28/2008 1:12:29 PM | | I agree with Michelle_renee, soft and slow is the way to go. Not that the occasional quickie can't be extremely fun, but lets be honest. Slow, soft, and mixing it up definitely brings on the hardest, eyes roll back in your head screaming orgasms. | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 4/28/2008 1:28:29 PM | Go with the individual, I personally take thingd soft with a new partner, is she says she likes it rough, then i'll change acordingly.
Personaly I dont like women who are rough with me, being jerked like a bottle of champagne or sucked on like a taffy apple does nothing for me, its sore and thats that. | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 4/28/2008 1:51:18 PM | | I agree, forplay IS the best part of sex, the longer it lasts, the longer IT lasts, if you get my drift. I must be the far and few between man that gets it, I also enjoy forplay. Now I need to find a woman in my area that would enjoy such love making | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 4/28/2008 2:40:41 PM | | Hi there. My uncle Joe always said " Listen to your elders". So here I go.The purpose of the foreplay is to get your partner "hot". Every women is different. So take it easy. There are miles to cover before you reach the nipples,never mind further down. Explore, find out what she likes, watch her body language. Don't be shy asking questions either. She will tell you how she likes it. You are there to please her and the same time let her know that you enjoy it to. So give her your best.Believe me the reward will be sensational | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 4/28/2008 3:20:52 PM | | from my experience women perfer it rough,even if they say it hurts they are most likely enjoying it. | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 5/7/2008 3:42:30 PM | I'd have to go with rough foreplay...
The next day...I love that sore, tender feeling of being "well used"...
Reminds me of the previous day's activities ;) | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 5/7/2008 5:25:00 PM | | I love it and even if it hurts after words itll get better :). nothing better than rough all the way around | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 5/7/2008 5:27:27 PM | | Every woman is different. The fun and excitement is finding out what turns her on. | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 5/7/2008 6:34:49 PM | | yeah, if I['m sore the next day, it must have been good. haha. Seriously, depends on my mood. | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 5/18/2008 5:38:46 PM | | One thing men can learn to do is ask, it takes years to learn how to use a combination of asking for her preferences and reading her reactions, but it is worth it. It is a good way to make sure she enjoys foreplay and that should always be the goal of a man who is looking at keeping a partner. I never go into a "first encounter" thinking of myself, I want the chance to experience and take in the enjoyment of my lover . A satisfied lover is one who will come back again. :) | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 5/18/2008 5:47:08 PM | | I totally agree with you! My ex was soft as ever during foreplay and he could still make me cum! The only time I liked it rough was during actual sex, not during foreplay. | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 5/29/2008 10:55:21 PM | | I can go eitherway, to me its what ever turns the woman on the most. But, then again, I need alot of 4play | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 5/30/2008 5:53:41 AM |
Foreplay.....rough or soft?
For me,,,i prefer soft. I do not like it rough AT ALL. Gimme tender caresses, light nibbles, soft sensuous kisses. Even my nipples need to be treated gently (most men in my experiences are wayyyyy too rough with them and i gotta tell 'em to ease up! lol). | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 5/30/2008 7:03:47 AM | | i found that every woman is different, some like it soft, some a bit rough, some a little mixture, the point is to be able to communicate well, before , during and after to express your thoughts and feeling, your want's, how is anyone to know if there is no communication? but for the most part i have found more women who like it as soft as a babies bottom, the more gentle, the better, keep vocalizing your feeling during sex and foreplay and you will be rewarded. | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 5/30/2008 7:09:09 AM | It should be soft, gentle and sensuous .. till either person takes the initiative ..
to get a bit more Frisky!
Always playful and Loving..!!
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 8/3/2008 6:15:12 PM | | Well said Kaylie........Great disscusion, and really it's all nice depending on the timing and it is about the timing! | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 8/3/2008 6:17:47 PM | | No offense but what if rough turns the guy on? Is he not allowed to have his own foreplay? Or is it all for the woman? Thats kinda rude. ^_^ Just my two cents, speaking as a guy who likes rough sex and foreplay (though not generally directed at nipples or senstive organs lol) | |
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| Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 8/3/2008 6:25:54 PM | I kinda like it rough, too.
What would be the best way to come out and say the truth?
Just say it! | |
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