| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/22/2004 10:56:11 PM | ROFL
word to Jedi & Jimi ... LOL @ those w/ good advice. Now, what was it she said about me...
" so wise, so young. I am envious. "
Aww, sweetie. Don't be jealous. You can have me. First even. But I ain't takin' no sloppy seconds from the cat! | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 10:18:49 AM | | LMAO, ROFL...what the hell, has evryone in here been drinking except me, maybe I should try something stronger than this coffee ;) | |
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xchuck
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Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 53 | |
| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 10:27:53 AM | | i'm a little stronger then coffee...and the afterwards effects are much nmore powerful too | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 10:39:11 AM | | Good i could use some powerful effects today! | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 55 | |
| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 11:12:24 AM | alarmed we are so similar its scary..
although my ex walked out on us i had no chioce but to let him go and move on and be everything to my kids.I found strength i nver knew i had. I fought hard for what i wanted..overcame fear...made my own home for my kids..and now 3 yrs later im doing prety damn good.
I could have buckled and let the depresion kill me..quit my job and stayed at home...but no.I siad fuk him..and now im the person i have always wanted to be. My parents are so bloddy proud of me..i love it. I was a sad bitchy wife when i was with him.
Now..dating was very tough. Men felt intimidated by me and my independence. I didnt really NEED A MAN. i COULD TAKE CARE OF MYSELF. I do not need a sugar daddy..plus sad as it sounds i had guys say oh you have kids..thats too bad. WTF??? too bad?? screw you buddy.
its very very hard to find a guy who loves you and will accept your kids too. If they dotn accept them then it will never work.
My mom told me 2 yrs ago the best damn advise i have ever heard...i live by these rules evry day and i hope you will follow them alarmed..
BE COMMITED TO DO WHAT IT TAKES TO HAVE WHAT YOU WANT..
and "YOU KNOW WHEN YOU HAVE FOUND THE RIGHT MAN WHEN YOU ARE HIS TREASURE AND YOUR CHILDREN ARE HIS JEWELS"
I have found that man...and im the happiest gal on earth... | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 12:07:03 PM | I am happy for you Allura. But I have just given up on men. I recognize that I and my children are much older, therefore, probably much less of an attractive package to any man. Funny how the male philosophy has evolved since my children were young. It used to be that they did not someone elses "baggage" to "look after" (meaning my children) till this moment...Now strong independant woman are intimidating. I am sick and tired of the "journey" to true love. It does not exist, at least not for me.
Funny, really when you think about it, lifes just a really cruel joke. It's like a platefull of appetizers, and dinner never shows up... | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 12:31:42 PM | | Alarmed you are the definition of a woman. Strength, Beauty, Poise, and Charm. A man would swell with pride to call you his wife. Dont give up. | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 12:33:49 PM | alarmed...I think it's sad that you've decided to give up on men. You still have a long life ahead of you, it's a shame to think that you're choosing to live it alone...doesn't seem right. There are a lot of men out there who think that strong independant women are really sexy and a turn on. Just stay positive, you'll find someone soon, I'm sure. :)
I know that's easier said than done, but you really need to do this, if not for any other reason but your own sanity. Maybe that sounds like I'm talking through my ass, but it's true...(i believe so anyway)
You're gonna make someone really happy someday soon, and that guy is gonna be really lucky :) | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 12:50:37 PM | O and as for the kid thing you mentioned Alarmed. All I have to say is read the last part of my profile. We are out here, just hard to find.
PS: That statement in my profile has been there even before I posted it on POF.
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 60 | |
| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 1:32:06 PM | alarmed..to give up on love is to give up on life. its our energy..it keeps us going its a medicine you must give yourself and others. You gave it to your children..and now you must give it to yourself.
Never deny you are giving loving woman worthy of love and to be loved. You have so much to give you just need to believe in yourself. I know you will be some guys queen one day.and you wil be worshipped soon.But think you wont and he will pass you by and you wotn even know it.
i dont think you want to be 60 ys old gramma playing bingo with all the old other bats..man hater and life hater right?
it will come sweety.. but dont deny it ok?? i did for too long.. | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 3:27:36 PM | | Yeah, don't give up on love . . . just move to Texas. :D | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 3:31:02 PM | | I'm packing right now.....*hides sad crying face in suitcase* | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 63 | |
| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 3:34:35 PM | | awww dont be sad.......pptt have him move here... | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 3:42:02 PM | | If she'll be my sugar mama, I'm all for that. ;) | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 4:07:02 PM | If love was a perfume it would be Elizebeth Arden
If love was a look it would be of auburn hair and athletic tone.
If love ware a dress it would be black
If love was on fire it would be Alarmed
If love was a name it would be you.
Dont be sad. :( | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 4:16:44 PM | | Okay, who doesn't? That may take less time to list. | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 4:20:48 PM | | Well, none of us are even close to her, so how lucky is that? | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 4:26:40 PM | | Surfer that was so sweet, you always make me feel better, you have such a spirit lifting presence, are you like this in real life too? :) | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 4:28:03 PM | | You too Jedi, you guys are the best. | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 4:28:19 PM | | I just care about Alarmed. She is a good person and I hate to see her hurting. | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 4:29:56 PM | | Well, she deserves some good feedback. Too bad I can't do any better than words. | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 5:17:50 PM | | i wish i could do more than a few words as well.. | |
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 5:19:10 PM | I have my bad days like the rest Alarmed. But when I’m up, I can’t stand to see people down.
Big hug.
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 5:46:19 PM | Then here is one for you too BG.
BIG HUGGGGGSSSSS!!!!!!!!!
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| Re: Why me
Posted: 9/23/2004 5:47:10 PM | | how about just a big group hug? :HUG: | |
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