| female A-Spot...resurrection
Posted: 10/8/2006 1:11:10 AM | I figure a few people will actually read some of this info, try it and realize it really works. The G aAND A Spots do exist, have to be stimulated the right way but learning the technique is worth the effort needed to read a few posts.
A-spot women
Posted: 10/7/2006 5 49 PM
I STILL don't understand why anybody would feel compelled to post an ignorant answer to a question they know absolutely nothing about.
The ASpot does NOT refer to the female prostate. As a few bright lights have pointed out the anatomical differences I won't go there except to note that it seems a LOT of people don't even have that down yet. The prostate is a GLAND. The G and ASpots are nerve clusters surrounded by vaso-congestive tissue.
Research shows that the clitoral "trunk" - the nerves leading down to the clit branch off and are concentrated in areas which any common sense guess would show they are endorphin triggers for child birth. The GSpot is one of these clumps. Found on the anterior wall of the vagina it can be stimulated easily and can result in massive and repeatable orgasms.
The ASpot is a similar clump of nerves just below the uterus on the posterior wall of the vagina. Many women who enjoy and orgasm during anal sex are experiencing ASpot orgasms via the proximity of the ASpot to the forward areas of the rectum. Manual stimulation of the ASpot is difficult because it is found right up at the top of the vagina. It is also in a receded area which is rarely poked during intercourse so it isn't usually triggered that way either. It can be reached and stimulated best with a long curved dildo or vibe. Because of it's proximity to the uterus it should NOT be pounded as hard as one would hammer the GSpot because you'll bruise the uterus. She will have some GREAT orgasms but will feel like she's been kicked the next day.
There is some discussion of the ASpot on the LIT thread but due to its location and the fact you have to be more careful with it than you do with the GSpot it isn't a focal point of the Technique.
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892 | |
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| female A-Spot...resurrection
Posted: 10/8/2006 9:38:09 AM |
The A-Spot, AFE-zone or Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone. Also referred to as the Epicentre, this is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner end of the vaginal tube between the cervix and the bladder, described technically as the 'female degenerated prostate'. (In other words, it is the female equivalent of the male prostate, just as the clitoris is the female equivalent of the male penis.) Direct stimulation of this spot can produce violent orgasmic contractions. Unlike the clitoris, it is not supposed to suffer from post-orgasmic over-sensitivity.
http://www.heretical.com/miscella/g-spots.html
It's the net ~ for every statement, there is an equal and opposite opinion. To each their own. Personally ~ I don't care about all the little gimmicks, tricks, techniques, etc., I care about how my partner and I interact with one another. I don't want my uterus/cervix and bladder fuked with ~ that is a really good way to end up with a bladder infection, UTI and a host of other sore spots. Once that happens there won't be any sex ~ mind blowing or otherwise, because if I can't sit down/walk/pee without pain, I sure in the hell am not going to be indulging in something physical with anyone.
The G&A Spot(s) are a bunch of nerve clusters which trigger endorphines (natural painkillers) during child birth. These nerve concentrations are below the surface and protected. The clit is not protected and the nerves are right on the surface. Any guy who tries to handle a clit roughly usually gets a heel up the side of his head. The GSpot is different. Once it has been triggered you can NOT treat it like a clit. Beat it up! Guys have been taught to be gentle with "that " area. Yes for the clit. NO for the G&A's.
DO NOT do it too hard at first but once it puffs up and gets a little hard, that's when you can get rough with it. She'll feel like she has to go for a pee about then. Ignore her. Hold her down. An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 !!! Trouble walking the next day but Man) Man is it worth the shakes the next day.
To each their own, but when someone is advising others to: BEAT IT UP~ I'd have to consider the validity of their theorium. Hey ~ if it works for some, go wild. I'd rather have mind-blowing sex ~ and the option to walk the next day. But that's just me.  | |
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| female A-Spot...resurrection
Posted: 10/8/2006 10:23:35 AM | ""Personally ~ I don't care about all the little gimmicks, tricks, techniques, etc., I care about how my partner and I interact with one another.""
So when you're with a partner there is no touching, no licking or sucking, no digital stimulation by either of you because ALL of that is, in your words "little gimmicks and tricks" Geeeez!
Of COURSE you care about how you and your partner interact but that's precisely WHY we have learned to use our hands and mouths and anything else we can LEARN, to help make our partners feel the best they can when we make love or have sex.
I agree about the quality of the Net. Except for your ratio. It is NOT a one to one ratio. Read the posts (and not JUST mine). For every good idea there are 10 or 15 morons ready to kybosh and ridicule it without having a clue what they're talking about, trying it or even considering the possibility there may be something else beyond their own, obviously limited, experience or capacity to learn.
When I wrote "BEAT IT UP" it was obviously (to some at least) a figure of speech. I simply refer to the fact that one has to be VERY careful and gentle around the clit. Not so for the GSpot. Pretty much nothing is going to happen there if you're gentle with that (G) area but unlike some interpretations, I wasn't suggesting smacking it with a club. The person applying pressure can tell by their partner's reactions how hard and how fast they want her cumming by the speed and pressure applied. Hence my warning about using the same "enthusiasm" on the ASpot due to its proximity to the bladder neck and uterus. It can have the same effect but has a much higher chance of injury.
Some women who find they are lucky enough to be able to cum at the drop of a hat may find the technique useless. Statistically however the vast majority of women have a tough time orgasming and only 18% (a recent survey) say they orgasm during intercourse. That is why I posted the technique. Not a "I know a secret..." but a very comprehensive HOW TO thread. If you enjoy other sensations then this is just something to add to your repertoire. If you like using your fingers or mouth on a partner either by way of foreplay or a combination where your partner orgasms through a combination of regular intercourse AND fingers / lips / tongues / toys etc etc then this is simply another way - a GREAT WAY - to please her. Dismissing it as just another "gimmick or trick" is like dismissing blow jobs as just a gimmick. For most guys that "gimmick" provides THE best sensation and the most intense feeling. From my observations the Technique provides the same for women especially when it is combined with a good clit licking - just another trick or gimmick apparently though in your view. Double Geeeez! | |
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| female A-Spot...resurrection
Posted: 10/8/2006 10:35:50 AM | | Well I like tiny women. What I do…. I thrust down with her legs v'd out word, and I hit the A-spot. Her on a pillow me just below her level, and trusting on an angle aim right for that g-spot as described I hit it. And OH man do the love it. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 10:45:17 AM | | I have no clue why you are so worried about the sex lives of others, but whatever works for ya. I think you are well aware what I was meaning and although you don't agree ~ there is a vast majority of women who do agree with me, as is evident in other threads about this and like subjects. I realize that I am not the "norm" when it comes to sex ~ but I do think I am the "norm" when it comes to having orgasms. That is: quality over quantity. It's not a race or a counting game for me. Whatever you find pleasing is up to you. As for your insinuation that digital, mouth, fingers, etc., are gimmicks ~ maybe they are for some. I don't need any of those things. Years of kegels and an innately tuned sense of my own body leaves me in the percentage of women who can orgasm easily and generally at any time I choose. The point ~ we are all different. What works for me may not work for someone else. Your insistence on the subject perplexes me. And for your future educational endeavors, clit licking isn't all it's cracked up to be ~ sorry. The things you mention are merely steroetypical views of sex and what is SUPPOSED to work. For each opinion, there is an equal and opposite opinion. And that is JMO. | |
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| female A-Spot...resurrection
Posted: 10/8/2006 11:01:12 AM | ""Your insistence on the subject perplexes me.""
What perplexes me is the the ratio of people dismissing this technique as BS without knowing, caring or trying.
I agree. Each to their own and every body IS different but to put it bluntly, you my dear, are a freak. Women would kill to be able to cum the way you claim (notice I didn't suggest your claim was BS or you only THINK you're cuming based on sterotypical views by partners who don't know any better - bla bla bla) so you are NOT normal by any stretch of the imagination.
Because the majority of women DO have to work HARD to cum I think giving them one more tool or idea to try that may help is maybe a GOOD idea. Furthermore WHY do you keep insisting you prefer quality over quantity when you haven't tried it. Ever occur to you that you could have both?
Oh and one udder thing. I'd would LOVE to hear you give that. "...things you mention are MERELY steroetypical views of sex and what is SUPPOSED to work." speech when describing women receiving oral sex from their SO. You'd likely get torn to shreds. And that's JMO.  | |
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| female A-Spot...resurrection
Posted: 10/8/2006 12:43:20 PM | ^^^^^^^It's called assumption. I didn't state I haven't tried it. You ASSUME I haven't. Likewise, you assume that ALL women like receiving oral. I can point you in the direction of many, right here on this site, who agree that it's highly overrated and if things are truly working in other areas, it's not a "must have." That is the interesting thing listening to women ~ different types of woman ~ and not assuming anything, you can learn soooo much. Likewise, I have a male friend who has an oral fixation ~ that is his thing, not necessarily hers. He loves it, she could easily live without it. Again, listening rather than assuming. As I stated, more than once. To each their own.
As far as others thinking this is bs ~ of course they do. All people don't view life as you or I do. That is called individuality. I see where you have a couple of "fans" and that should validate you and your opinion. Personally ~ being called a freak by someone who is spreading sexual technique to the masses is not only hilarious, but sort of calling the kettle black, but whatever gives you giggles. I don't agree with you so I must be flawed, wrong, weird, freakish. That is communication at it's finest. Good luck, I've had my fill of the Beginners Guide to the Alphabet of the Female Anatomy. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 1:08:19 PM | A spot .. Ok this would be like finding a puzzle piece , just stick them all in the hole , untill you find A spot that goes in it just fine . A - whore , would be the person who knows exactly what direction , and exact measurments the A-spot would be . A-condom , is something I hate to use because it makes it more difficult to find the A-spot . A - rush of fluids is great , however you will need to wash the sheets A-fterwards . A-jax is what a whore will need to remove all STD's . A-plus , is what I dident make on sexual education class . A-men to every man who can find the A-spot on each and every woman .
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| female G-Spot...
Posted: 10/8/2006 2:33:02 PM | IF YOU'RE AS GOOD AS YOU THINK YOU ARE, WHO NEEDS "G" SPOTS?
I HIT THEM BY ACCIDENT, AND WHEN I DO...........IT'S LIKE THE FOURTH OF JULY!
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| female G-Spot...
Posted: 10/8/2006 3:21:54 PM | The one thing that keeps coming to mind while sifting through this thread is how mechanical it is making oral sex sound.
I for one happen to love more than any other sexual act performing oral sex. I could practically take the rest and leave it as long as I get to do this intimate form of giving.
Here is the part that is missing from this thread. The Groundwork. What do I mean?
The entire woman's body is like a switchboard with many on/off switches. The object before oral sex is to get as many of those switches on before getting to the act itself. I love holding my woman, caressing her face and body, kissing her lips, nose, eyes. Nibbling on her ears, kissing her neck as I work my way down. Usually I will go a half hour warming her up...exploring every part of her body with lips, tongue, and hands except her "main" part.
THEN after she is mentally and physically all warmed up and ready to practicallly gush, I teasingly start to indulge and at this point she is so ready to be pleasured, that the quality of her orgasm's bring her to a quiver over and over. I have a very good technique but it is the "lead up" and connection with her before the fact that makes more difference than any technique ever could...although a good technique obviously is a plus.
Also, all women are different. Some like deep oral, some like hard clitoral stimulation, some like clitoral stimulation just as climax is around the corner, some like soft, kissing type of oral, some like hard tongue action. They are all different and to be good at giving oral, you have to read her signs and reactions. You have to put your heart and soul into it. It doesn't hurt to ask how she likes it either.
Oral sex is an act of connectivity, physicallity, emotion, passion, and mechanics. You have to get her so hot before hand that even her "hair" is turned on. Then look out! A woman, once warmed up, can be quite the handful. But that is a challenge I will take any day.
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Posted: 10/9/2006 9:47:08 AM | Well i've never heard of A spot, but i do find having sex from behind does feel different, almost like you're on the verge of a different type of orgasm, but only happens when it's at the right angle. I've never had an orgasm that way. As for G spot orgasm, that's a hard one to have, only experienced it once. I guess depends on the person you're with who wants to take the time and try, and knows how to stimulate it. I've been told you should move your fingers like you're playing a violin, not rubbing it, but pressing down with your fingers. It's an incredible feeling tho if done right.
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Posted: 10/9/2006 1:57:08 PM | LMAO @ Warmcuddlebear!!!
Well I've had a g-spot orgasm and I must say it's totally different and out of this world. If I was to have an orgasm like that all the time I'd have a heart attack I think LOL | |
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Joined: 6/10/2006
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| female G-Spot...
Posted: 10/9/2006 2:23:36 PM | spoken like a Good Catholic Girl.. lol :)
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Posted: 10/9/2006 3:33:04 PM | they never reveal all their g spots butt its a beautiful thing finding them on your own  then using them against them or to make them forget they are mad or upset at you | |
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| female G-Spot...
Posted: 10/9/2006 3:55:59 PM | Your kidding me!!!!!!!!!........WE have a G-Spot??????......Where was i when they handed those out?????? | |
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ulao
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| female G-Spot...
Posted: 10/9/2006 4:00:31 PM | | Find a guy with a long middle finger and have him face you. Now tell him to motion come here. ;) ;) | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 6:00:50 PM | | OMG Im amazed at the ammount of women that dont (or didnt) know what a G spot was | |
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Posted: 10/10/2006 12:45:21 AM | ""OMG Im amazed at the ammount of women that dont (or didnt) know what a G spot was.""
Not only don't know but don't WANT to or even worse, without knowing, they are still absolutely sure that it is impossible!! Weird.
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892 | |
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| female G-Spot...
Posted: 10/10/2006 4:27:21 AM | | I beleive for most women that the clit is most important in stimulation but the G-spot is about 4inches up towards the front of the vaginal wall. Thats why penetration from behind (doggie-style) is the best way to get at it and men with less than monster**** are still in the running for pleasing their ladies just fine. Of course everyone is different but I think this is probably true for most women. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2006 2:43:05 AM | | This is what I heard of about the G-spot from a female doctor on the net.Stick your finger up a womans vigina with your palms up.Feel for a lump about the size of a peanut.As you rub it it becomes the size of a walnut and it will evenually burst and liquid will gush out.Most women hold back because it also makes them feel like they have to pee.But the doctor said urine cannot come out because of the swelling so she doesn't have to worry about that.The liquid that comes out is cum.It's been tested by scientists.You can find out about this by typing G-Spot on search. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2006 2:53:08 AM | Dave632,it is not that we didn't know we had one,just have not found a man who has found it so thought it was a fairtale
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| female G-Spot...
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Posted: 11/13/2006 3:43:24 AM | Dark ice angel
ya, it does give the sensation that u haveta pee, and some women stop the guy, because they think they ARE gonna pee... and the fluid from the g spot does actually come from the bladder, so even though its is basically a clear liquid, it does have a "slight" urine smell.
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Posted: 11/13/2006 4:07:00 AM | Great....now we have more letters designating spots on people.....
"hey honey you hit my G spot"
"Great sweety but my A spot was neglected"
"Oh sure you selfish man, but you did miss my C spot"
"well now that you mentioned it, my X spot imploded"
Stay tuned for another episode of the Young and the Breastless....... | |
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