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| female G-Spot...
Posted: 1/8/2007 5:26:12 AM | | Hey hockey, I found a 4th wanna try? Oh it needs a name, .. X.. the X-spot. ;D | |
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Posted: 1/8/2007 10:34:23 AM | I like to hit both the G-spot and the clit at the same time. with fingers you can do it with one hand, middle finger on the G and thumb on the clit.
of course fingers for the G spot and tongue on the clit is also alot of fun.
texasbig was bang on, that seems to work very well with the majority of women I have been with
all women are different so its half the fun in trying to find out what they like best to get them off
never understood the guys who dont like going down on a woman and even worse the guys who dont try to find these spots that will trigger an orgasm, I mean why would you not want to get your girl off? I make it a point to get my gf off every time before I let myself get off. It makes it so much better.
I learned alot from my ex, I experimented with everything, unfortunatly she was one of those women who liked sex but was never able to orgasm, feel bad for her that she has never in her life had an orgasm. She is the first girl I met that could not get an orgasm no matter how hard you tried, But we tried everything you could think of and got a good idea on what spots to target and different techniques to stimulate those spots.
now my current girlfriend is another story and I like to see the work pay off  | |
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Posted: 1/8/2007 11:26:06 AM | looks 2 be more then two...enjoy everyone.. see if u can find.... the spots... :hugs: and :kisses:
The Clitoris, A-Spot, G-Spot and U-Spot
In addition to the vaginal passage and its surrounding labia, the female genitals also boast four sexual 'Hot Spots'. These are small zones of heightened erotic sensitivity, the stimulation of which during the mating act helps to bring the female nearer to an orgasmic condition. They are: the Clitoris, the U-spot, the G-spot, and the A-spot. The first two are outside the vagina, the second two inside it:
The Clitoris. This is the best known of the female genital hot spots, located at the top of the vulva, where the inner labia join at their upper ends. The visible part is the small, nipple-sized, female equivalent of the tip of the male penis, and is partially covered by a protective hood. Essentially it is a bundle of 8000 nerve fibres, making it the most sensitive spot on the entire female body. It is purely sexual in function and becomes enlarged (longer, more swollen, more erect) and even more sensitive during copulation. During foreplay it is often stimulated directly by touch, and many women who do not easily reach orgasm purely from vaginal stimulation find it easier to climax from oral, digital, or mechanical stimulation of the clitoris.
An Australian surgeon recently reported that the clitoris is larger than previously thought, much of it being hidden beneath the surface. The part that is visible is simply its tip, the rest of its length – its shaft – lying beneath the surface and extending down to surround the vaginal opening. This means that, during pelvic thrusting, its concealed part will be massaged vigorously by the movements of the inserted penis. There will therefore always be some degree of clitoral stimulation, even when the tip is not touched directly. The clitoral shaft is, however, less sensitive than the exposed tip, so that direct contact with the tip will always have a greater impact on female arousal. Some women claim that, by employing a rhythmic, downward roll of the pelvis, they can create a direct friction on the clitoris tip while the male is making pelvic thrusts, and can in this way magnify their arousal, but this requires a more dominant role for the female, which is not always accepted by the male.
The U-Spot. This is a small patch of sensitive erectile tissue located just above and on either side of the urethral opening. It is absent just below the urethra, in the small area between the urethra and the vagina. Less well known than the clitoris, its erotic potential was only recently investigated by American clinical research workers. They found that if this region was gently caressed, with the finger, the tongue, or the tip of the penis, there was an unexpectedly powerful erotic response.
While on the subject of the female urethra, it is important to mention 'female ejaculation'. In the male, the urethral tube delivers both urine and seminal fluid containing sperm. In the female it is usually believed that it delivers only urine, but this is not the case. When there is an unusually powerful orgasm, some females may emit a liquid from their urethral openings that is not urine. There are specialized glands surrounding the urethral tube, called Skene's glands, or para-urethral glands, similar to the male's prostate, and under extreme stimulation they produce an alkaline liquid that is chemically similar to male seminal fluid. Women who experience ejaculation (which ranges in quantity from a few drops to a few tablespoonfuls), sometimes imagine that the extreme muscular exertions of their climactic moments have forced them into involuntary urination, but this is simply because they do not understand their own physiology. Nor, incidentally, did some medical authorities, who insisted that ejaculating women were suffering from 'urinary stress incontinence' and suggested operations to cure it. (One man recently sued for divorce because he believed that his wife was urinating on him, such is the ignorance of female genital activity.)
It is not clear what the value of this female ejaculation can be, as its occurrence is clearly a little late to act as an aid to lubrication. Vaginal lubrication is, in fact, carried out by the walls of the vagina themselves, which rapidly become covered in a liquid film when female sexual arousal first begins.
The G-Spot, or Grafenberg Spot. This is a small, highly sensitive area located 5-8 cm (2-3 inches) inside the vagina, on the front or upper wall. Named after its discoverer, a German gynaecologist called Ernst Grafenberg, it is sometimes romantically referred to as the Goddess Spot. Research into the nature of the female orgasm, carried out in the 1940s, led to the discovery that the female's urethral tube, that lies on top of the vagina, is surrounded by erectile tissue similar to that found in the male penis. When the female becomes sexually aroused, this tissue starts to swell. In the G-spot zone this expansion rebults in a small patch of the vaginal wall protruding into the vaginal canal. It is this raised patch that is, according to Grafenberg, 'a primary erotic zone, perhaps more important than the clitoris'. He explains that its significance was lost when the 'missionary position' became a dominant feature of human sexual behaviour. Other sexual positions are far more efficient at stimulating this erogenous zone and therefore at achieving vaginal orgasms.
It should be pointed out that the term 'G-spot' was not used by Grafenberg himself. As mentioned above, he called it 'an erotic zone', which is a much better description of it. Unfortunately, the modern use of 'G-spot' as a popular term has led to some misunderstanding. Some women have been led to believe, optimistically. that there is a 'sex button' that can be pressed like a starter button, at any time, to cause an erotic explosion. Disappointed, they then come to the conclusion that the whole concept of a 'G-spot' is false and that it does not exist. The truth, as already explained, is that the G-spot is a sexually sensitive patch of vaginal wall that protrudes slightly only when the glands surrounding the urethral tube have become swollen. Several leading gynaecologists denied its existence when it was first discussed at their conferences, and a major controversy arose, but later, when it was specially demonstrated for their benefit, they changed their minds. Sexual politics also entered the debate, when certain anti-male campaigners rejected out of hand the idea that vaginal orgasm could be possible. For them clitoral orgasm was politically correct and no other would do. How they have reacted to the recent marketing of 'G-spotter' attachments for vibrators is not recorded.
Astonishingly, there have been recent reports that some women have been undergoing 'G-spot enhancement'. This involves injecting collagen into the G-spot zone to enlarge it. According to one source, 'One of the latest procedures to catch on is G-spot injection. Similar substances to those injected into the lips to plump them up can now be injected into your G-spot. The idea is that this will increase its sensitivity and so give you better orgasms.' This sounds more like an urban myth than a surgical reality, but where female sexual improvements are concerned, almost anything is possible.
The A-Spot, AFE-zone or Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone. Also referred to as the Epicentre, this is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner end of the vaginal tube between the cervix and the bladder, described technically as the 'female degenerated prostate'. (In other words, it is the female equivalent of the male prostate, just as the clitoris is the female equivalent of the male penis.) Direct stimulation of this spot can produce violent orgasmic contractions. Unlike the clitoris, it is not supposed to suffer from post-orgasmic over-sensitivity.
Its existence was reported by a Malaysian physician in Kuala Lumpur as recently as the 1990s. There has been some mis-reporting about it, and its precise position has been incorrectly described by several writers. Its true location is just above the cervix, at the innermost point of the vagina. The cervix of the uterus is the narrow part that protrudes slightly into the vagina, leaving a circular recess around itself. The front part of this recess is called the anterior fornix. Pressure on it produces rapid lubrication of the vagina, even in women who are not normally sexually responsive. It is now possible to buy a special AFE vibrator – long thin and upward curved at its end, to probe this zone.
Students of female sexual physiology claim (perhaps over-enthusiastically) that if these four erotic centres are stimulated in rotation, one after the other, it is possible for a woman to enjoy many orgasms in a single night. It is pointed out, however, that it takes an extremely experienced and sensitive lover to achieve this.
It has been claimed that two out of every three women fail to reach regular orgasms from simple penetrative sex. As mentioned above, most of them find that only digital or oral stimulation of the clitoris can be guaranteed to bring them to climax. This must mean that, for them, the two 'hot spots' inside the vagina are not living up to their name. The reason for this, it seems, is monotony in sexual positioning. A group of 27 couples were asked to vary their sexual positions experimentally, employing postures that would allow greater stimulation of the two vaginal 'hot spots', and it was found that three-quarters of the females involved were then able to achieve regular vaginal orgasms.
for guys...
The A-Spot
Some males are jealous that females have a "G Spot" that, when stimulated, results in a high level of sexual excitement and a geyser of fluid called female ejaculate or orgasmic expulsion. Males have an "A SPOT".
It involves stimulating the prostate gland via the rectum. This is done by manual stimulation or gentle use of a dildo or vibrator. The operative word here is "gentle" - the prostate is very sensitive and any rough stuff can be very painful, possibly dangerous. Any way you choose to do it, here are the basics:
Put a condom over your index and middle finger; lubricate them well; touch around the rectum till it is relaxed enough to allow easy insertion of one then two fingers. About 2 inches up the rectum you will feel another sphincter, (ring of muscles). It may take a minute or so for these muscles to relax, then, when your fingers can go up about 3-4 inches, you gently stroke and you will feel his prostate. If is firmer than surrounding organs - feels about the size of a walnut and is very sensitive. Then you crook these two fingers towards his abdomen and gently stroke.
Communication is important here. He needs to tell you if it feels good or if it is uncomfortable, even painful. At the same time, you may be performing manual or oral stimulation on his penis and genitals. In all probability, this will result in a very satisfying ejaculation and orgasm.
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Posted: 4/24/2007 8:41:02 AM | | Why are some woman so scared to be with a guy who might know something about the G-spot it seems. I have read alot about it but when I bring it up I get knock down for knowing to much I think.... help me plz | |
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Posted: 4/25/2007 8:08:25 AM | | Ok heres a question... Are some woman afraid of a man finding there g-spot before they find it them selves????? | |
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Posted: 4/26/2007 2:40:03 AM | It's amazing with all the testimonials and info that there are still so many naysayers and skeptics. Some of the most vocal are WOMEN who claim that NO man could possibly know a woman's body or reactions better than she does herself. This is nonsense of course but I think it still freaks a lot of women out that somebody with a demonstrably good GSpot Technique can take them places they never knew existed let laone had ever been before with any of their previous SO's or dates.
Here is the Technique that works the best IMHO. Quick Back-grounder The G&A Spot(s) are a bunch of nerve clusters which trigger endorphins (natural painkillers) during child birth. These nerve concentrations are below the surface and protected. Keep this in mind when experimenting or doing your "research." The clit is not protected and the nerves are right on the surface. Any guy who tries to handle a clit roughly usually gets a heel up the side of his head. The GSpot is different. Once it has been triggered you can NOT treat it like a clit. Beat it up! Guys have been taught to be gentle with "that " area. Yes for the clit. NO for the G&A's.
Basic Technique ideas:
#1: Make sure she goes for a tinkle (urinates) just prior to this. The best way to “experiment ” is for the woman to relax over a bunch of pillows, face down, bum up in the air and legs comfortably wide apart. In that position with her guy either at the side, straddling one leg or sort of in the middle, the best way is with his thumb - inserted and pointing down towards the bed. If you press the thumb into the vagina until the heel of the thumb is pressing into her lips the GSpot will be right under the fat part at the end of your thumb. It’s no harder to find than that. It is a small bump roughly the same size as that fat part at the end of your thumb too so it feels a little like there’s another thumb pressing back. (ALL women have this - all women may not react the same way) Start to rub it. You can rub like you’re trying to get a spot out - back and forth or sideways or in a circular motion - it doesn’t matter. DO NOT do it too hard at first but once it puffs up and gets a little hard, that's when you can get rough with it. She'll feel like she has to go for a pee about then. Ignore her. Hold her down. Tell her to go ahead. Ladies you aren't going to pee. It just comes from some kind of build-up and "about to release" feeling. Just hang on and tell him harder or faster to increase that feeling.
#2 is: when you've triggered an orgasm, wait about 30 seconds, maybe a minute (no more)and then start again. Just as hard. Right away. It'll happen over and over as many times as you repeat it. DO NOT BE GENTLE !! Depending on what kind of shape she’s in, a slightly longer wait between orgasms is wise(ie. let her start to breathe again). My friends described those orgasms as like being hit by a train. It seems to involve the entire body. If they’ve never had a GSpot orgasm they are going to be amazed. When you do it to them again and again they will be astounded.
At that point an option that they all seem to enjoy is once she knows “that feel” she can climb on and ride you and position herself so that the end of your erection is hitting the same spot your thumb was hitting. She can then have a huge orgasm every few downstrokes and keep that up until she melts or passes out. Then it’s time to cuddle.
The first time or two it takes a few minutes. Once you've done it a few times you can usually get to the first orgasm in under two minutes - no matter what - then repeats every 30 seconds to a minute for as long as she can stand it. An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 or more !!! She WILL have trouble walking the next day but ManOMan is it worth the shakes the next day.
One word of warning, guys, NEVER have her squat over your face, suck her clit and poke her GSPOT with your fingers. She will cum so hard and her pelvic thrusts will be so out of control that she will BREAK YOUR NOSE. Trust me on this. To combine the two (oral on the clit AND Gspot - mindblowing if you can COMBINE both types of O's at the SAME TIME) she should be on her back and your face should be sideways to her. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2007 9:24:10 PM | definately 2,
G-spot stimulation best position doggy style.
A-spot stimulation on back with legs in air preferably with pillow under butt. sometimes any position will do
best G-spot orgasam oral sex with fingers inside curling up (come hither) to brush against it.
It also helps to have a huge G-spot. mine is the size of a 50c piece (really easy to find)
Handy hint: you know when you have found it when she either goes spastic or goes Geeeeeeeeeee | |
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Posted: 5/3/2007 10:00:04 PM | my ex and i in this one specific possition would hit i guess you called it the a spot.
i know when he hits it i explode immidiatly! it's hard to hit. but worth the try.course the man does have to be packin to reach that far. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2007 7:27:33 PM | Handy hint: you know when you have found it when she either goes spastic or goes Geeeeeeeeeee
You know when you've hit it on men.............their legs start kicking like a bullfrog swimmin on his back.........
Ribbet!
Cya! | |
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Posted: 5/5/2007 2:24:06 PM | | I only know about one. LOVE IT!!!! LOVE IT!!! If there's more, I can't wait to find it! | |
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Posted: 5/5/2007 5:07:51 PM | ""Why are some woman so scared to be with a guy who might know something about the G-spot it seems. I have read alot about it but when I bring it up I get knock down for knowing too much I think...""
Weird isn't it? I think the GSpot Technique is THE greatest thing since V12's yet this thread keeps getting lost out past pg 13 or something. The people who have never experienced this or been with a partner who knew how to do this properly are THE most vocal on insisting that it is pure fantasy. My thread on LIT which deals with the GSpot in ALL it's variation is approaching 320,000 reads and has rarely been off pg one for 4 YEARS now.
In here, only a very few know anything at all about G's or A's and get all confused between prostate GLANDS in men and nerve clusters in women. Even more perplexing - only a very few seem to WANT to know.
Strange crowd indeed.
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892
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Posted: 6/17/2007 1:54:15 AM | | my boyfriend and me we have lots of fun with my spots lol | |
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Posted: 8/18/2007 4:19:24 PM | | isn't a g-spot where a woman tells you to put your hands then she either moans, giggles or possibly both? maybe it's where she dreams of you touching her. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2008 11:14:56 AM | | This appears to be an old thread, but it contains a lot of excellent info for those who wish to learn more about Female Ejaculation..... | |
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Posted: 4/23/2008 8:50:57 AM | | Ok im confused,A spot fine thats up the bum,G spot yes its there somewhere....but where the hell is the B,C,D,E and F spots,im buggered now .Ive only just found the bloody clitoris. | |
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Posted: 4/23/2008 2:11:13 PM | Heavens, Wilkie...you're still young....Just look at how much fun you can have practicing, practicing, practicing....until you're perfect.
(However, it might help a bit if you did all that practice with the same lady!)
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Posted: 4/23/2008 2:25:15 PM | KNITTEN, it's called "RESEARCH."
And Wilkie should be commended for discovering THAT. Consider how many men go through LIFE not even caring WTF a clit is let alone where it might be found.
I agree about the same lady thing too. MUCH more fun IMHO to know a woman so well you can figure her moods (and what she needs) just by her taste! | |
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Posted: 4/23/2008 3:30:08 PM | Dave:
They can call it whatever they wanna call it....and, the "RESEARCH" should be ongoing...until they've got it down pat....
As far as lack of interest in this type of thread, I'm not so sure it's as much lack of interest as it might be either lack of interest in letting others in a public forum know that they don't know anything about it or, on the other hand, that they DO.
I came across the information at another site and, knowing NOTHING about it, looked at the links provided, just as I read the links you provided. At this point, I have learned quite a bit about it and have even discussed it with men, who, by the way, asked me about it and were appreciative of the information I gave them. (So far no man has "RESEARCHED" it with ME , but when the right one comes along, we'll do fine.)
I have a feeling that many more are reading than are posting....and, I expect that it won't be long before they might dare to post. At least those who claim it doesn't exist, now have all the information you gave them to indicate that it DOES.
Again, I commend you for excellent information, and (can't take the Editor OUT of me), for the way in which you present it. It is truly a pleasure to see quality, serious, mature, adult posts that, if your instructions are followed, can certainly lead to "serious pleasure"
Fondly,
Knittinkitten
PS. I just tried to email you, but, apparently, I'm too OLD???? | |
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Posted: 4/23/2008 10:26:37 PM | | the only way i know to make a woman cum is to is to find that g-spot and I heard the g-spot is a $1000 isn't it. And I will tell you what they see that and boy you never seen a girl get that wet.... No hate mail just a joke | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 12:12:26 AM | Yup...learned about the G-spot about 10 years ago..really nice! Combine the G-spot and clitoral stimulation..Oh WOW.....ummmm..now there is a U spot...A spot...ummm..must remember this thread and print the excellant educational posts if I ever get in a relationship again that leads to lovemaking.
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Posted: 6/7/2008 9:36:42 AM | Well, try combining the G Spot AND Tantric lovemaking.....and then, you've REALLY got something. There's a thread on here about Tantric and it's VERY informative..
Hell, I can't help it if I've still got an "inquiring mind"
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Posted: 6/7/2008 6:14:43 PM | ""fact: no matter how savvy a man thinks he is on the female anatomy....women know more about their body""
How silly.
By the number of posts on this GSPot thread and several others that I know it is OBVIOUS that a very high percentage of women DO NOT KNOW about their G or A Spots. SO if a guy DOES know about them and how to stimulate them properly and she doesn't, HOW do you and WHAT do you base this statement on???
Maybe THAT attitude is what prevents many many women from orgasming until they get into their 40's or 50's or they just NEVER CUM - EVER. Because if they're not lucky enough to find a guy who knows what he's doing and SHE doesn't know then nuffin's gonna happen, is it?
Perpetual ignorance is NOT bliss. It's just dumb. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 9:34:23 PM | Hi Dave:
You're right on again, as usual. I'm receiving many requests from women who want to learn....yes, they seem to be in their 40s or thereabouts. It appears that some of the young ones don't believe the G-spot exists....(What they don't know won't THRILL them, I guess.)
But, you will be happy to know that many men are also messaging me for the info. They are taking great interest in working with their women to achieve this....I applaud all of them for having inquiring minds....
I'm even getting "Success Reports"...and, I didn't ask for any. Can you imagine if Tests were conducted????? I'm thinking the scores sure wouldn 't look like a bell curve
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