| female G-Spot...
Posted: 6/9/2008 7:26:25 AM | You - we - should ask for "SUCCESS REPORTS" There is nothing more encouraging for those thinking of trying this than reading what others have thought of it.
There's also nothing more effective in shutting up the "experts" who have never found the GSpot, don't even know where to look or how to stimulate it properly yet seem to be authorities on the fact that the GSpot does NOT even exist. They base their "expert" opinions on others who also haven't ever found one and wouldn't know what to do if they did. I've posted a Technique that has proven efficient and highly successful for many many many couples and I'm told that it is BS by people who readily admit they've never come close to finding one or have never been able to find their own. I've suggested, in light of how much pleasure this can bring when it works, that that attitude is moronic. So the best way to show HOW negative and WRONG that ( "ain't no such thing") attitude is is by posting success stories by people who have tried it or discovered it on their own decades ago and enjoy multiple massive G-Gasms as part of their everyday lovemaking.
Try this and report back ....
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892 | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 6/9/2008 10:56:17 AM | I agree, Dave, I don't see a problem with posting some anonymous statements in the replies that I have received...If they had wanted to post and reveal themselves public, I believe they would have done so.
But, all my replies have either been inquiries or success stories.... I'll be back ASAP...but, not until, at least, tomorrow.
KK | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/8/2008 4:53:11 PM | Well done Jenny4 - sometimes you have to spell it out !! - to guys and girls
I agree - it is absolutely sensational | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/12/2008 9:51:39 AM | Since sex is a major part of a great relationship, and the men that I have chatted with want to know how I feel about sex I tell them I am a very passion filled women and if they can trip my trigger I can be all theirs. But so many say I can make you scream, can they really well I am NOT going to persay check them all out but I know in my last marriage I should of checked out alittle more. anyone can talk. My point is MEN you do it right and baby I'm yours forever! lol You give your woman the BIG "O" and she will love sex forever!    | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/12/2008 10:55:37 AM | | Dave, great info, thanks. Another technique for hitting the G-spot is with her on her back, insert one or two fingers into her vagina, and curl them upward along the pubic bone. The G-spot is very close to where the top of the pubis meets the belly. Then simply apply a little external pressure to her belly, just above the pubic bone. It's right there just as you described; round, about the size of a quarter, spongy, and protruding slightly. You can use this technique while stimulating her clitorus with your tongue, with some wonderfully intense results. Enjoy. | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/12/2008 12:20:45 PM | god this so great this is good stuff ill be a lickin machine at this rate oppppppsss now ill i need is a woman lol  | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/12/2008 12:33:48 PM | | Wow, y'all, it has been a long time for me, hehehehe, I knew about the G spot but I learned something new today. I'm enjoying sex ed class, something I can use down the road, lol. | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/13/2008 12:09:48 PM | WIndy, yup variations abound. The specific Technique I advocate though is based on many more than one G-Gasm. The cum-hither is fine for a few but your fingers quickly tire and your wrist and back of your hand can cramp. NOT a good thing when she wants to keep going.
With the woman face down and using thumbs the wrist can lock and from there you are using strong joints and arm and shoulder muscles that will not cramp like fingers or wrists. You can go for an hour or more. If a lady has the choice between a few orgasms and 20 - 30 or 50 (or more) of them and we're not talking quantity over quality - these are THE best - then she'll want to keep going.
""You can use this technique while stimulating her clitorus with your tongue, with some wonderfully intense results.""
Save that for the grand finale. Flip her over and combine a good tongue lashing with the last G-Gasm. If you can time BOTH to fire together her brain will feel like she has a Saturn 5 launching from inside her head!!! I've been told from many feedbacks from women that that combo is THE best orgasm/g-gasm possible. | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/13/2008 10:31:22 PM | Hey Dave; I was just offering up an alternative; you know, mix and match, change things up a bit, etc. I'm definately going to give your technique a "thorough review." You are right; the technique I described can get fatiguing. What I do like about simultaneous oral cliteral and manual G-spot stimulation, is the ability to extend an orgasm for a very long time. There was one night I thought I had given her 4-6 orgasms; and when I asked her how many times she came, she answered in a very weak voice, without moving, "That was just one long one," LOL.
Using your technique; are you able to "regularly" give a woman 20+ orgasms? If so, that is impressive; I've only been able to pull that off a few times. Have you tried one of those G-spot vibrators with the large ball on the end? If so, what did you and she think? I haven't tried one yet; and, given that you do use a much more aggressive technique with the G-spot than you do the clitoris, I was wondering if vibration worked as well as, or better than, straight manual massage.
Last question, HOW do you "time BOTH to fire together"? Is she telling you what to do, and where; or do you (and she, LOL) just get lucky occassionally? | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/13/2008 11:46:54 PM | | As a career amateur gynecologist, i can suggest an erotic delight by using both the G-spot and the A-spot when following this pattern: first the G, then the A, then back to the G...this results in a pleasurable howl called GAG. | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/14/2008 6:25:18 AM | Damn Ive been having rubbish sex.... I just about have nipples and a clit!  I believe your man Dr Grafenburg or whatever his name was, said not all women had a G-spot.... I must be one of those... | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/14/2008 7:19:47 AM | I wasn't criticizing Windy ... just pointing out the diff between he two. There are many other variations. They are ALL fun to research. She will likely tell you that different angles, pressures and frequencies will change the "feel" of the orgasms.
A nice relaxing way to G a woman is semi-spooning. Just go a little lower. Your face should be around her mid back and then your thumb should be in the perfect position to poke between her thighs and bury that puppy.
In my limited "research" I found the women I G'd were comfortable having a dozen or so a night. Any more and they were TOO exhausted the next day. Of course with several days off we enjoyed the occasional marathon where 30 or 40 + was a normal run. Our (the wife) record was 42 and that was over about a 5 hour period so we weren't rushing things. We left lots of time between them so she wasn't completely fragged the next day - but she was anyway. I've had feedback on the TRY THIS who said that over a hundred G-Gasms were their upper limits for a marathon.
We never used vibrators or the G-probes. I always preferred the FEEEL of her. I could determine exactly what state she was in from what I could feel through my thumb. There is a pre-orgasmic muscle contraction that signals the onset of another one and from there you can up the frequency and pressure to maximize or customize that particular G-Gasm. I think the longer G-Probes are the only way to properly stimulate the "A" Spot because it is so deep in the vagina. I don't know if you've played with that but the ASpot is the likely culprit when some women "complain" of anal orgasms - poor things.
Again feedback from the TRY THIS is my only ref. to the effects of actual vibrators and I haven't read that they produce any degree of enhanced orgasm than what a fast moving thumb can do. Other individuals will, of course, disagree.
The combo Clitoral/Gspot timing? The women I've been with were fairly long-term (one was 21 yrs) and if you're watching all the signs - the breathing, the abdominal undulations, pelvic thrusts etc you can gauge pretty accurately how far away a clitoral O is. The G is easy. Get it firing and you KNOW the next one is only about 5 seconds away when you start again. So the method I have used was: get the G firing and then back off, work at the tongue lashing and when that is only a few seconds away start her on another G. I always found that one will trigger the other or vice versa. At that point who cares which one starts a 1/4 of a second earlier than the other. When she starts to orgasm don't forget - NEVER STOP until she either runs outta air or make those little sounds that means she's reaching saturation and really NEEDS to stop.
*WARNING & DISCLAIMERS*
* Be careful that your face is somewhat side-ways to her pubic bone when this is happening. She will be completely out of control at that point and a pelvic snap could also break your nose.
*If she tends to be NOISY when she orgasms also be aware that using this technique on her for the first time will likely result in neighbors phoning the police to report a murder or worse. Some women will scream from start to stop. They are NOT faking.
*Do NOT do this if she has an existing heart condition or any other condition that could result in death if she is physically stressed.
* Have LOTS of TOWELS under her. This combo Technique often results in the much sought after but highly over-rated phenomena called, for lack of a better term - FEMALE EJACULATION. Depending on the time you took during foreplay the amount of fluid expelled by some women is sufficient to extinguish a moderate sized California wildfire!
Soul,
Many many women have never been "educated" as to the location of their GPots or the proper way to stimulate it. You're not alone. Also my non-medical guess is that if you can orgasm then you can G-Gasm. Be grateful for that. Some women (rare) have conditions that render them incapable of orgasming at all - ever. | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/14/2008 7:31:57 AM | | Just a comment regarding the 'A-spot'. Yup, there is a lil tiny nodule about the size of a cherry pit way down in the vagina that you can reach if you use your middle finger (im telling this to the women too lol) that of course, is on the opposite wall that the g-spot is on. BUT,,,there is also another hot spot which is one of my personal faves that i use myself along with clitoral stimulation and that is 'just inside' the vaginal opening towards the anal area (you have to actually angle your vibe so its facing in that direction). Absolute HEAVEN when used along with a bullet on the clit and for me, i can reach my O like *snaps fingers'* that! | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/14/2008 7:55:43 AM | ""there is also another hot spot which is one of my personal faves that i use myself along with clitoral stimulation and that is 'just inside' the vaginal opening towards the anal area...""
Amazing what happens when ya get feedback on a topic. People suggest all kinds of new techniques and places to explore. A very few of the sexperts now admit that although there is little medical / anatomical "proof" of a Gspot "something" must be there because of the numbers of women now reporting these massive orgasm when certain spots are stimulated properly. Their best guess is that there are several nerve "trunks" (plse don't think of an hephalunt here) that are all clitoral based but traverse the vaginal area for some weird unknown reason. My non-medical uneducated guess is most of them are endorphine trigger points that have existed for millions of years and assist in childbirth. Luckily for most women these trigger points are also hardwired into the ORGASM center of the brain .... ( a WOOHOOOO seems appropriate here). Just as some people have hyper sensitivity in one region of their bods and other don't (think ticklish) it appears some women have much more developed nerve "trunks" in their vaginal areas.
This sharing of knowledge, techniques and areas to explore is GREAT. Not only do people who don't have a clue and never have learn something (s) new but even those who have discovered this years and years ago are always learning new stuff.
RIPLEY, can you describe the O's you get from this spot/area? Does it feel G-Gasmic or clitoral .... or something quiet a bit different from either?? | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/14/2008 8:55:34 AM | Hmmmm Dave,,,,its sorta likeeeeeee,,,,hmmmmm,,,like a clitoral O x3! When i feel it comng on i just cant get enough of it it seems! It makes me press into that spot harder and harder and hmm,,,the position im in it makes me lift higher and higher! lolol Feel kinda funny saying that out loud! hahaha  Its DEFINITELY not a 'quiet' one but for me its stronger than a G-spot O. My G-spot O's tend to totally totally give me a feeling of euphoria ~ like it just totally relaxes me and gives me a feeling of melting (my whole entire body as its happening), if that makes any sense! lol | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/15/2008 12:41:05 AM | Agreed, it is always fun to learn new techniques; I thought I was fairly knowledgeable, but was not familiar with your G-spot technique; and had never heard of the A spot. Now I've got two things to explore; I just need a gf to do it with, LOL. Who says you can't teach an old dog new tricks; and people actually have to ask if sex gets better after 40?
I wasn't aware that the "sexperts" were still denying the existence of the G-spot. Heck, you can feel it; and for sure any woman can tell you when you hit it. These are probably the children of the sexperts who denied PMS was a real phenomenon; and the great grandchildren of the sexperts who thought masturbation led to insanity. Do you know where that came from? These rocket scientists observed that psychotic patients in an asylum masturbated frequently; and deduced that had to be the reason they were psychotic. If they'd been watching my house they would have simply deduced that it caused you to stay up late typing. 
I'm going to try a thread on the G-spot vibrator thing, and see if anything develops. | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/15/2008 2:06:38 AM | Three things. Ripley is suggesting another "mythical" place that triggers O's of even higher intensity than clitoral Orgasms. Cool. The G and A orgasms are almost universally described as WHOLE BODY O's though and far more exhausting / satisfying than the more localized but still FABULOUS clitoral O's.
I oft quote the (in)famous Dr Hines (Google him) who sez,"
""Finally, it should be pointed out that the issue of the existence of the G-spot is not just a point of minor anatomic interest. As noted, the G-spot seems to be widely accepted as being real, at least within a sample of American and Canadian women.4,11 If the G-spot does not exist, then many women have been seriously misinformed about their bodies and their sexuality. Women who fail to “find” their G-spot, because they fail to respond to stimulation as the G-spot myth suggests that they should, may end up feeling inadequate or abnormal.
Two conclusions emerge from this review. First, the widespread acceptance of the reality of the G-spot goes well beyond the available evidence. It is astonishing that examinations of only 12 women, of whom only 5 “had” G-spots, form the basis for the claim that this anatomic structure exists. Second, on the basis of the existing anatomic studies reviewed above, it seems unlikely that a richly innervated patch of tissue would have gone unnoticed for all these years. Until a thorough and careful histologic investigation of the relevant tissue is undertaken, the G-spot will remain a sort of gynecologic UFO: much searched for, much discussed, but unverified by objective means.""
*****************************
In summation, the GSPOT is a MYTH. The one RECENT study which concluded with finality that GSPOTS did NOT exist was conducted on 13 CADAVERS and failed to discover any (mentioned above) increased innervation in the "suspected" areas of the vagina. In other words the chicks were somewhat UNresponsive.
HA. "UNverified!" Read the posts on the TRY THIS thread if you want VERIFIED.
Go figa!! 
""OLD DOGS NEW TRICKS""
It is obvious from posts on the TRY THIS thread on LIT that the older a woman is (past about 35) the easier it is for a first-strike as it were on her GSpot. Younger women seem to have to work at it for awhile. Past 35 or 40 and it is almost a gimmie on the first (second, third, 20th ..) attempt. If they've never felt a G-Gasm before it is a frikkin epiphany for them. They weep, they shudder, they buy you a car ....
When you said that FOR SURE ANY WOMAN CAN TELL WHEN YOU HIT IT is true usually but some women take a long time especially the first time to trigger whatever it is that happens in there that reacts. Coincidently some of the most impassioned arguments AGAINST the existence of any G or A Spots come from women! I can understand men denying it. They've never found it and wouldn't know what to do if they did. For the most part those are the guys who think ALL sex involves their di¢k so ... little wonder they're clueless. Women say that NO MAN could possibly know more about their bods than they do. Completely silly. How does one LEARN if they've never been taught. The GSpot is inside so unless she has done extensive self exploration (and why should she - the accepted FACT is there are few nerve ending IN the vagina) and stimulated the area properly NOTHING is going to happen anyway. If she's never been with a partner who KNOWS this stuff then she won't know it either. THOSE women are the most vocal and insistent that GSpots DO NOT / CAN NOT exist because, .... well, ... because they've never found one .. so there.
History.
Didja know that at the turn of the 19th / 20th centuries a woman ""claiming" to orgasm was thought to be utterly delusional. They suffered "hysteria" and need to be probed by doctors (hence the invention of the vibrator) but women did NOT have the ability to orgasm. That was a medical FACT.
Don't forget to come over to the TRY THIS and say HI too. It is JUST a multi-room forum, not a dating site but the HOW TO room is pretty sane and the members there are some of the nicest on the Net.
BTW, Windy ... small world. My one failed relationship since Sue died was a lady from Gilbert. ...nearly moved there ... we were almost neighbors.
RIPLEY, does the (we need to have a name for the new SPOT - like going through names for hurricanes) SPOT you describe need the same type of stimulation as the G/A Spots? Or is it hyper sensitive more like the clitoris?
Wouldn't it be great if some moronic scientist-type could actually do some REAL research into area innervation, map it somehow and determine once and for all the methods needed to stimulate it PROPERLY (very different from clitoral stim). To allow this knowledge to become COMMON so ALL women and men know about it from a young age and have the pleasure ALL their lives would be a huge accomplishment. I've tried to do that on my TRY THIS thread but it lacks any actual scientific research so it is anecdotal at best. Still, I've had couples in their EIGHTIES PM me and say the Technique worked for them and they feel like they're teenagers again. Good for them but think of what they've missed over the last 65 YEARS or so!!! | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:31:39 PM | ripley,
I have never personally found the A-spot. Though, I may have bumped into it a few times .. lol ... How would you describe the feeling of an A-spot "O"? Is it a euphoric feeling that with every bump, sends a shockwave from the inner vagina through to the chest/neck area, leaving you breathless, making your neck arch, etc?
The description you gave for the G-spot O is exactly how it is for me also. You are very good with your descriptions and information.. thank you  | |
|
| G-Spot...
Posted: 7/16/2008 7:51:58 AM | It is fascinating to read posts from women who KNOW their G, A and other spots and can describe the unique properties of EACH type orgasm from each source of stimulation. There are so many men and women who have never discovered these things and are missing out on such a fabulous way of driving your woman absolutely nuts EVERY time you make love.
It's kinda sad though that the average poster / reader in these threads really show very little interest in this type of information and prefer the mindless banter that goes on with threads like the "Who's in the box above / below me and what would I do to them?" Oooh the complexity of those threads! The details, the fantasies ... just has me quivering here.
NOT!!! | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/16/2008 11:41:50 AM |
RIPLEY, does the (we need to have a name for the new SPOT - like going through names for hurricanes) SPOT you describe need the same type of stimulation as the G/A Spots? Or is it hyper sensitive more like the clitoris?
Dave....i really dont know what to call that spot! hahaha But i can definitely feel the vibration 'back there', since ultimately i am pressing on 'that' wall. The more i press, the more intense it feels. I dont need to go deep down inside,,,just barely inside the vaginal opening but instead of going towards the G,,,im going totally opposite towards the anal wall. Wow,,,pretty graphic huh? lol The vibe i use is just a small one..about the length of my middle finger and not much rounder but very very powerful (only has 1 speed ~ HIGH! lol)
Hi Tangerine..... Yeahhh,,,isnt that euphoria feeling on the G just soooooooo nice?! I tend to get a bit lightheaded too (if im sitting 'on' my vibe, i almost feel like i could fall off the bed lol) Sorry being so graphic,,only way i can describe it! lol  | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/16/2008 5:29:02 PM | | I would say two spots...one is in and up in more of a curve...but when pushed back and all the way in... it deffently is an A hhhhhhhhhhhhh spot | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/16/2008 8:07:54 PM | ""Sorry being so graphic ... ""
Geez, last time I checked this was a SEX discussion on an ADULT site. Anybody who can't take some frank and descriptive language in here needs to get a life! Besides if you type words like **** and ******* and *** the room censors you anyway which is dumb IMHO. A sex discussion where you have to type peni$ like this or everybody has to guess what you're trying to say. | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/17/2008 11:15:20 AM | ooooh Ripley, sounds like you have a blast. Hey, falling off the bed isn't such a bad trade off for a mind blowing "O". I haven't personally rubbed my own G-spot, I've only had someone do it for me. I guess it's time to get a vibe. Right now I don't have anything electronic. It's not easy finding a small vibe. Everything I've seen is supersized! I'm thinking you have a pocket rocket? I've been told to get one of those.
| |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/18/2008 5:48:44 AM | I bought mine from an adult store a few towns away. Its called The Hustler Rock It - Waterproof Vibe. lol It also has 3 lil metalic like nubs on it which kinda gives it the extra 'bzzzzzz'. haha You want a good vibe for the g-spot? Buy 'The Tongue II'. All's i can say is Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!! lol
hehe | |
|
| female G-Spot...
Posted: 7/22/2008 9:57:30 AM | The MOTHER of ALL VIBES is s'posed to be the Panasonic (Vanabrator? Panabrator? something like that ...) and that has a GSPot hookie type attachment so not only can it shatter concrete but with this penetrative attachment you can right in there and do the deed - or so it's claimed. SO far I have received NO feedback on that particular machine. What I have got from feedback is that vibrators do NOT do a lot for the GSpot stimulation. A few have said they HATE it because the buzzing just doesn't achieve the same level of deep stimulation that a thumb or a curved probe accomplishes. They have said that the buzzing is annoying / distracting so unless you have a mechanical probe that mimics the forceful IN - OUT movement needed then it's probably a pass.
There are no doubt women who just LOVE vibes on their GSpots too ... just saying what I've read.
If you want to learn how to use your thumbs in a way that beats hitch-hiking or telling people to get off your land, try this :
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892 | |
|
Home
login 
