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 SlyKnight
Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 526
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I misread the topic title... I thought it said 'sex with mirrors'. That would be way more interesting :)
 spoooler
Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 527
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/28/2007 5:04:00 AM

what could a 17 year old have in common with a 25 year old? other then their horny and want to have sex


Well I know it is a little late but you are an idiot Mahogany Rush. I mean really.... there are heaps a 25 year old has in common with a 17 year old! Half the 17 year olds around are more mature than 25 year old males anyway. The age barriers are not that large you know... I agree with the whole 'leave the kids to be kids' but at 17 I was living alone and fending for myself in a different state to my family. As far from a kid as you get! I think some people take it to far in my opinion....
 spoooler
Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 528
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/28/2007 5:16:49 AM

also in Australia you have to be 16 to be legal to have sex


In Australia it is legal for a girl to have sex at 16 IF the guy is no older than 18..... if he is 19 then it is statutory rape. 18 years is the 'no holds bared' age of concent. I know because a couple of years ago, a mate of mine in Sydney was going out with a 17 year old when he was 19 and the parents had him charged with stat rape. He got of the charge and they are now married but man.... Christmas with the in-laws is a bit awkward! Ha ha!!
 rez8
Joined: 12/24/2007
Msg: 529
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/28/2007 6:19:47 AM
Although there are alot of girls under 18 who look act and dress like 25 year olds you better find out for sure how old they are before messing with them. Even by mistake it will ruin your life. There tons of ladies over 18 looking for love. No need to mess with minors who dont even know themselves yet. You are also ruining their lives. Treat a kid like a kid and an adult like an adult. Respect is key.
 mahogany_rush
Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 530
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/28/2007 6:43:15 AM
Spooler is it? I can see that evolution wasn't kind to you , I don't where you crawled from but you need to get a life Sport.

Just because a 17 year old girl can imitate a woman doesn't mean that she is a woman, she's a minor plain and simple, I can make mango chicken, doesn't make a chef.

In this neck of the woods, most 25 years old guys avoids 17 years old girls, not because of the legal ramifications of this type of relationship but how the two of them are going to look like big freaks at the prom.

If you want to date 17 years olds because you think they are mature enough, go for it just dont be surprised when one of those girls father strings up by your nuts or you end up wearing state property as a guest of government ...freak.
 ponygirl
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 531
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/28/2007 8:54:17 AM
I can't believe that bunnni chick said that!! With all due respect - what a ho ho!! lol - but take a look where it's coming from ...

I am 30 and i have found that there's NO WAY that a 17 year old knows enough to know if they are capable of handling sex, a relationship, and EVERYTHING that comes from any single one of the things aforementioned - I know I didn't. I also remember swearing up and down at the time, that it ALL made sense at the time - and what a fool I was. Thank god I made it out of my teenage years without permanently damaging my life by having a kid et all.

The fact of the matter is it takes all types ... it just depends on the intelligence (truly) of the person ... while I still agree that at 17 there's no way for that kind of intelligence to be there no matter what they have been through or have learned. You know it and so do I ... here's the worst part of it all. No matter what advice we give anyone as far as this subject is concerned, we already know what happens next:

The 25 year old won't listen (becase he will be too concerned with his little head instead of realizing that a child is STILL a child until they are at least 21 - and that being said by a Canadian where the legal limit is 18), he will seduce her, she will fall for it (being still innocent in the head) and after it is all said and done and she is our age, she will think back on it all and hold her head down a little because she will realize that maybe that wasn't the smartest thing to do (in shame) ... even though what bunnni said applies in real life (unfortunately) ... I wish we could change the world (as we both obviously have a good grasp on what is right and what is wrong) - but relaity would state ... it has happened a thousand times over ... :(.

It sickens me too. If I could only go back and change time with what I know now ... here's to having the age to have the maturity and wisdom to know our own faults. I feel bad for the younger generations than we are. Kids don't know what it is like to be kids anymore. They don't know it but it's true. I just had a little boy 1 1/2 years ago, and watching him grow is sooooo nice but I fear for him when he's a teenager if this is what it is like now.

I remember a time that they didn't even say "****" on TV ... I miss it. Sad ...
 ponygirl
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 532
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/28/2007 8:56:30 AM
... at least there are guys like you who know the difference!! Good job!!
 treblecane
Joined: 6/2/2006
Msg: 533
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/29/2007 6:10:24 PM
one of my ex boyfriends was 8 years older than i. we started dating when i was 17 but due to location issues we didn't have sex til i was 18 anyhow... my parents met him, liked him, were fine with the situation. i think it depends a lot on the maturity level of the people involved. we were together for a year, and in the end, age was one of the reasons we split -- i was a freshman in college, he was 26 and looking to get married soon. very different mind-sets, led to a split...
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 534
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/29/2007 6:36:37 PM
meh! if both parties are consenting, why do we need to care? We should really learn to be less nosy and mind our own business.
 misplacedyankette
Joined: 10/9/2007
Msg: 535
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/29/2007 9:02:01 PM
its very simple...its disgusting for anyone of an adult age to be attracted to a minor. Simply disgusting.

to the person above me, according to your comment, say a 14 year old came on to you, was dressed provocatively and was willing to have sex with you, a 33 year old man. Thats ok with you simply because she is willing?
 trueserenity
Joined: 8/30/2007
Msg: 536
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Posted: 12/29/2007 9:11:47 PM
I cant even imagine where some of you ppl come from.."if they bleed they can breed" let me say this you are sick..
I have a daughter wo is 15 and if any grown man even looks at her in sexual conten let it be know there is nothing more fierce then the love of a mother.. need I say more and the sme rings true for my sons who are 18 and 17 let me see son nasty older ho try to touch my boys..
the comments stating its ok you are either F***ed in the head or you have no children and if you do have kds I do feel so bad for them..
 heyitsme590
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 537
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/29/2007 10:51:22 PM
I think that when someone is 17 years old they know exactly what they're doing. They know about sex and are not as easily vulnerable as younger ages. :D
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 538
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/30/2007 2:04:01 AM
Right, so a 17 year old should be denied her right to choose who she wants to be with just because some total stranger feels that it is inappropriate by his/her own standards?

Talk about meddlesome!
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 539
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Posted: 12/30/2007 2:22:57 AM
***Just replying to the first post.

Heres my opinion. Nice and simple. If it looks like a woman, talks like a woman and walks like a woman. Im attracted. If a woman walks by me and has hips and breasts, my genes tell me "Hey, theres a woman, follow her with your eyes in a creepy fashion." I can't help it. Any problems these days that people have with sex and the age it should happen at is just them fitting into their society nicely. Not only in the past but in the present there are cultures that accept sex at any age so long as it is consentual and honest. And thats how it should be.
 acute_stimulus
Joined: 11/18/2007
Msg: 540
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/30/2007 6:32:34 AM
Coal miners never; they are waaaaay to dirty.

Most people are looking at this from a male stalking the female. What if it's the other way around? What if SHE is after an older guy? Still wrong? Ladies, did you date/marry an older man? Things look a little different now, don't they?
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 541
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Posted: 12/30/2007 6:56:00 AM
That reminds me of those news story you hear like "13 year old boys teacher molests him" and it turns out being this drop dead gorgeous older woman. HAHAHAHAAHA. MOLESTS!!!! A woman HAD to have written those headlines. A gorgeous woman cant MOLEST a 13 yo boy! Thats ridiculous. All 13 yo boys should be so lucky! Imean... those stories are the most ridiculous things Ive ever heard. Do these retarded people actually think these young men didnt enjoy the hell out of it for every second? Good lord... if only I had teachers like that when I went to school. Id have probably been a straight A student.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 542
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/30/2007 8:36:16 AM
Ignoble, when I was 13, I had fantasies that my hot young teacher would get hot and heavy with me! I think the problem here is that after the poor teenager had that gorgeous teacher, nothing else would do and he was ruined for life.
 sweetkisses1970
Joined: 8/12/2007
Msg: 543
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/30/2007 9:03:51 AM
A friend of mine , her 13 year old thought she was so in love with 19 year old guy parents did not know , they thought he was 17 high school senior, she got pregnant he tried to make her lose the baby by hitting her in the stomach 4 months along by than, parents pressed changes got order of protection after child born did he get the hint to leave alone nope again parents had to get him to court (girl not adult) spent year in jail learn his lesson no stalk her agian parents had him arrested jail 3rd time, girl is now 19 regrets the situation admits she was not an adult, now she her own little girl to protect (almost have 5) guy got out nov now she scared that he will find her......... Lot of little girls and boys think they are grown up but when trouble starts they run to momma
 ~curlygirl~
Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 544
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/30/2007 9:08:15 AM
legally in canada the general age of consent for sexual intercourse is 14. those under 14 but over 12 can legally have sex if their parter is under 16 and less than 2 years older. the age of consent for anal sex is 18 (although both the Ontario and Quebec courts of appeal have struck down that section of the criminal code, it still remains on the federal books).

personally i think 14 is waaaaay too young. my personal rule is no one under 18, not that i make a habit of going for men quite that young anyways. while i have gone out with younger guys, anything with the word "teen" attached to it makes me a little uncomfortable.

of course the 14 year old might have a different perspective. i had a conversation with a friend last night about his first time...it seems he was 14 and she was 34. he's now 24 and 6'9", so i can only imagine he was very tall and developed at that age...but he states that he disclosed both his virginity and age to her prior to having sex. i dunno how she was able to wrap her head around that and be okay with it. of course he was thrilled about the experience.
 mahogany_rush
Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 545
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/30/2007 10:01:17 AM
And what is more bizarre is this
The Criminal Code does not now criminalize consensual sexual activity with or between persons 14 or over, unless it takes place in a relationship of trust or dependency, in which case sexual activity with persons over 14 but under 18 can constitute an offence, notwithstanding their consent. Even consensual activity with those under 14 but over 12 may not be an offence if the accused is under 16 and less than two years older than the complainant. The exception, of course, is anal intercourse, to which unmarried persons under 18 cannot legally consent, although both the Ontario Court of Appeal(3) and the Quebec Court of Appeal(4) have struck down the relevant section of the Criminal Code

yeah that makes sense? WTF so what it boils down to if you're a socially inept, loser, dirt bag, piece of shit, as long as you are not in authority, or dependency You can do it with a teeny bopper
 misplacedyankette
Joined: 10/9/2007
Msg: 546
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/30/2007 11:10:40 AM
acute stimulus: Most people are looking at this from a male stalking the female. What if it's the other way around? What if SHE is after an older guy? Still wrong? Ladies, did you date/marry an older man? Things look a little different now, don't they?


A responsible adult could control his/her body, actions when confronting a minor CHILD. I dont care if they "look" like an adult or said minor is the one that instigates the flirtation, the adult needs to ACT like an adult, not like a CHILD just out to get laid no matter who it is or who it hurts. This idea that putting a 16 or 17 year old on the same playing field as a 27+ year old man/woman is ridiculous. I have a daughter who is 19 now, I can see differences in the last year to two years in her maturity, in her decision making...at 16 or 17, mature or not, they have no business playing "adult games" and its quite disconcerting that so many people (men predominantly) seem to think that just because a CHILD is willing to have sex with them, that makes it ok and everyone else should just mind their business. Grow up, youre still acting like a child, much more immature and irresponsible than the CHILD you seem to think its ok to have sex with. I would venture a guess in saying that most of you wouldnt feel that way if you had a 16 year old son/daughter who had a 30 year old adult trying to sleep with them, and if you say youre ok with that, you have no business having children.
 nocalsingledad
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 547
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Posted: 12/30/2007 1:25:37 PM

having sex with a 17 year old is not acceptable


It is in most states of the US 17 year old girls are allowed to have sex with whomever they wish. The age of consent is 18 in only the following: Arizona, California, Florida, Idaho, North Dakota, Oregon, Tennessee, Virginia, Wisconsin, and for US citizens outside the US except US military (16).

So in most areas of the US a 17 year old female would be able to have sex with whoever she wants. I live in a state where the age is 18, I attend a week long arts festival in a neighboring state where the age is 16. Most of the attendees are from California, where the age is 18. Often times parents will get upset when they find their 16 year old daughter in a compromising position with a 21 year old hipster and want to press charges only to learn that if it was consensual, they can't.
 crayonzz
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 548
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/30/2007 1:32:53 PM
This is NOT a 25 year old man, with a dozen sexual conquests under his belt, trying to hit on your six year old daughter.
When I was 25 I had a crush on every unnatached female from 17 to 27.

My first girlfriend was 17 when I was 25.

I was a virgin at the time. She had first tried sex age 13, had several dozen lovers since then and had miscarried aged 15.

If your daughter is vunreble at 16, and still under your protection then what kinf of a mother are you? What HAVENT you been teaching her. She's goign to be on her own, in college in two years time.
Or did you think that kids suddenly, magicaly, trasformed into adults age 18. Get real.

My brother left home, to take up his first job, age 15. Sixteen/seventeen is not a child.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 549
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/30/2007 1:40:44 PM
What's the big difference whether a 16 year old has sex with a 17 year old or a 30 year old. It's still sex. It's like saying that one is different from another. As for a 14 year old, she's probably not quite ready for sex whether it be with a 15 year old or a 30 year old.
 crayonzz
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 550
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/30/2007 1:56:49 PM
Here's a wierd twist.

A couple of idiot politicains in Austrllia two years ago "decided" that the country had a "fertility crisis" and started offering a lump sum baby bonus of about five grand.

Not big money to a 30 something professional woman on eighty grand a year, which was the main target of these pollies, but a fortune to a 13 year old schoolgirl.

You guessed it. A whole horde of these schoolgirls started havng one nighters purely to get themselves pregnant and clain the baby bonus.
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