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| Sex with minors I think this is unacceptable
Posted: 12/7/2008 12:52:26 PM | Did I say it proves maturity? I'm pretty sure all I said was that young people having sex can be mature.
That's ridiculous - saying I can make mature decisions automatically means I'm immature? I hope the same goes for you. So how about I ask you if you think you're a mature person, and you can either a) say yes, and prove yourself immature, or b) say no, and do the same.
Meh. I go to work, I act responsibly, I pay my bills and treat people with respect. I think things through before I do them and have happy relationships, and when I do make a mistake, I can take responsibility for it. That's good enough for me. Of course, I did say that if anybody COULD come up with a definite list that applies to everybody they should, not that it was possible, which was entirely my point. | |
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| Sex with minors I think this is unacceptable
Posted: 12/7/2008 1:04:20 PM | | What im saying is, most mature people dont have to say or prove they are, it just goes without saying.. I dont see what the argument of maturity has to do with children having sex with men who should know better. | |
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| Sex with minors I think this is unacceptable
Posted: 12/7/2008 1:15:17 PM | ^^
I dont see what the argument of maturity has to do with children having sex with men who should know better.
the sexism continues, this is not a one-gender issue..I seem to recall SEVERAL high-profile cases where FEMALE middle-school & junior-high school teachers had affairs with male students who were 13 or 14 years old..one even got her 14 year old "lover" to murder her husband.. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2008 1:34:57 PM | | I think Bunni's reply was terrible plus if you are going into the medical profession you had better learn to spell field!!! To heck getting someone like you to talk to if anything was wrong with my life geeeeeeeeeee | |
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| Sex with minors
Posted: 12/7/2008 2:31:12 PM | Why is it different for an adult female to have sex with an underage male? Because men don't get pregnant. Sex has a different significance for men and women at any age. The risks are not the same. Physically or emotionally.
I think a lot of men can't understand what the fuss is about. These kids and their teachers. Are the teachers maybe "odd"? Maybe. Those boys look happy. They got some social worker filling their sorry, malleable brains with crap about how they have been exploited and damaged. I had sex with a girl of 18 when I was 13. Which kind of predisposed me towards older women. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2008 2:52:07 PM |
The only reason i clicked on it was because I thought it said 'sex with mirrors'. I thought it said Sex with Miners. I thought the profession might actually pay off.
Too funny, I thought it said said "Sex with Mirrors" too. I thought how prudish. I'm glad I'm not the only blind one.
I dated a few older men when I was younger. I didn't have sex with them though so not sure if I can give input here or not. They were a bit more protective then the guys my age were but I had more fun with the guys my age. They were not sexual perverts, actually they put less pressure on me then the guys my age. In retrospect, they probably looking for someone to look up to them and the girls their own age weren't doing it but considering I dumped them too they weren't getting very lucky with the next gen either. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2008 3:07:44 PM | | Police were cruising past a known paking spot and see a car parked, in the front was a young man reading a magazine and in the back a young girl, knitting, bit unusual they thought so pulled up... Lets see your ID said the cops to the young man and when it was passed over said, how old are you, he said 25,... and how old is the girl. The young man looked at his watch and replied - in 20 minutes she will be 18. | |
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| Sex with minors I think this is unacceptable
Posted: 12/7/2008 3:45:52 PM |
What im saying is, most mature people dont have to say or prove they are, it just goes without saying.. I dont see what the argument of maturity has to do with children having sex with men who should know better.
It's not like I walk down the street telling random people. It doesn't strike me as totally unreasonable that I might respond to a post about my entire age group being immature with a statement about my own maturity.
Maturity has everything to do with it. Certainly, an immature teenager shouldn't be having sex, but neither should an immature 28 year old. | |
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| Sex with minors
Posted: 12/8/2008 7:42:28 AM |
Why is it different for an adult female to have sex with an underage male? Because men don't get pregnant. Sex has a different significance for men and women at any age. The risks are not the same. Physically or emotionally.
I think a lot of men can't understand what the fuss is about. These kids and their teachers. Are the teachers maybe "odd"? Maybe. Those boys look happy. They got some social worker filling their sorry, malleable brains with crap about how they have been exploited and damaged. I had sex with a girl of 18 when I was 13. Which kind of predisposed me towards older women.
the fact is, it is still ILLEGAL for a grown woman to have sex with a 13-year odl boy, in almost all jusrisdictions.
also the fact of 'happiness' does not enter into it; in most cases 'underage' ('minor') girls were very happy to have sex with older guys as well..
it was only their PARENTS who objected, likely, when they founf out about it.
that's why they call it "statutory" rape..meaning the persons are considered too young to give informed consent.
in most cases it was not 'forced rape' as you might think of it, the girls (or boys) were quite 'willing' partners..
also, most of those girls would be taking BC pills, so the risk of pregancy wouldn't be as huge as you make it out to be.
"emotional" risks? ahh, the good old "GENDER STEREOTYPING" again..that boys don't get emotionally involved, while girls do.
maybe YOU didn't; that doesn't mean that ALL boys do not..
the 14 -year old boy that a female teacher was banging in Maine got so 'emotionally involved' (he was 'in love' with her), that he murdered her husband , at her prompting..
("for" her, so they "could always be together")
too bad for him, shortly afterwards she dumped him and tried to blame the killing entirely on him, to the police & courts. | |
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| Sex with minors
Posted: 12/8/2008 10:02:10 AM | Msg. 861. Your points are well taken. But birth control pills don't ameliorate genetic imperative. How could they? Human behavior doesn't change that fast. I don't advocate legalizing sex with minors. But, yes, I do think that it is different for men. Or boys as it were.
We are simply one dimensional impregnators with a severely limited capacity for empathy and we have no nuance. Or at least I am that way and you are not. Anyway, at least I lost my virginity that time. When I was 13. I couldn't wait! I was in a hurry to grow up. And look! I'm still a little boy. | |
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Posted: 12/8/2008 10:23:49 AM | | Ahhh!!! Error!!! thought the post said, " Sex with Mirrors!!" | |
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Posted: 12/8/2008 10:27:02 AM | ^^^^^^^^^^^that "joke's" been done at least 6 times in this thread ^^^^^^^^^
look at msg 858 right above you. it wasn't funny the first time. | |
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| Sex with minors
Posted: 12/9/2008 8:35:57 AM |
We are simply one dimensional impregnators with a severely limited capacity for empathy and we have no nuance. Or at least I am that way and you are not. Anyway, at least I lost my virginity that time. When I was 13. I couldn't wait! I was in a hurry to grow up. And look! I'm still a little boy
bodypro8, you might have a good point IN GENERAL, but some boys do get attached.
there was a case in Alberta this past year of a married female high-school teacher who was having a sexual affair with a 17-year old male student of hers (which she denied in her disciplinary hearing, bu the 100's of sexually-charged e-mails and notes, letters, etc. between the 2 of them certainly suggest otherwise..)
when her husband discovered the affair he confronted her and she broke it off with the student
he (the student) then committed SUICIDE..(which brought the mess into the public eye).
I would say that it seemed he DID get 'emotionally attached' to her, no? | |
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| Sex with minors
Posted: 12/13/2008 12:45:51 PM | One more well made point on why minors should not be having sex, and unscrupulous desperate adults should not take advantage of them.
Claiming that a minor is mature for their age is no excuse to get in the kids pants. | |
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| Sex with minors I think this is unacceptable
Posted: 12/16/2008 8:55:25 AM | Personally I think any adult that wants to have sex with a minor should have their head candled , what kind of bull sh1t is that? and the old oh they are mature for their age is load of crap, THEY ARE STILL A MINOR .
Its just creepy. It’s easy to see what a barely legal person sees in an older person (or think they sees), but what makes a adult decide to forgo everyone in his/her age group for a teenager who basically just learned to drive?
It is disgusting that some members of society expect a teenager to know better than a adult. In the end it comes down to this: What is worse? Having sex with a charming older person or an older person having sex with an inexperienced teenager ? Either way, the answer is the same: Any sexual relationship between two people of completely different levels of life experience is unacceptable. Thus, the responsibility should be placed on the adult. | |
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| Sex with minors I think this is unacceptable
Posted: 12/16/2008 10:08:35 AM | | If an adult thinks its ok to have sex with a minor, they should also realize what they may think is a fun time can also be considered a crime and rightfully should be punished for it. A minor may think of the pleasure but an adult should think of the consequences. | |
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| Sex with minors I think this is unacceptable
Posted: 12/16/2008 10:09:18 AM | | If an adult thinks its ok to have sex with a minor, they should also realize what they may think is a fun time can also be considered a crime and rightfully should be punished for it. A minor may think of the pleasure but an adult should think of the consequences. | |
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| Sex with minors I think this is unacceptable
Posted: 12/16/2008 5:02:52 PM | UGHGH!!
why is this thread still ALIVE?!?!?
For FU*KS SAKE! IT's WRONG TO DO TEENS!
THAT IS COMMON SENSE
the men that are here justifying it are pederasses, and the people who keep keep this thread alive are being redundant.
STOP!
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| Sex with minors
Posted: 8/28/2009 12:27:06 PM | | Disallusioned is right depends on the country and laws, i am 37 and i like 30 to 40 my self, but remember judgemental people are well look at the last word of judgemental (closedminded)( OPEN UR MIND) how aboutt worring about unity, and liveing, and economy, finding your soul mate , happiness. worry about things when its proven and convicted. dont get me wrong there deffineately are limitatioins some should require instant death but worry about the big things | |
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