pfishy
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Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 76 | |
| Older women younger men
Posted: 4/4/2008 12:15:30 PM | | I think its a great idea! I have always enjoyed the company of older women, especially in a more intimate setting. Not just for sex of course. All of these immature 20-something women just don't have the culture or the class that I am most attracted to. | |
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pfishy
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Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 77 | |
| On my list of things I'll regret....never experience a 20 something in my 40's.
Posted: 4/4/2008 1:04:08 PM | Ha ha! Sweetie, you're missing out. I'm only 23, but I love older(40-something) women. Its not just about sex, although the extra 20 some years of experience does make it sooooooo much better than with the girls my own age, but just being in a relationship with someone mature and cultured has proven to be much more rewarding. My last serious relationship was with a 43 year old woman, and I enjoyed her company greatly, and she also liked the idea of "showing me off'" to her friends and bragging about the night before and so on. She also had a 19 year old daughter, but my age was never an issue.
As for you, you are an attractive woman, and I would be more than willing to show you what you are missing, not that you seem to be really interested judging by your profile and the fact that I cannot message you directly. In the off chance that you read this, drop me a line! There is nothing wrong with just saying "hi", right? | |
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Posted: 4/13/2008 4:04:15 PM | Well susu 1wa, I am almost 60 and think your idea is great!! I am hit on by younger men all the time and I'm no bathing beauty, but I am alive and vital and full of energy and plan to stay that way for a long time to come  
I see no reason why women of your and my age shouldn't date any age we want.. it is no longer about how long we have lived, but how we want to live in the future and what type of person we want to live that life with. I have a number of friends that have married younger men (anywhere from 7 years to 24 years younger) and they all have wonderful partners and are still happy. All relationships take work, I don't think age should be an issue.. it is only if you make it...
So I say.. go for it and plan an activity.. if is in the north area (Everett or there abouts) I'll go.  | |
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Posted: 4/16/2008 12:40:39 AM | | older women are awesome!!!!!! ever since i was way younger i always wanted older women! | |
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Posted: 4/16/2008 7:36:43 AM | | It has crossed my mind lately to look for a woman older than me. I am not quite sure of a number though. As long as she knows I have a 6 year old, I am definitely interested in dating and even getting in a relationship with her as long as everything is right. | |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 1:00:40 AM | | I agree with Angelwinz, Everett area, great - we have a young friend in common:-) | |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 3:47:14 PM | and such a fun friend he is too
Hey, are you going to the POF meet and greet in Marysville next Friday? Email me, I'm bringing some other friends too. It will be a blast.
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Posted: 4/20/2008 9:42:17 PM | | There is just something sexy about an older woman. The way they present themselves, confidence, maturity, always a good thing. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 10:48:14 PM | Wow! I cannot believe this thread is still going after so many months. A couple of months ago some artsy, fartsy movie amatuer said I had nothing valid to post. Obviously, he cannot appreciate an older woman. He strikes me as the aging 48 year old who dates twenty year old blondes until they realize that he cannot keep it up for more than a couple of minutes. Lets hear a great hurray for all those wonderful younger men with stamina and enthusiasm. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2008 12:17:31 AM | GO COUGS...oh wait..this isn't a football convo?
sorry wrong forum..
I just noticed that 
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Posted: 5/20/2008 9:53:07 PM | | Ok..I have a question....I haven't responded on this subject at all because I didn't fit into the 'older woman' category....but how old should you be to be considered an 'older woman'????? Just hit 30 and hopefully that's still considered young...but just making sure! | |
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Posted: 5/20/2008 11:00:28 PM | I tried match.com (my sons suggestion) I put in ages 56 - 64 because I am 57 and proud of it. I found they were looking for a life partner, someone to spend the rest of their lives with, just not what I was interest in. My ex is 62, left me last yr. for someone 15 years younger, had been retired for a year, now had to go back to work, has had 2 heart attacks in the past, loves to fish, no time, has to work. I'm thankful everyday since he left, we had nothing in common, just figured that's all there was to life.
Joined fish, put in 45 - 57, wow, it's great. Most men writing are mid 40's. I have spent the last 32 yrs. running my busineses and raising 4 wonderful kids, never time for me or to experience everything life has to offer. I made it clear in my profile what I am not looking for.
I don't need a man financially, don't need someone to take care of me, my kids are raised, I have grandkids, not interested in raising anymore.
I want to experience all I have missed, I want to learn all that I have yet to learn, I feel age is but a number, it's all about chemistry, I have made many wonderful male & female friends thru this site, for me, dating younger is fun, I am a people person, love to laugh, live a bit on the edge and do not see a number when dating. (my sons might, but it's now my turn to live) and live I am.
It's not about sex, money, children, it's about two people enjoying each others company and making the most out of life as they possibly can.
I don't want to date only one man, I want to meet many, as they will all have something new to teach me - scuba diving, (golf-yuck) sailing, hiking (I consider that a walk on the beach) horseback riding, introduce me to the world of art, so much to learn and trying to get it all in before I no longer can.
Again, age is but a number, dating whatever age, older or younger, make the most out of every minute of everyday. | |
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Posted: 5/22/2008 8:50:43 PM | As seattleartist put it, women in their 40s are prime. as for some of us we dont look our age and still have beauty. As for me I dont act my age, I still think and act like I am in my 30s,it is all in the mind. I am 45yrs and that sounds old to me!! Many say I dont look my age, so would fit in with a younger guy.
For me I think age is not an issue if two can still be at he same level, same interests. | |
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Posted: 5/25/2008 12:27:33 PM | | I for one love older women and would like to find a way to meet more of them interested in younger guys. I would definitely be up for speed dating, and are there any suggestions out there of where to go to meet older women who might be interested in younger guys? | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 3:23:49 AM | Hi there, there are definitely sites out there available to help you. In recent years it seems that the issue of older women dating younger men has really taken off, and society doesn't see it as a taboo issue nowadays. There is a site called cougared(dot)com that is great for meeting younger men, and at the last count it had over 5,500 members. It would also be the ideal kind of site to advertise a speed dating evening for older women and younger men! | |
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Posted: 6/2/2008 5:25:37 PM | | I hate the "C" word. Makes it sound like we are a bunch of predatory animals out there to devour Bambi. I was getting information on some of those so called speed dating events but they cut off at age fifty for the women but not the men. When I sent an email to the coordinator, she stated that older women were only welcome on a case by case basis and if they were in shape and active. Whatever that means. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 8:24:29 AM | | The word "cougar" is insulting. It implies something predatory, which in most cases is not true. Like many of you, I get IM's or email from younger guys. These run the gamut from those who are obviously hoping for something easy to ones who seem sincere. I do not initiate conversation with anyone more than 5 years younger than me. Why? It's probably a combination of me thinking they couldn't possibly be interested or that they have young kids at home or that they've never had kids and may want to. I don't have any restrictions on who may contact me other than married because I have an open mind and don't want to limit a possibility based on age or location. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 11:01:21 AM |
The word "cougar" is insulting. It implies something predatory, which in most cases is not true
I think we are dealing with two different concepts here: older women who want to date younger men, and are looking for the same things in a potential date that others are looking for regardless of age; and older women who are hunting for younger, hot-looking guys for a quick, meaningless fling, in the same way as a cougar hunts for its prey. I would refer to the former set of women as "older women who want to date younger men", and I believe the latter women would aptly be described by the term "cougar". I don't know whether there's enough anecdotal or empirical evidence to determine which type is more prevalent. but I've seen examples of both.
I believe any dating medium of the likes proposed by the OP should be careful to differentiate which type is which. I don't think there's anything wrong with either one as long you're clear about what it is you're looking for. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 6:42:43 PM | How old is an older Women? Someone asked this a page or so back? The Answer is: ANY AGE, OLDER THAN YOU. I have been reading these posts and would just like to let you all know that in my city, I know three married couples, that have a 20 to 30 year spread in age. I met them all 15 to 20 years ago and when ever I see them, they seem happy and devoted to each other as the day I first met them. One of the husbands who is so handsome, is active in complimenting his wife whenever the occasion arises and he is so polite. I noticed one evening out, he had to turn almost around in his chair to talk to another person and he turned back around to her and said, "Please excuse my back honey". She is always in his thoughts. He is 19 years younger than her.
I believe that all of us are on a different plane. Some of us have evolved more than others and if we align ourselves with others that have attributes which we ourselves have or would like to have, we will find harmonic compatibility, no matter what chronological age two people are.. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 7:24:51 PM | | I am trying to date the old fashion way. I haven't found anybody I am interested in for about a month, but I am finding myself looking at mid to upper 40's instead of low to mid 30's. It is a maturity issue here. | |
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