| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 9/14/2007 4:05:03 PM | Depends on the woman.
While most women appreciate some kind of intellect, it is important to remember that they are more social creatures than men. Sometimes, in the beginning at least, relating to them is enough. Be open and share your self.  | |
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| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 9/17/2007 1:59:35 PM | | In reply to this:"Does a womans heart lend itself to being touch through acts of kindness, and tenderness?" Yes. They should be unexpected, random acts though.NOT ones with hidden motives. | |
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| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 9/17/2007 2:10:34 PM |
If you can hold an intelligent or playful or ridiculous or a basic interesting conversation, you will likely get my attention.
If you cannot communicate or connect with me
you wont ever get close enough to my heart for it to matter.
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| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 11/27/2007 10:03:06 AM | You capture a woman's interest and attention through her mind.
You capture a woman's heart and love by being open to show that you care.
You do both by just being truly yourself, many women are perceptive enough to know when it's contrived or trying to be or say what you think the other person wants. | |
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| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 11/27/2007 10:08:19 AM | | I think it depends on what you mean by her mind. Do you mean intellectual conversation? With some women, yes, and with others, no. Do you mean acknowledging and valuing her opinions/thoughts? I think all women like to have that and I do believe it leads to the heart of a woman. I also think it something overlooked by a lot of men. | |
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| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 11/27/2007 12:16:41 PM |
I ask this question so that I can better understand what woman think on the topic. I do have my own opinion, but ladies I'd like your input. Does the mind lead to the heart of a woman? Does a womans heart lend itself to being touch through acts of kindness, and tenderness?
Good question. I've decided that my heart and my mind both have to like a guy. My minds looks at the compatibility....values, lifestyle, personality, like and dislikes, can we have good conversations, is this viable for a long term relationship, etc. My heart sends out the love vibes and waits to see if anything comes back; if my heart is feeling warm and fuzzy about a guy, that's a 'yes'. My mind and my heart have each found guys they like, but never the SAME guy.  When both my heart and my mind are happy with ONE guy, he'll be the one. | |
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| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 11/27/2007 12:42:45 PM |
I ask this question so that I can better understand what woman think on the topic. I do have my own opinion, but ladies I'd like your input. Does the mind lead to the heart of a woman? Does a womans heart lend itself to being touch through acts of kindness, and tenderness?
Your kidding right? Lol… 
I sat here for the longest time really thinking to myself, this must be a trick question, because most guys usually want to get into the pants first, and who even cares about the mind second! Lol…
I think that if a man really focuses on listening to what a woman is saying, instead of half listening… you know what I am trying to say here, we’ve heard it a million times, and have it constantly thrown in our faces and with the hand movement to go along with it (we yak too much, yak, yak, yak) Our constant chatting supposedly drives our men over the edge, blah, blah, blah. Chat, Chat, Chat.... I ‘ve heard this myself many times throughout my entire life from co-workers, from church members, from the check out line from others.
I don’t think men really care about a women’s mind at all. I still think this is a joke. If they do care, it’s because 1. they feel that they have to, so they can have their own way. 2. if they don’t let her talk, they won’t be able to get out with the guy friends. 3. Listen to her, so once down the pants who cares about her mind!
If you’re a rare man of your species as your words appear. I need to see your papers please. 
Thank you,
Chela  | |
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| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 11/27/2007 1:13:48 PM | Welcome to Lalaland.The way to a woman's heart is through her ears.The way to a man's heart through his eyes. To every nice guy,good guy, great guy out there, who are asking the same question: Why do women pick losers, players, users, bad boys, liars, cheaters,etc.The answer is very simple. THEY ARE WAY BETTER AT TALKING TO WOMEN, THEN YOU ARE. I would probably leave women's mind out of this one.When a woman is in love, THERE IS NOBODY HOME. Have you ever tried to convince a woman in love, your mother, sister, best friend,etc about her not so good pick?Like it or not, it is a fact.Love is blind and stupid. Logic and rational is gone.If women are really as clear and sure as they seems to be, about the men they want, Then why are they ending up with something completely different?AND they are.There are plenty of forums to prove that point.If you have any doubt about this,maybe a DR.PHIL book would shake you out from your delusions. (Love smart)  | |
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| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 11/27/2007 2:06:05 PM | I agree with most...depends upon the woman...
With some it's through the mind...
others...good looks....
still others...the amount of money, and the instant gratification that can be bought...
and still others...all the previous, and more...more...more!
The last one...I'd already be long gone from! | |
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| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 11/27/2007 2:16:14 PM | | I can't speak for all women of course but in my case, you'd better have something under the hood before I'll bother taking you for a test drive. Afterall, you could be gorgeous but still dumb as a rock. If that were the case, you wouldn't hold my attention very long. | |
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| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 11/27/2007 2:56:43 PM | | Always, 100% I fall for a guy because of their personality. That's not to say that looks don't matter, but in a relationship I always start of liking a guy a little then become to really *fancy* them only when I know them well, and get into their personality. Then the little things about them which might appeal (like their eyes and that cute little dimple!) just become more magical. I don't get this 'instant attraction' thing that I've heard men talk about. For me it's a slow burn, which turns into a fire, and then the fire lasts long. | |
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| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 1/16/2008 7:37:02 AM | | imho the way to a woman's heart is that she finds your mind beautiful. she will want you to be able to see all of her, not just her body, but her mind as well. it is quite something when a person "gets" you, meaning your connection includes intellect and understanding, and acceptance of that mind. for me I know I feel respected and loved when he sees who I am, not just for what I look like on the outside, but on the inside as well. | |
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| Is the way to a woman heart through her mind?
Posted: 1/16/2008 8:03:33 AM | | Yes, the way to my heart is through my mind, and acts of kindness and particularly tenderness in a big ole manly man works, but going through my mind also means conversing with me in an intelligent manner, being able to discuss life and events and feelings, etc. with me on a regular basis. | |
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