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Posted: 12/5/2007 2:41:24 AM | do some research into essiac and a nurse called rene caisse
hope it works for y'all
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| my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do
Posted: 12/6/2007 12:47:17 AM | | thank every one of you agian.and biker i will not get any thing in the will.he didn,t really have anything.and what little he did have his mom n dad and brothers and sisters will get it.but i don,t cear about a will. | |
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| my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do
Posted: 12/6/2007 3:01:45 AM | Dear Cindy,
I have been in your exact situation.. The pain is beyond words.. I would do what is best and pray for him. The torment you will endure is horrific if you go back into this honey.. Best Wishes and God Bless You..... Renae | |
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| You have the answer you just need to acted on it
Posted: 12/6/2007 3:23:05 AM | | The first thing you need to do is have a long talk with the good Lord upstairs,,The answer you are looking for is in your heart from him..Someone dieing is not a payback.Thats eazier for someone else to say when their not standing where you are listen to your heart and the answer you will find..My parsents divorced 3day before their 24 wedding Anv. Fight for years us kids had to spend Christmas eve with one the Christmas day with another till they made peace..My family was able to spend 4 Christmas and other times together before our Mom went home to Heaven even after all the fighting both remarried.But on that day my dad was the last person to say good bye to her...Whats in the past is there but what time we have left on earth needs to be used to help when we can ,love when we think we can't.and be there for someone no one else will be there for,We never know when it could be us where your X is right now.God be with you and your family in this time I've been there and seen the pain but the love is stronger then you think... | |
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| You have the answer you just need to acted on it
Posted: 12/6/2007 8:45:13 AM | | thank every one of you.thank you star.you seem like a very nice lady.biker he did beat on me not on his childern.he never beat his childern.yes he did do some bad stuff.but he did have alot of good ways to.and he was loved.as far as a will thare was no will.he didn,t have any mony or property.all he had was a cell phone and a few things like that.his own personol stuff that his family got.but i don,t cear about any thing like that.thank every one of you. | |
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| my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do
Posted: 12/6/2007 12:11:23 PM | Please PLEASE think long and hard about this. I been there did that and am still doing it. I have four sons that are out on their own, and my ex got sick so I took him into my home and put my life on hold. He had not changed in fact he had got worse. Now I have no way out I can not ask him to move out he has no place to go, and what would I be teaching my sons about ture love , family,and being a caring person. If I would have never let him move in I would not be where I am today. I also think I have lost a really nice guy for asking him to understand about ex moving in and not dating him like we used too...Please think about it before you make a move. Nothing says you can help him he is the father of your girls. Help him with food, money, clean his place take him to Dr,BUT no way let him in your home.
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| my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do
Posted: 12/6/2007 12:26:41 PM | Can you people not read? Her ex has passed on...quit giving her advice about leaving him, caring for him, etc................
Hang in there Cindy.. | |
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| my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do
Posted: 12/6/2007 12:53:57 PM | | bury him...if you still cared for him maybe you shouldn'have divorced him...what do you want from us? My husband died of cancer, I certainly would not have gone on the internet to ask what I should do... | |
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| my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do
Posted: 12/6/2007 6:25:42 PM | | I commend you for your desire to help your ex, despite the fact that he beat you, but It sounds to me like you need to worry more about yourself and your children than him. Some people mentioned that perhaps he wants to die, in which case, you should just let him be, because it seems he's only interested in bring you down with him. My advise would be to "suck it up", make peace with him, and whether he's willing to return the favor or not, turn around and don't look back under any circumstances. At the very least, you will walk away with knowing you'll be able to begin anew once he finally does die. He is the one who will have to deal with his own decisions, not you. You have been through enough pain and heartache with him, and now its time to start looking forward to whatever your future holds for you. Hopefully it won't be more of the same. Best of luck to you. | |
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| my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do
Posted: 12/6/2007 8:44:31 PM | | thank you vixeneyes.love is i didn,t want the divorce.i had no choice in the matter.you must not know what real love is. and biker i can,t belive you are so heartless. | |
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| my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do
Posted: 12/7/2007 10:54:23 AM | | forgiveness is hard to do sometimes.but think of your children.let him stay with his mom but let your kids visit him.you have known him for a long time . how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot. sometimes life gives you bad sitsuations. it's how you handle them that makes you stronger.good luck to you. i know you will make the right choice. | |
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| my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do
Posted: 12/30/2007 8:09:32 PM | Catherine,
I enjoy reading your thoughts......
a high 5 to you!!! you are soooo right...money means nothing at these times and unless you go through something like this you are totally clueless to understand...........Faith in God or whom ever is your Higher Power belief..........
if I knew 3 years ago that I would have buried my ex I would have said..."what??" but I did and I would do it again........he had no will,no insurance and plenty of debt which I found out after..........but I came out pretty Blessed....for I have 3 great ,awesome sons! | |
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| my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do
Posted: 1/1/2008 7:33:07 PM | | You have to live with whatever decision you make for a long time. While I agree what goes around comes around and not always in this lifetime. Your compassion for another in their time of need is not wrong. Despite what he may have done in the past he suffers now. your reward is in Heaven not on earth. If you are prompted by the Spirit to extend him grace in his time of need then you should follow that prompting. God will bless you for your heart. Mimi | |
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| my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:29:47 PM | Cancer is a very devistating illness to have...and there is obviously more to the story...
Why do you feel responsible to take care of him? (just curious) cause with children in the house...you have your hands full already.
Where are your priorities..ask yourself.
I can tell you that I would not subject mychildren to an alchoholic - period!!! He is making choices that are not healthy for himself. Are you obligated to take care of someone that is not trying to be healthy for himself?
SUGGESTION:
LOVE THIS PERSON, SUPPORT HIM FROM AFFAR, AND PRAY FOR HIS SOUL !
and that's it!
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