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Posted: 12/19/2007 5:06:37 PM | I just want to add if women want to get Fake breasts thats their choice..If I had money I might think about it, but not BIG,just add a bit....but I know for a fact,you sure don't need BOOBS to get places...I am average size,and I do really well... He He!!..personal choice...
Most men love big boobs,I dont get why,as all it is, is FAT or FAKE!! ...YUK! to each is own i guess... tc  cheers!! | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 5:20:28 PM | | rosesforyou: Mate female body image seems to be the theme of the day here. I suppose that panders to the question, why women feel body image is so important and don’t they realize that if a guy truly likes you is, it is as is? Fake boobs or not only makes me think that women feel they need a prop to attract a partner. Breasts are a nice thing to look at, there is no doubt there, but the misconception is that guys are shallow creatures. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 5:30:54 PM | Did you just say that YappleDapple?.....Is it a misconstrued idea that men are shallow creatures? Weren't they proven to be the most visual of the two sexes?
If two women walked by in wet t-shirts and one was an A cup and one was a D cup, who would get the comment?
But you're right.....everyone should be happy with their image.....and if someone thinks they need to have surgery to achieve that happiness-go for it.
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Posted: 12/19/2007 5:57:31 PM | happyrebel: if you are referring that men can become sexually aroused though visual stimuli, then this is a proven medical fact. But there is the misconception, to what do guys get aroused too. In the example you gave, most guys would give you an appreciation of both women in terms of what they found arousing. Personally for me it would be an appreciation of the total package of both and not a specific body part. To that end it is shallow to think that breasts on their own are what all men are looking for.
While the visual is a natural body function, to say that is all that arouses men is a fallacy and hence shallow. I fell that too much importance is placed on body image as character weighs just as much in my impressions as the visual. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and therefore a subjective thing. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 6:06:29 PM |
rosesforyou: Mate female body image seems to be the theme of the day here. I suppose that panders to the question, why women feel body image is so important and don’t they realize that if a guy truly likes you is, it is as is? Fake boobs or not only makes me think that women feel they need a prop to attract a partner. Breasts are a nice thing to look at, there is no doubt there, but the misconception is that guys are shallow creatures.
Not just with breasts. I think when it comes to any cosmetic surgery, wither it be on a female or male, the question is why did the person get that done to begin with. I agree with you that someone will find a person attractive, wither they are large or small breasted etc. The thing too though is, how does the lady herself feel. There are some women who have posted and do say they would get the surgery done because it would make them feel better for themselves. I don't have a problem with that, if it's something they truly feel will make them happy.
To expand on my personal feelings as to why many women do get all kinds of different enhancements done to their bodies is this. Women I think are a lot more competitive amongst themselves just as guys can be in different ways. Women know that most men are attracted to certain things looks on a woman. Slim body, large chest, long hair, pretty smile and so on. I think the main reason women get all the surgery done is not just about looking good for what they think men want to see though. My feelings are women are very competitive among their own sex and they want to feel more pretty then other women they might see when they go shopping, or other women in there daily life. If a woman feels that she has the looks going on and is a "cut about the rest" in her appearance, then she will feel more confident in herself and attract more men also in the process.
Ladies, am I right on this one?
I feel there is some truth to that. I do not believe that women who get breast enhancements and other surgery, only do it for men. Women do this mainly for themselves for the reasons I list above I feel. I'll be the first to admit that looks do matter to me a lot when it comes to finding the right woman for me. With that said though, I would not see it that it's being shallow. It's just facts that as the other poster said, men are more visual and tend to focus on looks a bit more then most women do. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 6:21:12 PM | I could have been off base but why is the place HOOTERS so popular? Is there a similar place called 'Fried Eggs'?...If there was, would anyone go?
I wasn't trying to say that only breasts turn a man on. Its the same as with anyone we find attractive. There is a WHOLE package there. I wish there were more out there like you.
And Kudos to Rosesforyou. Ithink you might be on to something. I'd have to agree with that whole reasoning. Women are more competitive. Just think pagent.
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Posted: 12/19/2007 6:44:22 PM | rosesforyou: I am really starting to admire the thoughtfulness you put into your responses. I, like you, tend to believe that women are more competitive amongst themselves in terms of body image. If you look at any woman’s magazine you can be mistaken for it being a soft pron mag. I think that there is more scantily clad women in there than in a traditional men’s magazine. I did start another thread to see what the reaction would be if the question was directly stated, “Why do women care more about female body image than men? “ it may shed some light what the responses seem to be suggesting for the both of us.
happyrebel you are a classic. I don’t know if anyone has tried opening a place called “fried eggs” but you may be onto something there…..lol | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 7:19:27 PM | happyrebel and yappledapple.
Thank you both for your responses. I feel each of us have made some interesting points to be considered here. I agree with you HR about your point you made about hooters and "fried eggs"  that made me laugh and again, great point.
yappledapple. I agree that women’s magazines are all about looks as you pointed out. I have watched a TV show before called. DR 90210. It shows surgeons on that show who work on women with all kinds of cosmetic surgery. Something that I found interesting is this what that out of all the women who get tummy tucks, breast enhancements, etc. The majority of them hardly ever will say that they did it for there husband or any man. Most of the time all the women will respond and say things like. "I'm getting it done because so and so (another woman that they know) looks so good and I want to look better then I do now) Or, "I want to get into acting or being a modal and I feel this with help further my career" I just thought that was something I wanted to point out also. Bear in mind that these are attractive women to begin with and yet they still want to go under the knife to get that edge on the competition.
It's great to have people who post on these threads and can share thoughts back and forth without having to be rude or insult someone else.
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Posted: 12/19/2007 7:22:23 PM | | i think that obviously fake are kinda trashy. They're nice to look at if they don't look like they're fake. It's like finding a hundread on the street and it turns out its a fake when you go to use it. Just tends to lose most of it's luster. But just like the formentioned augmentation and disfigurement. I don't think that would be bad when a woman had either of those, that's a pass. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 8:00:37 PM | I think both rosesforyou and yappledapple are on to something. 3 1/2 yrs after my husband died, I began to date again for the first time since I was 17. I also went on a 'diet' (freaking 4 letter word that!) and working out. I actually went for a consult on a tummy tuck and breast lift but decided against both. Realistically they were too expensive. I realized the reason I wanted them was for the fact that 1: It'd make me feel better about myself (possibly) and 2: I wanted to look like t he 40 somethings on tv and 3: It would have made me more competitive. ....YIKES!.....Only one of those 3 reasons is the right reason....Again, why do we place so much emphasis on image? Why couldn't we all just wear paper bags over our heads & bodies and meet people that way?......
I didn't have either done but down the road, I may decide on the lift - if it becomes necessary. The tuck was way too invasive. Then again, maybe if I had a significant other to help with the kids & the house during the recoup time (instead of my Mom), it'd be easier to take......lol.....
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Posted: 12/19/2007 8:50:27 PM |
Again, why do we place so much emphasis on image? Why couldn't we all just wear paper bags over our heads & bodies and meet people that way?......
I think that it's a combination of things. I'll take a shot at answering your question from my own perspective. This comes from a guy (me) who admits that a woman’s looks do matter quite a bit to me.
The image thing and it's importance is a two fold thing I feel. First is, what is a persons perception of themselves when they look in the mirror. Most people look at themselves and they might like some things and not other things about themselves. I think it goes a step deeper though. I feel it starts at the core of what a person first feels about who they are and are they happy. How do they view themselves as a person in general, I think will play some roll in this. If a person is generally not a very happy person with who they are and they turn to surgery, then I think that is not good. The person will end up being the type who goes back for surgery after surgery and never be happy. If the person is at there core, happy with who they are on the inside but maybe not happy with a few things on there body, then I feel the surgery will make them happier.
Looks I think matter so much because we as people feel good when we feel we are in good physical shape for example. We feel good in our brain which leads to more confidence which leads to wanting to look our best and the final result is others see that confidence shine through and are attracted to those people as well. I want to point out that a very good looking person can still be a jerk or someone who another person will quickly be turned off from if there personality stinks.
I feel it's in our nature to be attracted to certain things in a mate. We could put a paper bag over our heads as you point out HR but no matter what, the thing is that looks do matter. It's like, a person can be a really great person on the inside, but if there is no physical attraction there, then I don't feel a relationship could work with just that. On the other hand if a person is very attractive, but is a total jerk then all the looks won't matter if another person does not want to be around them at all. I think the key is balance and that a person has to have both.
Great question though that you brought up, it does make one ponder on what is it about looks that makes people tick the way they do. I'll be pondering on this for a while now. It is very interesting to think about. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 8:59:14 PM | Let's suppose money was no issue at all.
1. Would you ever get a breast enhancement done to your body?
Right now, I think I would get a small enhancement. They are pretty big right now but with an enhancement they would be more firm. I'd also have them raised a little.
2. Do you feel natural breasts look better then the fake ones? or fake look better then the real? I think the fake ones look better because you can make them look pretty much however you want. They arent saggy, they are full. They look like balloons! I love balloons!
3. Last question. To any woman who had her breasts enhanced in any way, larger or reduced. Are you happy with the results? Or do you regret it? If so why? I haven't had anything done to them
Thank you for responces, just wondering how you all felt on this. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 9:16:54 PM | OP-I completely agree with you.
Your first case scenario described Michael Jackson very well, didn't it?....lol..And he's obvously got major mental problems and no longer looks like a human male.
I also agree that there has to be chemistry. Something I've done in the past is try to figure out exactly why one person does it for me and someone else doesn't-even if there's similar looks/personality. What exactly creates that feeling of chemistry? Some smart man I met said it like this "It's the way that other person makes you feel when you're in their company". ....But why is it? I've even felt chemistry for someone who I usually wouldn't even find attractive if I was to run across them in the grocery store.
I agree that self confidence has a lot to do with it to a certain degree. The ex b/f & I had instant chemistry & it was awesome.....but down the road I realized he was very insecure (amongst other things). Eventhough he was extrememly hot in my eyes and had was the most charming person you'd ever hate to meet - he was insecure. Can you still be self confident but insecure at the same time? He had no problems getting women, so it leads me to wonder. Of course he ended up being a 'player' but the charm & chemistry were a large part of the attraction. Player being defined as someone who lies & cheats while still in a relationship.
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Posted: 12/20/2007 1:04:08 AM |
Eventhough he was extrememly hot in my eyes and had was the most charming person you'd ever hate to meet - he was insecure. Can you still be self confident but insecure at the same time?
My feelings HR are that all people have some form of insecure feelings. The level at which each person is insecure or how they deal with that insecurity (most importantly) is key. I do feel that a person can be pretty well grounded and secure with who they are and have a few insecure feelings about certain things as well.
What exactly creates chemistry is along the same lines of trying to put to words and ponder the question of, what exactly creates love? I feel there is something inside each one of us as humans that "clicks" inside our brains that is a powerful reaction when someone else touches those deep emotional feelings. It is what makes each person unique and attracted to another person. I would say it's along the lines of the same thing that sets each person apart as to what exactly it is physically that one person will find very attractive in another person. What makes one person say that they really are attracted to a certain feature and another person can look at that same feature and think, oh that does nothing for them. I feel that, love, chemistry, physical attraction, is a unique wired balance inside each persons brain that makes each person unique. It also determines wither two people will feel that certain "spark" or not.
Back to the topic of breasts, otherwise the POF police will come and take my thread away.
I think it's all tied into why people place so much importance on looks though and why women do get surgery done. It's all about feeling as good as a person can feel and I think it's something that if done for the right reasons then it can be a good thing. | |
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Posted: 12/20/2007 6:15:56 AM | my ex gf had fake breasts, not a pleasant experience at all. I could feel the rough edge
of the seems of the implant, and also they looked a very weird shape and her nipples
were definately mis-placed. uurgh! Never again. | |
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Posted: 12/20/2007 9:55:34 AM | 1) No I would never get breast implants. I'm a "36 D natural" (kinda funny how nowadays you have to add on 'natural' lol). If I was a B or C, I still wouldn't get implants. If I was barely an A, I would stick to padded bras.....I would only get them if I lost one or both. And I wouldnt get a reduction either unless my back was hurting really bad and i had stretchmarks all down the sides of them from them beign so heavy.
2) I don't really think natural breasts look better than fake. It just looks SILLY on small girls where you can tell from a mile away that noone there size is born with those melons. I can DEFINITELY tell the real ones from the fake ones, even if they are natural sized. I personally think the real ones feel better(friends with implants) and i think guys would be scared that they'd one. I think in a decade or so, people won't be able to tell the difference
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Posted: 12/20/2007 12:16:18 PM | 1. Would you ever get a breast enhancement done to your body? If so why?
I would love a "perker-upper" job. After three kids, they aren't as perky as they used to be!
2. Do you feel natural breasts look better then the fake ones? or fake look better then the real? If so why?
I think natural breasts will always look better then fake, but there are some great surgeons out there that can make fake ones look natural..and that would be the Dr that I would go to! | |
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Posted: 12/20/2007 12:45:55 PM | 1. The only enhancement I would get is a Thermage laser treatment to tighten the skin and give a little lifting action... some women don't sag at all, after breastfeeding... some of us do. Mine are big enough anyway.
I have a serious envy for small boobs! I'd love to have a pair of A cups! More comfort/less bras. I remember when I was an early teen and had smaller ones. Much better.
2. I think Natural is the best!
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Posted: 5/21/2008 7:03:36 PM | | All factors being equal, I think larger breasts are a nice compliment to an already nice looking lady. There is no way to make a bustline big enough to compensate for a woman who is, for some other reason, not attractive. And larger bustlines are MOST ASSUREDLY NOT a compensation for poor attitude and they are not a license to COP such an attitude. | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 7:11:50 PM | I like fake better sometimes, If they cant be noticed as fake....So i guess i like super perfect real ones..Lol!
I dont think I would ever get one done, just the thought of having plastic tits bugs me...lol...besides mine are plenty big enough...However, a breast lift? Oh hell yes! | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 8:33:45 PM | 1) Yes I do plan on getting implants in the near future
2) I think when you are a bone rack with two big cantalopes it looks REALLY BAD, thankfully I already got pretty big tits so it should look natural. 
3) Ive never had them enhanced yet so I cant say | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 5:31:40 PM | | Geez OP, I read your profile and you are way too picky when it comes to finding a mate. Why on earth would you have even started this thread? | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 5:58:18 PM | Without reading the whole thread, may I suggest a more fair title -
Fake versus miniscule breasts,
which would you prefer? | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 6:06:22 PM | | Obviously this is a very personal decision and women have to decide what is best for THEM. For myself, nobody is going to cut on me for any reason other than life or death! I never even had my ears pierced until I was over 40 and took my teenaged daughter to have hers done. Natural just seems better to me.....that's MY comfort level. | |
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