moist
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Joined: 5/12/2005
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 5/25/2005 1:14:41 PM | Hi lil babe,
High Fashion Models have B cups. You gots it too :)
I don't think it's size, I think it's about just being comfortable as a woman whether the shirt is up to your neck, or showing alittle clevage. It's about what your're most comfortable in. If that means shorts and a tank top. So be it. If that means long pants and a turtle neck, it's all good.
Just be yourself, because sexy is on the inside, doesn't matter the size of your chest. I'd feel sexy and good about myself no matter what size. It really doesn't matter.
Besides, B cups "is" sexy.
Well I have to go put my "mom" hat on soon.
I think Dino started this thread so he could talk to us ladies, what do you think? LOL (kidding Dino, just kidding),.
hehe
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 5/25/2005 4:06:47 PM | Looked at Lil`s profile, think she looks great. Looked at Moist`s profile, think she looks great. Looked at Skylar`s profile, think she looks great. There is no magic formula - the art is being comfortable with yourself - then other people (male or female) will be comfortable with you.
And before another feminist jumps in - yes, I do think there`s more to a person than looks - but it`s physical attraction that`s maintained our species. You can`t deny your genes. | |
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 5/25/2005 4:24:52 PM | Anyway, I think we`ve probably worn this topic out, so now let`s go to another perspective while I`ve got a few women interested.
I`m a cab driver - lost track of the number of times I`ve had groups of women in my cab discussing p***s size.
So, the question is - when you girls fantasise about men it generally involves a big p***s, but when you get together with someone, how important is it really?
I know you`ll all say it`s not what you`ve got, it`s how you use it.
Thing is, if you fall truly, madly,deeply in love with a man before you get to that stage, then discover he`s got the endowment of a mouse, what then? | |
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 5/25/2005 7:26:07 PM | Hi Dino,
Okay moving on to the next question. I'll use cander and honestly as I always do.
First, when I fantasize about a man, it's not his p-size. Speaking only for myself of course. I fantasize about "hair", specially the length of the hair on his head. The quintessential romance novel guy. The bronze chest, blaring muscles. And he can dim-witted. So that makes me a bit of a female chauvinist in my fantasies. (Gee you could never tell that by my posts hey?) Also he is at least 12 years younger then myself, which would put him at 30 or late 20's.
In my fantasies it's more about "how he looks" and the way we move together. Strange I know.
I'm an odd duck I guess.
This is of course a fantasy, because I would never act on or do anything like that in real life. But then again that is why they are called fantasys, because we have no wish for them to be anything but.
And although the fantasy doesn't concentrate on that area, no he wouldn't be well endowed, but he wouldn't be the "size of a mouse either". Somewhere around normal.
My best fantasy however is "my man". I fantasize about him more then the make believe romance novel guy. The love of my life wins out in the fantasy department.
I am madly deeply in love with him, but he just isn't that interested in sex anymore. So what then? So then I look to my creative outlets and other passions in my life, like parenting, which is my whole life and everything else is pointless. And for my hobbies/creative outlets I have writing, gardening, graphics and HTML/CSS. So there is plenty in my life to fill any void and I still have the love of my life. I hope that answers the "what then". Although he is not the size of a mouse, not getting sex is propably worse. Because I won't cheat on him, so that means a life of satisfying myself.
And that's my answer on the latest question :)
Hugs
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 5/26/2005 7:49:39 AM | Maybe some men want (need) to know if they're REAL...
If she's porpotioned...
If they're still perky..
If it's a "woman" they're really chatt'n with?
I had a few up - but took em down... (btw, they're real) - due to the tons of responses...
I also find it very tacky -- but what's a girl to do.....
Also agree w/ that girl ^^ It's the first thing they see when yer walk'n down the street......
I've also had that experience when talk'n to a guy eyes beem right there...
Also - proud "still" of her body....
Besides... Women may go topless in some places....(in the real world)....
Why do tons of guys show barechested?....Proud of their muscles? | |
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 5/26/2005 7:56:38 AM | regards to the second quest...
he better be a good -lover & KISSER........ | |
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 5/26/2005 11:17:52 AM | i would worship the right set of boobs...and that, ladies, is power, whether you like it or not. sucks alot...yeah, alot... | |
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Posted: 5/26/2005 4:13:53 PM | What is it about North Americans that they feel they have to talk in some sort of gobbledygook?????????????? | |
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 5/26/2005 6:55:27 PM | LOL Lassiter
Holds more fascination for men. But it is cute. Sorry my pics don't show. I've tried to load them, nothing wrong with the image size, file type, etc. I have the Mircrosoft beta for adware and such. And it may be interferring with my ability to upload them. I'll have to check into it. If you view source on your profile you'll see the images are placed in the CSS with the google ads. My Beta for adware may be interpretting the pics incorrectly and not allowing anything to be inserted. That's the only thing I can come up with at the moment, but will continue to give it more thought. Until then, I'm 'picless'. But not by choice :)
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 5/28/2005 6:10:13 PM | hmmm..
is that the next question Dino:...
Goobledygook?.... (wot'da hell is dat)  ... hahahaa 
Swing'n wit da wuds.. ;)  | |
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Posted: 5/28/2005 7:04:35 PM | CJ, good posts on the subject.
Bottom line is that women who show b*oobs or buns are mostly going to attract one type of men, and women who show non-revealing pics are mostly going to attract a different type of men.
And TerryLee and Maddie, I do find myself in the same predicament as you ladies... ;) I am certainly not the one who needs the oxygen... ;)
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RDS345
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Joined: 5/16/2005
Msg: 65 | |
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 6/3/2005 7:32:30 PM | | Who really cares if they show their boobs or not, hey if you do great!! if you don't thats great too!! If i had a pair of boobs Id probably show them off as well, Hell id never have to leave the house or surf POF. lol. I suppose if you really didnt want to see them you could always skip past their profile to someone more clothed. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2005 10:18:18 AM | look some people like myself, like our bodies and are very open about it it doesnt make me a horror or that i have bad self esteem cause i dont i just like my body hater  | |
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Posted: 6/7/2005 11:47:15 PM | Hi
What I think it is. Is here in the states we are so cencered, and we as a whole grew up and drawn to sex appeal. Cause we made it so taboo here. We are bombarded by ads telivsion, and so forth that looks count. So lot ladies use that to draw men.
I been to 22 countries and seem like some countries have no problem with nudity the countries who do not market it like it taboo. I mean look at germany or most euopeon countries. Pick up news paper or flip through the channels and you see someone naked. and Most people over there won't even give it a second thought. Plus nude beaches are common site there or just walking down the street. You see some wierd see through clothing.
But here in the states it whole diffrent ball game. Sex appeal here is a money market. and If people started running around nude. The one making money going to lose out.
Sorry I just look at it all diffrently I guess since I gotten away from the states.
or I'm reading this post wrong. Sorry but since I was able to travel around the world. I wonder to myself this is suppose to be a free country. Why do we have the most laws over the stupidest stuff. Plus I seen more freedom in other countries then here. See what happens when you travel and meet people. Your views tend to change.
Plus I'm use to being around of lot of nude ladies and men. So nothing surprise me.
Like said in other post it all boils down what inside the mind that really counts if a relationship going to last or not. | |
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 6/11/2005 8:19:03 PM | @windover
@sunsetdancer
@moist
@hatinboots
I have seen the error of my ways....I am now a truly modern educated liberated male who has freed himself from the chavanistic chains that have bound my less fortunate, less aware brothern.
I finally have come to LOVE your cleavage. I love your wardrobes. Please feel free to continue to dress HOWEVER you feel most feminine. I can finally admit that I see the beauty of your body. Im so ashamed I wanted you to cover it up all these years.
You MUST forgive me. Uncover yourselves immediately for the sake of ALL WOMEN everywhere!
I promise I wont like it..... | |
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Posted: 6/11/2005 8:23:28 PM | OMG I forgot our dear Ms Skylar too
forgive me as well.....Please the invitation goes to you as well.....Unfetter that feminine body of yours PLEASE?
Make us all better men for it......
Psst...Guys? think they'll go for it?.....Did I sound sincere? Chicks. They'll fall for anything dudes....Lets all go get a beer and hit the strip club! Im buying.  | |
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 6/12/2005 8:38:23 AM | | shappy I think it's either that it's a person that's been conditioned by society/media that women can get anything they want with sex or are only viewed as sexual objects, or that they have low self esteem and don't think they can attract or keep a man with their personality alone. It's sort of a mixed bag, because men are attracted visually, just the way it is. Women usually have to have some measure of visual or sexual allure to get a man's attention or keep it for very long. It's sometimes hard for women to figure out what level of or how phsyically appealing or sexual do they need to be to get a man to talk to them long enough to get to know them. I like to dress semi sexy sometimes when I got out to a club or on a date. Classy sexy, not trashy or cheap. But I have enough self confidence and believe in myself, that the men who talk to me are usually very interested or at least think I'm interesting to talk to. THe men who really show an interest in me and want to get into my mind, those are the ones that I set my hook for. If I go out dressed sexy, it's just for fun and whatever attention I get I deal with it. I expect more sexually oriented comments if I'm dressed that way, I don't get upset for a man who stares at my chest if I'm wearing something low cut. Heck I enjoy the attention, and don't think that makes me shallow. Women have egos too and it's a good ego boost for a lady my age (yes, I HAD to say that) to go out and get attention or have my kids' friends say God your mom is hot. Hey, I've taken care of my body and skin and still look great in a mini skirt, why shouldn't I enjoy that? I take it for what it is, the interest of a man that I might be interested in dating, though, has to go much further than phsyical attraction. Make love to my mind, the body follows. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2005 12:51:51 PM | I read every response, and my answer to the original question is "Why Not?"
How many men here (And I haven't looked so I am asking) pose with their guitar so everybody knows they are a musician? How many pose next to their Porsche or BMW?
Does it matter WHY someone is attracted to someone else IF, and this is a very big if, they then go forward treating the other person with the respect another human being deserves? The pictures showing cleaving don't bother me at all. What I find distasteful is the immediate deluge of "Boy I'd like to get me some of them titties!" responses. Guys, there is a living, breathing, thinking, feeling and caring human being standing behind "those titties".
Now I know the other side of the sword too. I have known my share of women who use large breasts as a weapon or bait to try and meet the guy with the most money or the nicest car. It does work both ways, but it seems to me that the preoccupation with the size of a woman's breast should stop somewhere around the age you can buy beer.
On the record, I LOVE large busted women. It's just the look I like, much the same way there are leg men, eye men, and men who like them tall. I also like intelligent women, women who aren't afraid to break a nail as we work in the garden together, and women who don't try to dominate every situation. Been there, done that, have the emotional scars to prove it.
Basically, I'm just trying to say "Be excellent to each other".  | |
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 6/12/2005 1:17:08 PM | | Pretty stupid to say it's OK to be attracted to a persons face but not their boobs, endowment, whatever. They're all physical assets and whatever it is you have a 'thing' for, it's OK. Don't let others tell you what you should or should not be attracted to. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2005 11:49:44 AM | "AS if when walking down the street tits arent the 1st thing most men look at, 2nd the A$$ as it passes by"
For me the 2nd part is absolutely true!! But I'm not a 'tittie fan' I actually prefer smaller breasts- hey maybe that does make me a fan? (of smaller breasts...) | |
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| LADIES. WHY THE BOOBS?
Posted: 6/6/2007 5:30:13 AM | I do not have large breasts - not flat chested either. I do not have a cleavage but have never had any complaints. I probably would show my cleavage if I had one but have had to get buy without and do not envy large breasted women.
Large breasts come with their own special problems - not least the back and shoulder problems. I oould go on ad infinitum but 'why the boobs' - because they can that's why!
I'm happy with what I have  | |
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