| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/2/2007 9:56:31 AM | I think if you had a strong sexual chemistry with someone that it's natural to miss the 'click' of good sex. One of my exes was amazing at oral - would do it for hours if I wanted. I haven't met anyone who matches up to him there. BUT I've met men who can outdo him in the intercourse department. I suppose I miss the oral, but I would never go back, so it's not a huge longing.
As someone said, being with someone for so long, usually you get to know each other to the point of being able to push each other's buttons perfectly. But that's not always the case, and a good lover can learn and 'take their place'.
For me, any lover has to be adventurous, experimental, have a hig sex drive and be a giver as well as a receiver. I love pleasing my partner - I get off on their enjoyment. I don't have as good of a time if they're not enjoying things. You have to talk. You have to communicate what you like and don't like. You can't approach every partner with the exact same bag of tricks because different people like different things. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/2/2007 10:14:35 AM | No offense Babydoll, but The Cat thinks this thread is a real snoozer.
Can we delete on terms of boredom???? | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/2/2007 10:34:17 AM | filmmanrich
The thread is what you make it. You are into animation, think up something creative/funny! | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/2/2007 10:37:57 AM | Dale-Allen
I am sorry, but there is no way to make pining away for an ex interesting. The Cat says live for the moment! | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/3/2007 9:37:29 AM | | No way. When I was married, sex was boring, stressful and just cause for another argument. Now it can be fun and exciting again. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/3/2007 10:12:47 AM | I don't miss anyone I have dated previously. If they are an ex, there's a good reason for it. I miss having a healthy relationship period. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/3/2007 10:30:40 AM | | An Ex is just that. I guess I did the first year we were apart. Now nope. Would I go back for the wild thing Nope | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/3/2007 11:48:07 AM | | While I do not want to get back with the ex, the sex was good. Would I go back for that alone? No, don't think so. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/3/2007 7:00:14 PM | | Not even a little-not to mention the fact on how he so loved to share it with everyone anyhow..lol | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/3/2007 7:10:45 PM | | Well, unfortunately, I do. Not because the sex was great, and not even because I was her first. It was because we were so open and close to each other. Unfortunately her mother hated me so much that she had to destroy the marriage to get revenge on me no matter that it totally destroyed her own daughter. It took me a long time to move past that relationship. I still love her and still miss her but after what she allowed to happen I could never trust her again. Miss it? HELL YEAH! repeat? Extremely doubtful unless her mommy died!!!! | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/3/2007 7:12:48 PM | | no I don't miss sex with my ex or the ex before that one, what's over is over, they are ex's for a reason. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/3/2007 7:40:47 PM | | God no! 100%hetero here, and I would sooner sleep with her new hubby than her. Nope, don't miss it. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/3/2007 7:47:33 PM | yeah, i'd be lying if i said no. she was a radical departure from my previous relationship (i.e. incredibly good). it's probably got a lot to do with just a lot of other contributing factors surrounding it as well. the relationship itself was doomed from the beginning, but she was probably the most sexually compatible partner i've been with (so far)...
would i ever go back? no, i'd rather chew on the end of a pistol, thanks.... | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/3/2007 7:57:48 PM | I'm with Kryssy
They're ex's for a reason.
I miss one girl, God help her. she was so beautiful, but freshly out of a marriage, and so not ready to settle down. I'd take her back in a skip and a jump, but you can keep the rest. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/3/2007 8:25:49 PM | | msg 42, I agree, I've often thought I wish I had those 7 of the best years of my life that I gave my ex back but on the flip side those weren't such bad years. I think of them as really good good years with some bad moments. Sometimes I think I do wish I didn't waste so much time with somebody who wasn't "the one," if there is one. As for any other ex's it's all about living and learning, nothing really wasted. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/3/2007 8:44:04 PM | My last boyfriend became friends with my female friend's husband. I was the one who intorduced them and I don't have a problem with that. I see him from time to time when I'm with her but I don't think of him in a sexual manner anymore.
We've both been with other people briefly since then so we're polite but not actively attracted to one another. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/5/2007 4:02:58 PM | A few years back me and this girl I was going out with would have amazing phone sex before we had physical sex. By doing that we knew how to please each other. Anyway the sex was like magic and sometimes it would be twice a day. The relationship however turned sour when it turned out she had no real feelings for me and that she only wanted me to give her money and pay her bills so she could sit home and watch television. The relationship as you can guess ended badly. Recently she started calling again and we talk from time to time. I have no romantic feeling for her at all but I cannot deny the sexual attraction is there, but time does not heal all wounds and nothing will ever happen between me and her, sex or otherwise.
Sometimes its a real good idea to move on. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/5/2007 4:07:07 PM | I can't say I've missed sex with any particular ex,...I don't usually go back to them.
But there have been guys that I've dated for a short time and things just didn't work out... we didn't click...or we never had time to see eachother as much as we'd like to.
And...the sex was incredible. So we decided to scrap the relationship and just be **** buddies instead  | |
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