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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/5/2007 6:56:41 PM | Sometimes I miss the way she would ride me while lactating.
And other times I miss the way she would call me names, insist that I drop all my friends, ridicule my mother, kick my dog, spend my money, and hit me with a vase. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/5/2007 7:24:04 PM | OH HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/5/2007 7:31:46 PM | My ex was a lousy lay. So no. There are guys out there way better than him .
I'm pretty choosy though. A girl has to be these days!! | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Even AFTER you've moved on?? Posted: 9/6/2007 5:04:25 AM | | Ok another question is: "If you have moved on with someone else and started a life with them....do you still think about your X and do you still fantasize about them? or are you happy with the one you're with now?" | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 7:01:21 AM | HELL TO THE NO.
All the physical intimacy in the universe could not make up for the lack of respect and trust in that mess of a relationship. If I ever start missing anything about my ex, I simply pull up the last (negative, hate-spewed verbally abusive) e-mail he ever sent me and re-read it to remind myself that there's nothing to miss.
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 7:41:48 AM | Funny, over the years...I always kept an old ex or two in sort of a black book for in between relationships, if they were pretty good sexually. If they were single as well of course, we'd hook up just for the sex (safely of course) while dating new people. It was NEVER in an effort to get back together, though one or two did take it that way. Then again most of my exes are relationships I ended and it was either never on extremely bad terms, or so long ago there were no hard feelings, so maybe that's why.
I was never in a long term volatile marriage or relationship where there was cheating, fighting, etc...in those cases of course there'd be no way I would want the drama that came with hooking up, even if the sex was great.
The only other option would be male friends I've known for years, but of course if they were friends there'd be no sexual interest.
I'd hate to go without sex just because I was single, and that was better to me than hooking up with random strangers...ew. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 7:54:53 AM |
anyone on a dating site that would say yes to this question must not be playing with a full deck.
lol... AMEN!!! | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 8:08:51 AM | OP, Look's like we have similar scenerio's. I was with my ex for 8 years and split 10 years ago. I did find however that because we were so close and so much in love that exploring each other was a natural thing. The only thing I miss about him is the sex! When 'love' is around sex becomes more special, and making love, or having sex is an expression of how two people feel about each other. The best way to overcome your sexual desires for your ex is to think about all the rotten things that went wrong, it's enough to turn anybody off. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 8:33:51 AM | | Well going back for more and missing it are two entirely different things. I think most people miss certain aspects of a relationship, depending on how serious the relationship was, if you were married versus just together, and if you have children. I know its the politically correct thing to say you are over it and moved on, past it..whatever you want to call it. But I know so many people who claim to be past it or moved on who still bring up the ex, and it's a necessity if you have children. So I dont think its all that bad or unnatural to miss intimacy with someone who was once a major part of your life, especially if that aspect of the relationship wasn't the issue which caused the end. I think missing it..is natural. Now going back for more when it's over, that is where there may be a problem. I won't lie and say I do miss sex with my ex. She is the last person I was intimate with. I enjoy sex. I miss sex, so I guess by deductive reasoning, I miss sex with her. Doesn't mean I want her back. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 8:39:52 AM | I like sex just as much as the next guy, but I like to get to know the person a little and see if I'd like to have sex with that person it's more enjoyable that way and I'm very sexual.  | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 8:57:49 AM | yes i do i was married to my ex for 12 years and once i awhile i miss it now im staying with my kids and my ex for the time being and it has tempted me opps
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 9:03:51 AM | | you Know in thinking about this...and i may be mentally challenged but I cant for the life of me remember details of my past lovers and the sex with them... yes i can remember that it was good at the time ...but i put all my heart and soul into every new relationship ... so the best sex i have ever had is always the sex i am having with my current relationship... guess im just good at blocking out the past would i go back for more .... maybe with some of them it would be possible to begin again but not resume the old relationship....after all there was a connection and no mater what people on here say ...people do grow mature and change ....i hold no grudges and hope to be friends with all that I have crossed paths with in life ... go back just for another roll in the hay ...NO...I dont think so.... | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 9:30:43 AM | sure I would have to say I have an ex that I would miss the sex from cause it was great... that being said I have found others that are great! but different... now if I can mold all the best of everyone with a large helping of the best of porn... now that would be amazing...but completely unrealistic!
So although I have an ex that I had great sex with at least now I do not have to deal with that level of crazy!!!! | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 9:58:47 AM | | I don't miss sex with my ex specifically, but I do miss sex with someone who really loves me and knows how I like it. I'm sure when the time is right I'll find a better long-term relationship with a man who can fulfill me sexually in that way only an man that loves and knows me really can. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 10:22:18 AM | not at all...he didnt full fill my needs. besides i am Celebate and plan to remain this way for while til i get things in my life in order.  | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 10:46:17 AM | | i miss sex, but not because of my ex. point of fact, i feel no pleasure at all in my memories of my life with my ex, even the times that should be pleasurable, like being together or walking or anything. | |
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| Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/6/2007 1:01:58 PM | | I missed it every time she had it! well almost everytime. seems I was either at work, or she was out of town or I was out of town. So I always managed to miss out when my ex was having sex. | |
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