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 searcher1957

Joined: 2/13/2005
Msg: 176
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Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 4/30/2008 1:50:47 AM
Not me...i was married to three nuns....nun last night, nun tonight and nun tomorrow night.
 yepper1218

Joined: 10/4/2006
Msg: 177
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Posted: 4/30/2008 3:13:45 AM
I miss sex period
 N*Love

Joined: 2/22/2008
Msg: 178
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Posted: 4/30/2008 9:11:05 AM
oh YESSS!!!!

I miss "him" soooo much.... as you said OP, so far no comparison....(sexually)

 js104c1

Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 179
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Posted: 4/30/2008 9:18:45 AM
I think my last relationship lasted a lot longer then it did, mearly because of the sex together. Basically ended when she moved in with some guy, but she still calls. LOL
 WomanInProgress

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 180
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Posted: 4/30/2008 9:21:51 AM

I seem to be the odd man out here, but I've scarcely had a lover whose sex I don't miss. Maybe not enough to try reconnecting. Too bad it can't come a la carte!

It can't? I think you might want to rethink that...lol
 berrysweetncgurl

Joined: 8/2/2004
Msg: 181
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Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 4/30/2008 11:20:58 AM
dont miss the ex, just the familiarity of the sex
 deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 182
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Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 4/30/2008 1:12:03 PM
yea i miss the sex with every one of them ...i never took sex lightly ...i never been in a relationship that i dont miss ...some were longer than others but ye i miss them all
 54online

Joined: 1/27/2005
Msg: 183
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Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 4/30/2008 5:33:33 PM
I was missing it when I was with her - therefore she is my "ex" .....
 msmiller8848

Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 184
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Posted: 4/30/2008 5:55:15 PM
Oh God yes. an ex of mine turned me out and had me begging him for sex, it was that good. It took me a awhile to stop missing him sexually, but then I remembered why we weren't together anymore...He was a freaking jerk!!! Anyway, I think it's only normal to miss having good sex with someone.
 Curly_218

Joined: 8/17/2007
Msg: 185
Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 4/30/2008 6:05:49 PM
Like 54online, I missed it while I was still with him. Now, nope. Can't even remember what it felt like although I remember what it was like. *Curly thinks....* DEFINITELY don't miss it!
 lovernotafightero8

Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 186
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Posted: 5/1/2008 3:30:59 AM
i miss the love makin we had and the man i thought he was but i guess when u cover up who u really r, yes i miss the love makin and wonder was it that i just wasnt good enough in bed, lol dont think sooo, guess u can be married and have kids yet still not know who they really r. I miss the man i thought he was but not the man i found out he issss. so now im for
 PJBROWN

Joined: 10/27/2007
Msg: 187
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Posted: 5/1/2008 4:08:29 AM
Honestly at this time, no. When the split happened a year ago...shallow as it is to admit, I dreaded missing the sex (among other things about her). Since then, I've been playing the field...and to my surprise, have gotten better, and had better sex than I did when I was with my ex. She was hardly uptight, but her and I didn't go at it like some of the women I've been with.
 ExplosiveSheep

Joined: 9/22/2007
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Posted: 10/5/2008 3:19:59 AM
Man I totally miss it, she was wild plus she woulda been down with a 3 way. Literally she was what every guy wants in a girlfriend because nobody woulda guessed.

The problem was she lacked normal human emotions I'm pretty sure. Hell I hadn't talked to her in 2 years, haven't seen her in 4 and she basically came to me like "Oh hey! How's Life!?" and without going into specifics of the breakup, I've been sorta damaged ever since.

So literally, short of having a 3way with her just cause it's unlikely I'll get one many other places, I'd rather hit her in the tit with a taser than listen to anything she says.

(Just FYI, I'm not really into tasering women, incase anyone took that literally.)
 parry10

Joined: 1/14/2006
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Posted: 10/5/2008 7:42:42 AM
Missing "ex" sex?.......yeah, did that a few times after break-ups but I'm sure it was just the "familiarity" thing.....

that faded soon enough when I became "familiar" with new partners.....

......it's a viscious circle I tell ya!

 Angelnurse10

Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 190
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Posted: 10/5/2008 8:15:10 AM
oh most definetely. My ex was 14 years younger than me and taught me some of the wildest sex I ever had. He was also the first man that I had an orgasm with and the first to perform oral on me. That is why I really have a thing for younger men. I am waiting for a man closer to my age to step up to the plate and show me that they can also be a giving and creative lover. My ex before him never cared about my needs.
 jackster121

Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 191
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Posted: 10/5/2008 9:01:40 AM
My wife and I were together 16 years, we are now separated for over a year but haven't been intimate for 3 or more years.
NO, I do not wish or have any feelings for my ex. This is one way I know, I am over it.
 namrael

Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 192
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Posted: 10/5/2008 1:27:55 PM
I do. My ex and I had awesome, amazing sex on a routine basis. I hope my next partner and I are as sexually compatible as my ex and I were.
 singlecream

Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 193
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Posted: 10/5/2008 1:38:53 PM
I hate to say it, but I totally miss the sex life I had with my ex.
My current relationship is wonderful in every way, but is lacking in the bedroom. My ex and I would not only have sex at least once a day, but she'd be horny exactly when I was - just the touch of the other was enough to send sparks between us. We'd experiment, we'd take photos and vids, we'd use toys and when we weren't together we'd exchange fantasies over text, email or phone. It was awesome and I don't get any of that with the current partner. Whilst we both enjoy sex, she just doesn't seem to have the passion for it. If anyone's got any advice, the let me have it!

I often wonder whether the ex has found someone who fulfils her in the same way, but that way madness and ruined relationships lie.
 DenDen140

Joined: 8/20/2007
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Posted: 10/5/2008 3:49:44 PM
I have to admit I also miss the deeply passionate sex my ex and i had. When together it felt as though we were one, almost tantric. The intense physical and sexual connection we had was indescribable. She was a giver and so i am as a result we were not ashamed or shy in expressing our animalistic sides.

I've had some one night stands since but it didn't come close to the physical chemistry that existed in our bedroom, shower, kitchen, living room, car etc.. The ones I've had since have been stiff as boards or in-experienced in the art of love making. I tell ya alot of girls here talk the talk but when push comes to shove.... disappointing..

When the lovemaking ended, near the end of our relationship, we both realized the ship was burning and sinking at the same time (very long and bloody history). So when it comes to everything else i don't miss, except for the sex.

But that could also be my sex drive talking as its been a while for me. lame..


singlecream: Bring her out of her shell. Be romantic treat her like a princess for the night take her out, cook for her, dance with her, serenade her, find whatever physical/mental turn on she may have (every girl has one) and exploit it until she cannot bear it anymore.
 ANDIE1967

Joined: 6/20/2007
Msg: 195
Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 10/5/2008 8:30:31 PM
its nearly 5 yrs since i split with the ex and yes the sex is missed as i have never come across anyone who was able to please and satisfy me the way she used to ,,i would never go back there even if i wanted to but it would be good to have her sex in someone else
 dasouthernikon

Joined: 9/27/2008
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Posted: 10/6/2008 12:27:18 AM
Amen. they are ur EX-BF/GF 4a reason, but the sex with them (wen u was with them) is usually a good thing to reminisce on...
 Danzfriendchefhero

Joined: 10/1/2008
Msg: 197
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Posted: 10/6/2008 12:42:55 AM
Well, she's not an ex--she's deceased, but I do my departed girlfriend, Debra('s) ability to turn me up and control me sexually.

She was challenging in bed, and warm at the same time. Tanned skin, green eyes, red hair with that small silver streak in her bang. Curviest body...(bra size 38 dd/natural, perfect heart-shaped butt) smoothest stomach.

OMG, she made me c*m thinking about what she could do for me, and to me.
 spicynicegirl

Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 198
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Posted: 10/6/2008 1:17:51 AM
Yes orchid. I am so with you on this one. Sex with my ex husband was the best I ever had and it's going to be really hard to find someone that matches up.......................LOL
 Two lives

Joined: 8/15/2008
Msg: 199
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Posted: 10/6/2008 6:04:57 AM
Boy do I. My late wife was so good in bed I will never find anyone like her. She looked like the most innocent person in public but behind closed doors was the most perverted individual I have had the pleasure of knowing
 make sure

Joined: 11/23/2007
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Posted: 2/15/2009 10:34:19 AM
ARE YOU SERIOUS???
I got out ALIVE the first time.... the bartering,bargaining, whining, her
'zoning out'...

However , the once a month I was 'allowed' was ok...esp Thursday evening the five min b/w Friends and ER
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