| NO help from the government!!!! AAAAhhhhh!!!!! Posted: 9/7/2007 11:45:41 PM | i cant help you with any advice hun i just want to say it took alot of streanth to give your guy up like that for what he was doing and for thinking of your children first i was in a simular situation but it involved his daughter through a previous marriage i certainly hope you dont intend to take him back cause they never change best of luck and just hold on to your inner streanth | |
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| NO help from the government!!!! AAAAhhhhh!!!!! Posted: 9/8/2007 8:33:50 AM | lady, I was going to send you a personal message but do not meet your criteria. I am very sorry to hear that you were put through something similar. If you would like to talk about it sometime, please feel free to send me a message. I would NEVER consider taking him back.... he is a perverted nutcase.... he did a lot more than just look up porn.... he drank, cheated on me at least 3 times a week, left my daughter with a complete stranger to go to a strip club, and more. I know he's not a keeper! Now that I have said that I know I will be asked why I even got involved in the first place..... when we were dating he was sweet and caring... he took me to church.. put on a whole different face. Thank you for your post. | |
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| UPDATE!!!!!! Posted: 9/11/2007 7:55:16 PM | | UPDATE: I have recently submitted many applications and essays on fastweb.com for financial aid to get through school. I am still waiting to hear back from the Congressman about social services. I am still waiting to here from the CNA program that starts in October that I signed up for which includes paid training for 18 days. I have found a program here called Wages and should be getting low income childcare through them.... it's about $30 a week! My roomate decided to let me work when needed to make money and that she will get a job to help out as well..... finally, with the help of some friends, we talked some sense into her! Harley, I went to print my revised resume and my printer broke.... I sent it to my email and went to the public library to print it out and then spilled tea on my envelopes, lol! I will try again! Thank you for all of the help from all of the posters on here. If I can ever repay you, please let me know. | |
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| NO help from the government!!!! AAAAhhhhh!!!!! Posted: 9/13/2007 7:06:20 AM | Parker, Maybe you should read the ENTIRE thread before posting. I was simply asking for advice. Don't judge me so quickly before knowing my complete situation and without looking into mistakes that you have made. | |
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| NO help from the government!!!! AAAAhhhhh!!!!! Posted: 6/20/2008 1:49:12 PM | so, you were 3 yrs old and able to take of your parents. well, you say you have a 3-1/2 yrs old daughter. its sounds like youd be better off if she started taking care of you? | |
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| NO help from the government!!!! AAAAhhhhh!!!!! Posted: 6/20/2008 1:58:51 PM | | Sorry to hear about that evil man. I cant image what that would be like finding out. I am a little confused though you want to join the army or you are in the army, yet you have kids and if so mething happened to you. Dont you think they would wonder what happened to you and why you went willingly? | |
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| NO help from the government!!!! AAAAhhhhh!!!!! Posted: 6/20/2008 3:18:31 PM | Hey lizbeth, I noticed on page 1 that youre wanting to do a masters, I take it you have a science batchelors then? If so, have you thought about medical/scientific sales?
Like you I am ex armed forces and with a scientific background, and have a family to look after.
Ya know, moving into that kind of job is fantastic when raising a family, the salary is high, cars are provided, medical care also.
Might be worth looking into? | |
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