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 profitina
Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 51
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Here's a question.....
After a painful loss of a relationship....have any of you had what I refer to as "waking" dreams. Almost like flashbacks of times during your relationship that you remember but while you are awake. It can be very disturbing.
I experienced this for almost 6 months and thought I was tipping over the edge. lol
Anyone else?


Yeah... I've wondered if I'm crazy for stuff like that too. I'll hear things we said and flashbacks of things that happened..but with that eerie dream feeling of me being more from the side looking in than actually there. After me and my ex broke up I played back a lot of situations kinda in a 'if I'd only...' or 'I should have known then...' way. But far as I know I'm not making myself do that. He and I have started talking again and were almost back to being friends.... when he answered my, 'Aren't you in a good mood...did someone get laid?' question honestly with a 'Once last night and twice this morning.'. So now, anytime I go to call him I hear him say that and stop. I'm over him and all that, I just feel sick thinking about him doing the things he used to do with me with someone else.
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
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Posted: 5/12/2005 8:35:03 PM
Dont feel sick about what he maight be doing with someone else, smile and think of what someone will be doing with you and better than before
It may have been great once, it will be fantastic later

 lvdanceman
Joined: 4/20/2005
Msg: 53
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Posted: 5/12/2005 11:20:35 PM
I suppose dreams of a deceased spouse would occur for different reasons than dreams of an ex who left you and caused you heart break. I have friends who believe that dreams with deceased relatives is actually their spirits communicating with you. I don't know whether to believe that or not because I sometimes wonder whether my dreams of deceased relatives isn't just my subconscious doing re-runs.

I actually cannot remember if I have had dreams of my ex. I do not currently have dreams of my ex. I don't really want to dream of her because she broke my heart. I tried to move on as quickly as possible as soon as I learned that she was hell bent of divorce. I mostly have dreams of flying or dreams with unknown women who fall within a range of looks that I would consider absolutely perfect.
 profitina
Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 54
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Posted: 5/13/2005 11:08:13 AM
Awww! Thanks Ram dood I really only get bad about thinking about the past- both the good times and the bad- when I'm lonely and have been single a while. When I start to miss not being single, that's when memories come back big time...
 peachy38
Joined: 5/6/2005
Msg: 55
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Posted: 5/13/2005 11:12:47 AM
Every night for 5 years and the memories in the day are very painful.
 ctchmeifucan
Joined: 9/15/2004
Msg: 56
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Posted: 5/13/2005 3:56:11 PM
ahh peachy 38....
I can sure relate to that. Although not for 5 years.
And it is absolutely true in my experience, that another loving relationship will lessen the pain of the demons that haunt day or night.
Now I remember the pleasant times and the bad ones are not so overwhelming and I no longer have any feelings of ill towards him will that also haunted me.
Quite the struggle for the first while, fighting the love vs the hate. And I can relate to worrying about what my ex was doing with his new girlfriend. Nearly tore me apart.
Nice when you hit that peacefulness of acceptance.
 Honeybee 01
Joined: 1/4/2005
Msg: 57
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Posted: 5/13/2005 10:13:35 PM
Which One???
 angeleyes0926
Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 58
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Posted: 5/14/2005 8:15:27 AM
I used to dream about an ex a lot that i always felt had got away. we had broke up cause he was using drugs and stuff.. well long story really short, met someone on this site, who happened to know him, got us talking again and we both had mutually missed other like crazy. we got back together, but we both had a grudge, (along with some other issues that im not all that sure about) and now we arent talking again. I havnt dreamt about him since and now i kind of feel good that i have got to see how he is now, and can say hes cleaned up a lot and i wish him the best, but a big part of me is happy that we are not together. I do however wish, we would still talk, but i can live without him.
 dreaminuvya
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 59
DO YOU DREAM ABOUT YOUR EX?
Posted: 5/14/2005 7:06:42 PM
No,I only nightmare about my ex.
 stubobb
Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 60
DO YOU DREAM ABOUT YOUR EX?
Posted: 5/14/2005 8:38:35 PM
Yes, they all get into a dream some time or another.
 verypicky
Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 61
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Posted: 5/14/2005 8:42:52 PM
every night, I dream of at least one of my exs
 Mr. Peanut Butter Cup
Joined: 9/10/2004
Msg: 62
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Posted: 5/16/2005 1:58:20 AM
Yeah and it SUCKS!!! Ok better now.. Ok where were we? Oh yeah, I mean yeah every once and a while. If she only knew what she has missed out on in her life. Although, maybe she see's things from a different POV.

Jay
 smitten
Joined: 2/25/2005
Msg: 63
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Posted: 5/16/2005 2:17:26 AM
Hell yes. You should see some of them.

Fortunately, common sense generally prevails...
 Fire Goddess
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 64
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Posted: 5/16/2005 2:29:12 AM
oh yes, i dream of strangling him.
 smart@$$
Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 65
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Posted: 5/16/2005 7:04:24 AM
Oh yeah, I have really bad nightmares
 IrishBeauty22
Joined: 3/24/2004
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Posted: 5/17/2005 11:42:44 AM
yup been having the same dream for 2 weeks now been about 3 weeks since we broke up it toutures me i wake up feeling all depressive
 verypicky
Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 67
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Posted: 5/17/2005 11:45:48 AM

irishbeauty22 the first couple of weeks are the hardest. after awhile, it'll get a little better.

 madrox
Joined: 1/17/2005
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Posted: 5/17/2005 12:03:40 PM
just had a dream about an exgf a few nights ago..one of those possible "what if we stayed together where would we be now" type dreams.

ugh hate that "what if" crap
 IrishBeauty22
Joined: 3/24/2004
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Posted: 5/17/2005 4:12:03 PM
thanks:)
 verypicky
Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 70
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Posted: 5/17/2005 4:22:48 PM
anytime, irishbeauty22, anytime
 dodgydan
Joined: 7/12/2004
Msg: 71
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Posted: 5/22/2005 11:13:57 PM
I left my Ex to live here 5000 miles away, and i have had many a dream about her, does make me wonder sometimes..... oh and dreaming about someone you miss definitely sucks.
 Domeroth
Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 72
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Posted: 5/22/2005 11:20:35 PM
I have dreams about her. Funny thing too, normally I only remember my dreams when they are nightmares.

She keeps telling me over and over again. She's the only one who would accept me, and that I'm nothing. That the true love I dreamed about between her and I, was just a figment of my imagination.

Whats really funny is... those dreams just aggrivate me to try harder in life.

I'd love to see her again someday, just to tell her I'm sorry for ever giving her a chance.
 grubeci
Joined: 10/30/2003
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Posted: 5/22/2005 11:25:43 PM
I had a nightmare I was holder her hand...so she wouldn't fall..but then I looked up the meaning and it seems that dreams about her or him are dreams about yourself too...how you treat your g.f. /b.f. etc in dream is how you treat and think about yourself....

yeah...not for some time...I gotta start dreaming about HER (AKA) me again! she should dream about me....

i miss happiness.
 Cristine
Joined: 9/29/2003
Msg: 74
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Posted: 5/22/2005 11:44:40 PM
I have dreams about this man I broke up with when I was 18.
I miss him like hell and I keep having dreams that he wants to give me his phone number..... random.
 Krenker
Joined: 2/24/2005
Msg: 75
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Posted: 5/23/2005 7:29:16 AM
The nightmare will never end. My ex is crazy in my dreams always trying to kill me.....no idea why..............................
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