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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/12/2007 10:25:39 AM |
and also...i dont have ant financial aide...there is a thing called child support etc. my youngest is 2, and once he is in school i will be a working mom....so screw the state aide!!!!!
Child support is to take care of the kids, not you.
kids are not drama
Kids aren't drama. Parents are.
hey why don,t you people back off of her?shes here asking for advise and everyones jumping her
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/12/2007 2:49:07 PM | It really shouldnt matter if you have 6 or 26 kids its all up to you and how you want to raise your kids if you would like your kids to see that mom like to have a lot of different men in her life then thats your problem right? but if you think there is nobody that want to be with you because of you having 6 kids and you have a body of full figure Goddest than u need to pray that u will stop degradeing yourself. You will se that there is men out there that will luv to date someone like you, and be with you forever and If you looking for someone who have a life,I will share. Have arms, will hug. Have ears, will listen. Have mind, will communicate. Have heart,I will give. Have legs,I will run to you. Have hands,I will hold yours. Have eyes and a voice,I will tell you how beautiful you are everyday, and in the end I will have you and thats all that matter to me and should be the only thing that matter to you | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/12/2007 3:28:59 PM | | I dated a woman for a good while that had seven kids. This was about a two year relationship. She was the problem. I never had a problem with any of the kids. There is hope for you, you may meet a fella that wants four or five more kids, you never know. | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/13/2007 10:40:27 PM |
What does her being a BBW have anything to do with it?-disneymom
im afraid it matters, most men dont want to be with a woman that fat,queensize etc
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 4:16:33 PM | So now you are speaking for most of the men in the world? I honestly don't think most men are that shallow to only look at a woman's size. Whether or not the OP is plus size, is irrelevant. Most of us can tell from her posts that she is an intelligent and caring human being.
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 4:21:58 PM |
im afraid it matters, most men dont want to be with a woman that fat,queensize etc
unless the dude has a fetish for those types
Speak for yourself, not for 'most' men.
But, given his profile, Id expect it comming from these types of boys. His profile speaks volumes.
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Joined: 4/13/2006
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 4:35:07 PM | Hmmm. 6 children and you "honestly don't want to have sex until you are married again".
The only thing I can say is,"Good luck with that!". | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 4:41:20 PM | ^^^^^^
1st) she said STATE aid, not FINANCIAL aid!
2nd) She has just come out of a divorce, made it clear she wants to work but has been left in a situation, that is what benefits are for and she isn't abusing the system!
3rd) She was married for 10 and a half years, maybe she wanted a big family and the children were planned! Why should she use contraception?
4th) Why shouldn't husband support HIS children if he is willing and financially able? After all, she wouldn't be on benefits if it weren't for his infidelity!
5th) Whilst i think it is Wayyyyyy too soon, why shouldn't she find a companion when she's ready? Are you seriously suggesting that because she has 6 kids she should stay single for the duration of their childhood?!!! Nonsense! | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 4:42:32 PM | so what , because i speak the truth, im now shallow WTF, sorry hun most men dont want to date someone who is fat, unless you have a fetish, or dont care about your woman's health
the OP brought up the BBW issue, i just agreed, if you want to bury your head in the sand and pretend it doesnt exist, be my guest, some of you women are hypocritical , I'll bet none of you would date a fat guy? if you did, none of them online would be complaining and writing threads  | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 4:59:28 PM | ^^^^("I wouldn't want to date a man that had 6 kids unless he had been single for a while so I knew he actually gave a sh*t about his kids. If he was on the prowl all the time what time is he spending with his kids exactly? What kind of father would that make him")?
This coming from a 22 year old with 3 kids to 3 different men! Talk about hypocritical!!!And to i defended you fiercly in your thread 1Tallmomma! Who exactly is taking care of your kids while you are "out on the prowl" finding a new daddy to father your next one? If you gave a shit you wouldn't have man after man in your kids lives now would you! | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 6:51:31 PM | Im utterly amused that some use arrogant comments and then hide behind the ole, "Im just being honest cause I speak my mind" bullsh.it.
Her size has no barring on her dating lifestyle. Everyone has their own tastes. Like for instance, Id probably do ts if I had duct tape handy. His mouth ruins it for me. But if he kept his mouth shut, he wouldnt appear like an arrogant sob. (joke. no I wouldnt-making an analogy).
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 7:24:45 PM | ummm her size does have something to do with it, how many fat girls on here complain that they cant find guys, so thats a load of crap.
I bet if this woman was gorgeous , slim and even though she had six kids, some men would be still lined up to meet her, cant deny that, attractive people can get away with things that the average sap cannot.
So what if you find me arrogant, you still do me anyways | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 7:43:28 PM |
ummm her size does have something to do with it.
To judgemental individuals such as yourself, yes. But, dont speak for all guys. Some look deeper than you.
how many fat girls on here complain that they cant find guys, so thats a load of crap
Because half the chicks who are complaining have other deep seeded issues. Their weight might be an issue with some, but Ive found that by probing with other questions, alot of other things come to light.
So what if you find me arrogant, you still do me anyways
Uhm no. Really. I wouldnt. | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 8:34:53 PM | | I have been noticing something. (This ought to really piss some of you off) The men who use to want to take care of women are paranoid they might have to take care of a woman. But they feel insecure if the woman makes more money than them......hmmmm. | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 9:28:58 PM | | ^^^^I do not feel insecure if a woman makes more money than me..I welcome it. If she makes less money than me that is okay too. It is alot to expect anyoneto take on when you have 6 little ones though. | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 9:53:36 PM | wow!!!
THIS SURE HAS TURNED INTO QUITE THE CIRCUS
well lets go for broke then...................
is it my looks or my 6 kids that turn men away?
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Rhett1
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Joined: 10/16/2005
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 10:47:20 PM | OP: Now you're getting into deep waters...I wouldn't ask for criticism on your looks, you're going to be surprised at how many a r s e s come out of the woodworks. Yes, some may not find you attractive, but does that matter? I don't know of ANYONE that is attractive to all people. I know many guys that think Pamela Anderson is gross...
You just have to face reality: with 6 kids, that really thins out the herd for you...but, if it helps, I work with a woman who was a single mom of 6 kids for YEARS, she met a man with 5 kids and they are now a HUGE happy family. It DOES work out for some. | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/14/2007 10:51:19 PM | | I agree with Eldibu do not ask for feedback on your looks. I think you are very pretty OP (you too Eldubu) but 6 kids well that is just alot to take on. | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/15/2007 12:01:29 AM | ts 69er...
 ....funny thing....attractive to one...could be.. err....repulsive to another!....
for example....I like men who's arms can rest at they're sides comfortably....without looking like they have swimming armbands on! I find alot of men most attractive...when they are not trying to kiss they're own ass...(it's a real turnoff!).....Let's be honest (you were...so I feel I can be too)....there are some men who are worth talking to and getting to know....and some men who just shouldn't talk...ever heard the word manwhore?....pffttt.....I am sure you have!... | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/16/2007 12:36:48 PM | ts69er, you need to see a doctor slick, you are suffering from bullshitophobia, good lord
Does that term"beauty is in the eye of the beholder" mean anything to you? or do we have to dumb it down and explain it to you?
OP: your problem is your self esteem , the 6 kids doesn't help but there are lots of women with 6 or more kids that are with someone, YOU need to work on your self esteem issues PERIOD
Peppy, what does a woman making more money than a man have to do with the OP dilemma, or did I miss something, I knew I should of fired my psychic from the friends psychic network | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/16/2007 2:25:10 PM | | hold on Mahogany , whats up your ass guy,dumb it down for me.wtf , your going to tell me you would date a fat broad with 6 kids, dont you think most men would run from broads like these? | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/16/2007 2:37:12 PM | | ^^^If the girl was genuine and the guy was after something more permanent then YES, plenty of guys would, i can tell you. Seen as how we're focusing on the girls size (btw she really ISN'T that big!) then from personal experience i can tell you i have met plenty of great men from all walks of like, all looks, careers, interests, etc...who were more than willing to take on me and my 2 kids if i'd let them! I'm not ready to let anyone into my kids life yet though as they're still young. Oh and my sister has 6 great kids....never had a problem dating either, AND she's a bbw to boot!!!....So i guess it's just you! | |
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| MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?!
Posted: 9/16/2007 2:40:01 PM | Hey Mahogany....I am a newly addicted forum rat! LOL still kind of new at this. I should have said I was directing it to all those guys that were assuming she was looking for a meal ticket.
I think you nailed it on the self esteem. I imagine it is pretty damaged after having your husband screw around with yur sister. I would imagine there are some pretty deep rooted issues of self worth if your own sister is willing to toss you aside for a roll in the hay with your husband.
I read the shallow thinking of so many of these men and women on here, and it gets me so flustered I can't think straight. Especially because they act like they are not speaking to a human being.....
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