| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/9/2008 9:35:24 PM | | There were other issues that broke the relationship apart. But it was the most intense and passionate relationship I have had yet. The sex however remained amazing up to the end. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/9/2008 9:57:02 PM | | I only said more thanmy initial post because you asked. The initial post I made was just a response to the OP's ? nothing more. Believe me it's well in the rearview mirror. I very much moved on. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/10/2008 12:47:52 PM | | I know for me it's better, but I also have a lot of experience, which is why I feel that it's better. I won't say how many women I've slept with over the years for the simple fact that I haven't kept a record since I was 16. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/11/2008 5:26:06 PM | | would not know- my ex -married 16 years loved porn and bringing himself off more than being with a woman- should have realized that knowing he was 32 and only dated 3 women in his whole life- what I wonder is how gross it must have been when he was on the navy submarine in a room full of men- what do you hear - bam bam bam all night? sorry could not resist- despise him- tried all things to get him interested in sex- no luck - want to hear something else gross and funny too? could not imagine where all my cleaning rags went too- found out - thru his admission- he was using them to cum in his britches0 yuckkkkkkk | |
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vedin
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/13/2008 5:09:00 PM | | I have found for me personally that sex is so much more natural after 30 and it is only going to get better~ | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/13/2008 6:07:57 PM | | OK, I hope everyone is honest with his or her answer! I think for male it is better at 18. We are old enough and don't need to lie. lol. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/14/2008 9:30:38 PM |
OK, I hope everyone is honest with his or her answer! I think for male it is better at 18. We are old enough and don't need to lie. lol.
Well I'm going to be 33 in December and I think its better now. At 18 it was all about doing it as much as possible. Now its about making sure its a quality experience since all those years taught you to do it well. And at this age I give way more of a shit about getting a woman off and know how to do just that. Its an excellent situation when you can relieve a woman of her sexual tension simultaneously with yours. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/18/2008 8:53:21 AM | | I have to agrre with this guy. Sex at 18 is about doing it five or six times a night not about getting the woman off. I think after 30 is definately wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy better. You last longer and the orgasms are incredible if done right.... | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/18/2008 5:32:00 PM | Man, I'm getting in late on all the interesting discussions.
Sex is WAY better after 30. Both of you are beyond the insecurities and tee-hee-hee/giggle-giggle phase of being a teenager, and the awkwardness of sex in the 20's when you are still figuring out what works and what doesn't, and where every sexual relationship immediately is threatened by marriage and serious comittment.
By the time you are 30 you can approach the subject with confidence. You both are old enough to know its a natural part of life and something to be enjoyed rather than be ashamed of. You are beyond the religious and conservative social stigmas and other nonsense and can actually enjoy yourself and help your partner enjoy herself as well.
Hell, dating itself is way better after 30. Its so much more natural, open, fun, and easy. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/20/2008 10:54:39 AM | | There is no such thing as "Bad Sex". After 50 it is fantastic...what I used to be able to do all night long now takes all night to do...it's all in the warmup kids. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/20/2008 11:49:46 AM | after!
without a doubt or hesitation in my answer... AFTER!
Although I am only now 30... it was all just after 30... it has gotten better as I'm getting older and became more comfortable with myself, what I want and let go of the guilt I felt previously for even wanting or enjoying sex.
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 5/7/2009 7:57:24 PM | Scott_Vegas, you said it perfectly. I've always enjoyed sex immensely but it just keeps getting better! Harder to find, but better. Not being into the deabeat types who are commonly single after their 30's, you have to winnow through the chaff a bit more thoroughly, that's all.
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 5/7/2009 10:21:37 PM | Better in the sense that I had become more skilled and more articulate about talking about sex and what I want...
Worse in the sense that the raging hormones of the early 20s had cooled and I wasn't quite the red-hot insatiable creature I was in those early 20s...ready to hump anything with two legs that moved. And worse in the sense that sex wasn't new and fresh anymore. Once you've seen one pair of tits, ass and slit, you've seen them all.
Worse in the sense that I'd become desensitized. Or maybe I'd jerked off too often. Gotta lay off the self-inflicted hand-jobs and forget about sex for a few days...then it all becomes fresh again and the ladies look hot again. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 5/9/2009 7:38:21 AM | I think you hit that nail square bang on the head , in fact when it cums to the luvin i'm all 4 the shovin' | |
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