| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 4/12/2008 8:37:20 PM | | Although, I'm more comfortable with my body sexually now, I'd have to say before 30. The reason being when in my 20's, I was "anything goes". Now I'm mature and responsible. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 4/15/2008 11:40:36 AM | Definitely after, which seems to be common for women. I don't miss my 20's at all.
These days I know who I am, I know what I like and what I don't, not afraid to speak up like I used to be, more confident and secure as a person as well as in my own skin, and more relaxed about the whole thing, for lack of a better term. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 4/15/2008 2:44:06 PM | Hence the saying "youth is wasted on the young"! After 30 without a doubt for me, the irony being when you're young you have the firm, toned body and tons of time to use it...years pass and I learn to love my body, however it looks and ditto to all that wickked kitten said but being older now there's just not the free time to enjoy it all like you have as a youngster...no kids etc...good job I make the most of any time I do get! | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 4/19/2008 7:33:47 AM | | sex is definately better after 30 even 35, actually when i hit forty i thought there was something wrong with me, as my sex drive multipled by 100!! i was told it was in actual fact very normal so life definately begins at forty well it has for me!!! | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 4/20/2008 3:47:38 PM | | I have to agree with this posting...I am way more comfortable with my body now and as a result I enjoy sex more... | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 5/3/2008 9:25:45 AM | I didnt read this whole blog, so I may be stealing an answer here. I say the quantity was the better part of the younger years, I mean at 15-25 with your manhood in a constant uproar, you couldnt beat it down with a stick. He was ready to go all nite every nite. Especially if you didnt have school full time or a job full time. You could just hump all day and nite.
Now the quality, wow, what a difference. No more getting ridden for 3 minutes till she has a mini-O and squeals, then rolls over and is done. No more sore hands and jaws after 4 minutes of "foreplay", so now its time to finish myself off. No more watching tv while in the middle of sex.
As a younger man, I never would have imagined the following scenario existed and would be mind boggling, and body tingling....... no kids, no parents, lounging around at home making dinner together, lots of flirting, having a couple glasses of wine, having an "in house date", a little bit of touchy feely, talking, laughing, kissing, cleaning up, necking, (yes, I said necking) doing the dishes together, cuddling, more kissing, hours of foreplay, falling asleep still inside of your partner, only to wake up after your nap and wake yourself with slow, sleepy arms around eachother lovemaking. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/3/2008 1:02:10 PM | sex whats that ,something from the past ,hey just joking ,, all answers will be taken serious message me if you would like a chat john | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/8/2008 12:04:30 PM | | Just turned 60 a few years ago..and it gets better and better..but the real change is in the making love part..that really gets better..intimacy is better also.. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/8/2008 12:39:25 PM | After, my friend-you know what you want and go fer it! Grrr!! Man genes kicking in-huff!! Ha!!  | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/8/2008 8:38:23 PM | I say that sex / loving are really two very different thing. When i was young it was awesome to have a girl let you share that time with her and it was just mind blowing that I did not have to be alone.
I learned in my 20's that you can use communication and develop that awesome connection thought trust. Then come the real difference when you can put your education into practice and enjoy the art of making love now and then.
I rather be where I am today with the experience i have ENJOYED along the way.
So it a time in onces life that changes this fact for me.
I only ONCE have had the opportunity to enjoy sex with a person that i was 110% IN LOVE WITH @ THE TIME. who has NEVER b4 had sex and we waited a very long long time 18 months in fact. It was well worth the time spent being interment in conversation and other special closely related activities. I don't regret the 8 years i spent wither her after words can be replaced.
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/9/2008 7:50:14 AM | Hi...I just wanted to say hello. I was reading responses about sex being better after 30 and yours absolutely cracked me up! You are so right! Here's to better sex for all of us!
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/9/2008 9:14:35 PM | | The best sex i've ever had was with a woman who was 42 at the time. I was 41. It was simply mind blowing for me to be that age and find out how good it could be. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/9/2008 9:35:24 PM | | There were other issues that broke the relationship apart. But it was the most intense and passionate relationship I have had yet. The sex however remained amazing up to the end. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/9/2008 9:57:02 PM | | I only said more thanmy initial post because you asked. The initial post I made was just a response to the OP's ? nothing more. Believe me it's well in the rearview mirror. I very much moved on. | |
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| Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 10/10/2008 12:47:52 PM | | I know for me it's better, but I also have a lot of experience, which is why I feel that it's better. I won't say how many women I've slept with over the years for the simple fact that I haven't kept a record since I was 16. | |
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