| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/15/2008 8:31:51 AM | | Friends with benefits ie) sex with no strings hang ups . We have dogs and guy friends to hang out with and do guy things with already. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/15/2008 9:44:06 AM | ^^^Unless one of your current female friends wants to sleep with you, or you want to build a 3 year friendship in order to add the sex, you won't be getting that...remember the word "friend" is in the phrase, and it's not subject to aquaintences.
You can look for a booty call or NSA deal, and that's cool as long as you provide a sandwich beforehand and leave/allow us immediately after (and go see your dog and friends) so that we can either call the next guy and/or get some sleep. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/15/2008 9:14:01 PM | Well babe I always treat ladies well and since I am a fantastic cook and bartender, my lady guests are always happy when we have a nice
home cooked meal and enjoy some quality time.
Friends with benefits can often turn into something more substantial. I wish more women realized that fact. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/16/2008 4:11:43 AM | Friends with benefits can often turn into something more substantial. I wish more women realized that fact.
It can, but not often because it's not supposed to - and if it's agreed to by me (and he's actually a friend because if he's not, it's not a valid arrangement) then it means I don't want it to become more. That's the point of an FWB, or should be - it's sex with someone you can trust but wouldn't date seriously.
If I want something more from a guy, then I'll date him.
P.S. Cooking and bartending are great skills regardless of dating, entertaining friends, or taking care of a booty call. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/16/2008 7:36:34 AM | If I want something more from a guy, then I'll date him.
Indeed and thats why FWB is the best. No games no stupid first dates just pure fun and can lead to something more. Otherwise
its all good. Besides, even if the woman wants to date a man, if she is not attracted to him she will not do so either way. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/16/2008 10:51:59 PM | I am approaching this age, so extrapolating from my situation now this is what I want to achieve by then:
1) Complete my law degree
2) Begin to study science
3) Purchase my own place
4) Travel
5) Study at a postgraduate level (maybe get a Master of Laws degree)
6) Progress in my career
Speaking of what I would want from a woman if I were dating at that age, I would want someone I were an equal with, in terms of education, emotional qualities and intellect. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/20/2008 5:45:54 AM | I have always lived and active life and want to continue to do that till I can't do it anymore. Along with that I strived to be sucessful at my profession which took it's toll on my dating life, so I would take off from dating/relationships at times because I thought it wasn't fair for a woman to put up with that. For the past couple of years I have acheived most of my personal goals and now that I'm near 40, life is still rocks and everything is settled in my life I'm really looking for a woman to enjoy life together and what ever it brings. Right now I try to meet women within 5-7 years around my age. I think this range we both are from the same growing up era and can relate batter on all levels.
I have found at 39 it has been a real challange to date and to be honest it could part my fault for not dating a lot during my 20's and early 30's. I'm really active and always like to do/try different things in life and don't want to fall into a daily boring routine. Life is meant to be exciting, so why not enjoy it. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/23/2008 7:00:25 AM | | Most men in the thirties wnat just one thing but some like me want a woman that is funny,careing,and kind that enjoys going out to a movie or bowling or just takinga trip somewhere. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/23/2008 8:13:01 AM | Hard to pin down. What I want is extremely different from what a friend of mine is after.
My friend dates a lot of women all at once though he occassionally professes serious interest in a "special" woman... but he still sees all his other ladies at the same time. He says dating in your 30's is supposed to casual and not all that serious. He has pretty much given up on finding one person to be with and having kids. He just wants to be with people who entertain him.
I have a different take on things. I still hold out hope for the one. To me, the trick is finding someone who really stops you in your tracks and not JUST physically. Yeah, I want my wild crazy sex (who doesn't) but I also want to be able to communicate at the same level with my partner. To know I can share my interests without my partner just shrugging with indifference.
Now I personally can't stand boring people. I mean... try to be exciting. You don't have to go sky diving naked but you do need to make someone WANT you. No one gets a prize just for showing up... but being there is equally important. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/23/2008 8:38:58 AM | | your thinking to much if you have to analize age and all that other stuff.do you really want love.or are you one of those women who all ways do this. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/23/2008 8:43:18 AM | | thats why alot of you thirty year old women are not married.do you nkow there is triple amount of women in this world then men .we dont have to beg for nothing i dont and i dont want a booty call.its funny you problaby have men that drool over you thats funny you want to meet my girl models wow talking about funny. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/27/2008 12:38:10 PM | | could you let me know the rules in dating a younger guy, from early 30`s to early 40`s. When i date men of my age , i have no problem at the end of a dinner date to just say thank you and finish the date with just a goodnight kiss,there`s never any expectation for something more. What i`m asking, does the same rule apply to the younger man? or does he press and expect more? please let me know what experience you have had in this. Most of the mail i get are from guys in their 30`s early 40, where are the men my age? looking for younger women i bet. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/30/2008 10:58:14 PM | | I have no idea what i want............ive dated women in their 40s who acted like teenagers and women in their mid 20s who were so mature that i felt like the younger one. Age to me doesnt seem to mean very much. | |
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| What do early thirties men really want?
Posted: 5/31/2008 5:18:47 AM | | My opinion is that if you are so shallow, and finicky, that you are worrying about age range ahead of the far more serius issues then you have never met any real duds and have no idea how good you have got it. | |
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