Ren75
| Joined: 7/25/2007 Msg: 26 | |
| Honesty and dating Posted: 12/19/2007 6:21:37 AM | Honesty is probably one of the most important factors for me, especially since there was lack of so much of it in my marriage and my last relationship. I don't think necessarily that people who are that adamant about it are liars themselves - sometimes like in my case they've been hurt so bad by it that they focus on it the most.
I'm ok with a certain degree of honesty in place at the beginning of a relationship. I don't want to know everything about the person right off the bat - what else will you talk about in the future? But there are important factors that have to be admitted at the beginning. Like, current relationship status, whether or not you're a convicted felon, things like that But do I want to know if my current date has a thing for dressing up in animal print costumes in the bedroom or is frequently constipated? Not on the first date  | |
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| Honesty and dating Posted: 1/3/2008 11:16:12 PM | | Let's just say - You don't have to meet someone to be judged. Sometimes just a few words is all it takes. Your first impression is also your last. :P | |
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| Honesty and dating Posted: 2/1/2009 2:14:32 PM | | I've been trying the 100 percent honesty wanting the person who involves themself with me to do so with eyes wide open...let me tell you honesty is not the best approach as it would be in my case as people want the fantasy and not the reality in my opinion...I may be wrong but hey still waiting to be proven wrong...I am also finding this process un natural to tell the complete truth and am close to going back to finding a mate the old fashion way | |
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