| I am having a difficult time accepting my boyfriend emailing other women
Posted: 9/17/2007 3:28:52 PM | | Once again, I'm sorry for the confusion. I am not a liar. The only thing I am guilty of is using his own log-in and NOT creating my own log-in before asking for people's thoughts on the subject. You are right in that he doesn't hide things very well and thus it made it easy for me to find out. | |
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| I am having a difficult time accepting my boyfriend emailing other women
Posted: 9/17/2007 3:44:20 PM | heyy listen i no exactly how you feel my boyfriend of almost 4 years all together has been emailing girls and it makes me so mad i was starting to get use to it until this random girl added him and kept asking to see him naked it really hurt cuz i really love him and he says he loves me too he wants to get married but i dunno what to do cuz its so hard for me to trust him when all these girls seem to want him  | |
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vhdc
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Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 28 | |
| I am having a difficult time accepting my boyfriend emailing other women
Posted: 9/17/2007 3:52:33 PM |
I am actually on his site which is why it comes up as 56 year old male. Just another site that I have uncovered in his life. I myself am not signed up to any sites and wanted some advice. I'm sorry if it appears that I too am being deceitful. That is not the case. I am just not signed in to any. Again, my apologies for any confusion.
You have access to his account? One word for the both of you "THERAPY." | |
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| I am having a difficult time accepting my boyfriend emailing other women
Posted: 9/17/2007 5:30:53 PM | Can you say B. B. D ? Repeat after me, he's B.B.D. ing me, he's B.B.D ing me, he's B.B.D. ing me..... until you get it.
He is looking for the "Bigger Better Deal" and you need to look for a new boy friend.
with any luck the new guy will be Bigger and better.
here are some words of advice.
once a liar, always a liar.
once a cheat, always a cheat.
once a thief, always a thief.
once he's GOTTEN AWAY, with it, He will ALWAYS TRY, to get away with it.
If he THINKS, he has gotten away with something, He will ALWAYS THINK, he can get away with it.
If you keep LETTING HIM ,get away with it, He will KEEP DOING IT .
If the COST for doing what he want is too high, he WILL stop doing it.
If loosing your trust, respect and love, is NOT to high a price for him to pay, then he does not place as high a value on your relationship as you do.
If you swallow his lies, and keep coming back for more, you must be getting something out of the lies, that feeds your need to be lied to.
He can only treat you as badly as you allow him to.
men only do what there allowed to get away with.
keep that in mind, when your thinking about the way you want to be treated.
GOOD LUCK ! | |
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| I am having a difficult time accepting my boyfriend emailing other women
Posted: 9/17/2007 5:43:35 PM | | wellll,,i would say he's notyour boyfreind,,why would he need to email other women,,i man,i won't give up my freinds,,mostly women,,for anyone,,but then i don't write them sexualy charged letters either,,,and me,,,if i need anything but the gal i'm with,,she ain'n the one for me,and i don't share in any way,shape or form,,,,sooo,if it was me,,i'd dump his sorry ass ehhh,,,i would think you deserve better then that,,,,, | |
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| I am having a difficult time accepting my boyfriend emailing other women
Posted: 9/17/2007 5:58:26 PM | Sweetie, your boyfriend is cheating on you. Cheating is turning to someone OTHER than your partner to get your relationship needs met. It's emotional cheating. I would make it clear that I considered it cheating. If he can't or won't cut it out, I would have to go. I don't believe in controlling people. I also don't believe in taking less that I deserve. You deserve to be treated with respect and dignity.
His behavior is beneath you. His willingness (or unwillingness) to stop should determine the future of your relationship. | |
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vhdc
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Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 33 | |
| I am having a difficult time accepting my boyfriend emailing other women
Posted: 9/17/2007 6:00:23 PM |
Thank you for the insight. I do not believe I need therapy simply because I am computer savvy and was able to figure out his log in information but I do appreciate everyone's comments. Please enlighten me. What about this behavior is okay? Because you can.. doesn't mean it's okay it's called impulse control. Beyond creepy. | |
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| I am having a difficult time accepting my boyfriend emailing other women
Posted: 9/17/2007 6:09:14 PM | Regardless of who the OP is, man or woman......the boyfriend or the girlfriend, this is a stupid thread and I can not even believe it exists.
In the first place, I believe it is a man with a porn addiction who only wishes he had a lady to exchange explicit emails with. How or why he got off a porn site long enough to start this thread is unknown to me, my guess is he is getting off on the attention he is receiving and the handful of people who are falling for this.
Now if I am wrong and this is really a woman who has access to her perverted boyfriends accounts let me just say this:
Lady, you are one stupid b i t c h if one iota of your post has some truth to it. | |
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| I am having a difficult time accepting my boyfriend emailing other women
Posted: 9/17/2007 6:29:00 PM | | I'm sorry if you believe I am one stupid ****. I do not believe I am the only woman in the world who has had some sort of dilemma at one time or another and was only requesting some insight as opposed to name calling. What may be clear to others may not be clear to the person involved which is why these forums exist. For just that purpose. To hopefully get clarity because I believe we all tend to have somewhat of a blind eye when it comes to those we love. Was just looking for some clarity naughtical. | |
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