| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/16/2007 1:34:04 PM | The bad men want something like a dog , but with breasts and a vagina on it, that resembles something human. Has to be good looking too. Preferably long hair breeds, low maintenance and who already has her shots.
The good ones want someone who can be herself and knows what loving him according to his needs is all about. Oh, and a human being he can respect.
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/16/2007 1:40:00 PM | | I'm not a man so I can't say what men want. But I wish I knew. I done EVERYTHING for my ex-husband and wow did we go to crap obviously because we are divorced. Some guys are just never satisfied. I could've brought my ex all the riches in the world and he still would've ran me into the ground 24/7. SO I don't think its what men want in general. You just have to wait until you come along a guy that loves you for everything you are....and aren't. | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/16/2007 10:33:31 PM | nothing in particular. Why? What do you have to offer?
It used to be that a wife had a particular role in terms of being a life partner, today most women just don't offer what men used to benefit from in marriage and coupling.
However the economics just don't add up. All the women working today just don't create enough employment. It appears to be simple a matter of supply and demand. Since the 60s there have been twice as many people looking for the same number or relative ratio of jobs. So wages have adjusted such that life demands a double average income. Alas, even women whom would like to be stay at home wives and mothers have no choice but to work as much as possible.
However there in lies the problem. For example; a recent artical in the Montreal Gazette detailed a study that indicted that while there are more than 50% female medical students in university now, ... female doctors only provide a 70% return on the investment of subsidized univiersities compared to male medial students/doctors - due to time off to bear and raise children. Hence the establishment is scrambling to accomadate this impending shortage of medical services - at a significantly increased cost.
the moral of the story appears to be that regardless of the rationalization - the math indicates that women simply don' want to be wives or mothers. It's a real problem but - politicaly incorrect to merely discuss. (shrug)
At this rate, .... the feminist movement will be responsible for the extinction of western civilization. ie .... The future of the world belongs to the islamic, oriental and other so called enthic racial populations.
Thank the "American Woman". | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/17/2007 7:03:37 PM | e: Thats easy...
Don't **** and complain about everything under the sun, don't ask him "whats wrong" every time he is quiet for more than five minutes, after you take a shower or bath...give him a subtle "accidental" teaser view while you towel off, smile and agree alot (if only he really knew what you thought), if you don't feel like having sex...do it anyway, or use your imagination to "please" him, don't nag about his ex and the **** that she probably really is, GIVE HIM SPACE, cook him dinner (atleast a couple of nights a week), call him every once in a while....but not too much, Let him "check out other chicks", and compliment him on his good "taste", Give him a guys night when he needs it, act like you enjoy watching Sports Center, Act like you enjoy picking up his laundry when he just leaves it lying around on the floor, help him with his laundry, don't flirt too much with his friends, be passive, let him think he is in control..............
I could go on and on............this is a no brainer here......Basically put your brain on "Man mode" and think like a man......
Simple.
Yea right AMES.... I did all that and he left me for another woman... Lesson learned. | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/18/2007 3:40:14 PM |
"The remote.. case of beer.. :) and to be left alone for the remainder of the evening"
Good try!
Laptop, rum and to be left alone for the remainder of the evening. | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/18/2007 4:39:30 PM | babygyrl67,
You're right on, and may I add...improve your knowledge, gain your wisdom so that you can give proper, correct advice when he asks for help. Be wise with financial matters and be a good mother raising children in a loving environment.
Hey, it is a tough task that's why I have lots of respect for ladies that can handle the responsibilities of a wife, a mother, and a co-breadearner simultaneously. | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/18/2007 8:50:57 PM | I want a woman who is honest, somewhat attractive-who takes care of there looks, and who has the same intrest as I do, If possible!  | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/29/2007 3:04:09 PM | Well I just read this personal the other day and it just gives me a warm fuzzy feeling...
Except for the specifics of how she looks it seems a good start...
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1. I am cute. 2. I love to cuddle. 3. I’m squishy. 4. Sex isn’t always love-making, sometimes it hot, sweaty, sexy ****ing too. 5. I have short hair. 6. I won’t make you go shopping with me; I hate shopping. 7. I love animals and will take you to the zoo. 8. I have sexy underwear. 9. I’m not girly but I’m not a guy either. 10. I won’t order a salad. 11. I want to road trip with you. 12. I have green eyes. 13. My favorite color is green. 14. I won 3rd place in my fifth grade spelling bee. 15. I’ll pay for movies sometimes. 16. I might even buy you little things for no reason. 17. I love your**** 18. I smell like coconuts / ocean breeze shampoo. 19. I like to be naked. 20. I can get ready in 20 minutes (if I really have to). 21. I can cook. 22. I can burp better than you can. 23. I will let you be on the inside of the spoon… sometimes. 24. I’ll let you slap my butt in public, even though it’s sleazy. 25. I won’t ever cheat on you. 26. If you drove, I would give you road head. 27. If you had an office job, I’d sneak in and give you desk head. 28. I like to photocopy my butt, boobs, etc. 29. I like to laugh. 30. I remember your birthday. 31. I will hold and cuddle you when you need it. 32. I will be there to listen when you need to talk. 33. I initiate sex. 34. I’ll sit around and watch animal planet or the discovery channel with you. 35. I’ll surprise you with Krispy Kremes that I found in the dumpster at 3 in the morning. 36. I make the best brownies. 37. I love to kiss. 38. I don’t care if you smell. 39. I won’t get pregnant. 40. I love surprises. 41. I’ll order pizza for us. 42. I’ll try to make you feel better after you have a bad day at work. 43. I know that you like spicy food, even you get diarrhea after eating too much hot sauce. 44. I don’t lurk that much. 45. I like to lay in the sun… naked. 46. I know where you are ticklish. 47. I will be the only person to leave a hickey, besides Kyle. 48. I let you take pictures when we **** around. 49. I have little boobies that you can play with whenever you want. 50. I’m just awesome. | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/29/2007 8:29:48 PM | men want affection & a woman who makes him feel like he is significant , respect,admiration ,assistance,to be builded up , a shoulder 2 lean on ,2 chill with ,a listener , a communicator, a mother/wife a lady a queen ,& intimately i don't need more than 1 woman but she should no creatively it is a lack of understanding & a man needs more than 1 experience ( it's y he cheats some x's she represents montonot0us ) a sense of humor ,feminine appeal goes further than looks , fantasies realized,& also 2 be romanced , shelterd ,& not have his weaknesses gossipped about but prayed about ------- GOD BLESS | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/30/2007 8:27:56 AM | Men want women who dont ask stupid questions.Like this one.Unless their stupid.Then they luv women.Who ask stupid questions.Unless their fat.Then they luv any woman they can get.Unless their gay.Then they dont like women.Unless they like women.U see where Im going with this ? :D .This is called a question with no answer.Or a question with 10trillion answers.And all those possibilities.Make my hangover worse.So bye  | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/30/2007 8:52:18 AM |
Don't **** and complain about everything under the sun, don't ask him "whats wrong" every time he is quiet for more than five minutes, after you take a shower or bath...give him a subtle "accidental" teaser view while you towel off, smile and agree alot (if only he really knew what you thought), if you don't feel like having sex...do it anyway, or use your imagination to "please" him, don't nag
Wow, you were like this and he blew you off? You sound very much like the perfect woman if all this is true! I would think this treatment would DEFINITELY be the cure for the "roving eye". Apparently there is much I have yet to understand. | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/30/2007 9:31:53 AM | tonydaboss: What a lazy reply this one is. Keep looking.....she might be out there somewhere, under a haystack....or try the science fiction section at the local library.  | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/30/2007 11:31:17 AM | coupla comments
scarred_for_life84,...your kid has the biggest blue eyes Ive ever seen.And is 2 damn cute :D
Cant speak 4 all men.But I want Cynderella wearing nothing but a smile.And a few strategically placed bows and ribbons :D
Just to cover ma butt with the mods. What men want,depends on the man.The situation.U etc etc etc.
PS,...hugs bk.09 already dearest :D ??? lol. | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/30/2007 11:40:39 AM | Character: Positive Attitude, Giving, Trustworthy, Loyal, as well as Compatibility, and Beauty.
Each male perceives each of those qualities differently. I could break down each one, but my version would always be different. For example: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. While most of us have a general consensus of what is beauty on average -- the individual preferences are vast. | |
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 3/30/2007 11:53:29 PM | I like a very intelligent female who has rid herself of the ego that makes many have a need to prove it. One who understands that this physical life is but a small part of a much bigger experience called "the non-physical universe", and who hopefully has some life experiences that we can share, for example.
I too want an individual, a woman who has dropped fitting into 'common culture' (common here means vulgar.... as in the type of garbage promoted by our very own entertainment industry for the sole purpose of the continued "dumbing down of humanity".)
Someone who is actually intelligent, which means I can converse and use words and phrases that I will not have to pull out a dictionary for her after every paragraph I speak.
Intelligence by the way to me, has little or nothing to do with any school of learning. Life is a school, and it is forever- as long as you participate, each new day brings new learning opportunities.
Someone who speaks more than one language, and uses them well in her conversations (street talk and gutter mouth is not a language, sorry. Some people do not want to self educate, and humanity will never change. Give it 10,000 and we will come back to this discussion- that's years by the way.)
And many of the well placed points that many have already said- sans the beer though, because I gave up alcohol or control behaviors, hee haw, mardi graw. And now you know the rest of my story, well, part of it anyway...page 2?
[Hat tip to Paul Harvey, wherever you are...]
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| so what is it that men really want????? Posted: 4/3/2007 2:43:32 AM | I found this on a site can a guy please tell me how true this is please????
What men want from a woman.
Here are the guidelines: 1. Men want a fun and exciting (female) companion. 2. Men want great sex (consistent, frequent, and passionate lovemaking score high with men). 3. Men want to share meals with their woman companion (especially when she cooks for him). 4. Men want you to support them in their work and boost their confidence. 5. Men want you to look great, keep in shape, and express confidence about your body. 6. Men want you to listen to them and treat them with respect. 7. Men need private time, to unwind, to engage in sports and hobbies, and to spend time with other men.
How true is this????? What do we get in return? | |
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