| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/25/2007 11:14:19 AM | Monagamy with a Bi sexual is as easy as a monagomous relationship with a straight or a gay person . The fact that Bi sexuals have the ability to love either gender has nothing to do with it . I know many straight guys who if given the opportunity to stray will do it ,I also know many gay friends in totally committed relationships.
PEOPLE cheat it has nothing to do with bisexuality, other than the fact that if YOU are insecure in your relationship you have to worry about everyone she meets being a possible match for her not just the men. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/26/2007 12:04:00 PM | Uhhh just beacuase a girl is bi doesn't mean she's a whore. We can keep our pants on when were with someone. If you're with a straight girl you still have the same chance of being cheated on. Give your head a shake. To assume is to make an ass of yourself.  | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/26/2007 12:57:11 PM | Been there, done that, never again.
She was always acting as though her lesbian friend was no more than a sex toy. However the lesbian friend didn't see it that way and tried constantly to break us up.
Didn't need the drama. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/26/2007 1:04:18 PM |
Would you date a bi-sexual women?
This does not mean that she's going to invite girlfriends into the bedroom, still an exlusive relationship, and there would be no-threesomes involved.
Why or Why Not?
No.
Because I want someone normal. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/26/2007 1:58:28 PM | | Well it would not bother me. I fail to see the connection that some people have raised about bi-sexual woman, especially the monogomy issue. Just because she is bi does not mean that she sleeps with everyone that comes along guy or girl. I would imagine that she could be faithful just as someone who is straight, and just because you are straight doesn't mean that you are faithful. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/26/2007 2:59:26 PM |
No reason not to, a heterosexual partner doesn't run around having sex with every man she can find when she's dating you, I don't see why someone being bi would suddenly cause this behavior. You're committing to a person in a relationship, not a set of genitals.
I disagree with this observation. With a bi-sexual woman you know that she yearns for other things too, other than *ahem* what you bring to the table in the relationship. Its not like the case of a heterosexual woman who needs only those things you're physically capable of offering(on a practical scale).
But with that being said, I just have to say that I wouldnt have any problems with it, if the woman turns out to be bi-sexual, because I am just like any other red blooded man when it comes to the idea of two women being with each other. So even if I do have trouble in lowering my possessiveness, I'd still be excited about the idea of she being with another woman and I will relent. On the bright side you have the chance to be in the right kind of threesomes  | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/26/2007 5:06:03 PM | | You know at first if I was asked this question I would answer yes I would. However my honest answer at least for now is no I wouldn't date a bi-sexual woman for I have in the past dated two bi-sexual women and both ended very poorly. I will say that the second break up was only partly because of her being bi-sexual but the first was exactly that reason for I was cheated on many times by her and only knowing it after I broke up with her for thinking she cheated on me only once. I do know all people are diffrent and if I dated another woman and she was bi sexual I most likely wouldn't have a problem with it but from my past experiances I think I would be more happy with a straight woman. I know it sounds selfish and stupid but I really....well simply don't trust going out with a bi sexual woman at this time to many bad memories. Do I have a problem with them? Nope not at all i've got more then a few bi-sexual friends both men and women. But would I date them as thats the question on this topic, and thats a no at least right now its going to be the answer, but you never know a woman might change my mind who is bi sexual heh. Won't know till later in my future right? | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/26/2007 5:29:07 PM | No.
It's been my experience that most bisexual women prefer other women over men, and I'm not going to try to compete with someone who knows the terrain better than I ever will. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/26/2007 5:43:37 PM | I dated a bi-sexual before. Nothing wrong with that. If we are serious then she can not have another relationship with another woman.
Leslie nelson once said in naked gun: I like my sex like I like my basketball. One on one and with little dribbling as possible. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/28/2007 10:10:44 AM | No.
"Because I want someone normal."
Exactly...
Who said bi people weren't normal? Oh I guess YOU and the rest of the homophobes out there right? Ignorance. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/28/2007 11:02:46 AM | Sure.......most bisexuals have a distinct preference for the opposite sex & only occasionally dabble in homosexuality. A true 50/50 split is rare.
As long as she was a decent person & was up front about her needs, it's no different than a straight hetero relationship.
Full-time monogamy w/ a bisexual only means they are currently non-practicing in the bi aspect of their sexuality. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/28/2007 11:12:58 AM | | I agree with Gallon-Of-Finlandia. Just because someone is bi doesnt mean they are not normal. What is normal anyway? What is normal to you might be abnormal to someone else. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 11/28/2007 11:54:52 AM | No more bi-sexual women for me.
The drama that follows them around is far too much for me to handle.
They are generally more promiscuous than pure heterosexual women due to the plain
math that they are attracted to BOTH genders.. hence twice the temptation.
I don't like those odds.
Also they tend to play the "She's a chick.. we just made out. I was drunk.. what's the big deal? I love you and come home to you don't I? Yer just a jealous a-hole!" ... a lot.
Plus they tend to broadcast that they are "BI" any chance they can get... it's equivalent to me walking around telling random strangers how much money I have in my ING account.
Plus like it or not most young women pretend to be BI to get male attention and this stigmata has attached itself to the "bi-sexual woman"
So.... no thanks.... to dating BI-sexual women for me. | |
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dbm36
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Joined: 11/24/2007
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 12/2/2007 9:08:54 PM | | Just thinking back I'm going to say that about half the women I have dated have been Bi ok maybe 40 % now that I think about it. It made no difference . Except during story time ;) | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 12/2/2007 9:18:43 PM | I would date ANY woman who loved me. There's no difference between a girl who has had past girlfriends and a girl who has had past boyfriends.
I take it that we are not talking about a lesbian who has taken up with a boyfriend to slience the gissops?
Any woman who enjoys being with men as much as women. More specicifically who enjoys being with ME. Who enjoys my dating, cuddling, undressing, and making love to her.
Yea! I would date any such woman.
What was the question again?? Something about bi sexuality? | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 12/2/2007 9:20:19 PM | She was always acting as though her lesbian friend was no more than a sex toy. However the lesbian friend didn't see it that way and tried constantly to break us up.
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So was she bi or was she lesbian then?
Come to think of it who was the sex toy. Her lesbian friend, or you. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 12/3/2007 11:40:54 AM |
So was she bi or was she lesbian then?
Come to think of it who was the sex toy. Her lesbian friend, or you.
my friend was bi, her friend was the lesbian.
My friend was always saying stuff like "It doesn't matter, it's not like I'm doing it with a guy."
However, then the other girl got emotionally involved. And from there it got messy. | |
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Joined: 10/7/2006
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 12/3/2007 10:54:10 PM | No. I wouldn't. If she's not going to be into threesomes or trying to get at other women, what would be the purpose in her letting me know that she was bi-sexual? I look at that as, "You knew this about me, so if you find me with another woman, you knew it when we started.", so no. I wouldn't knowingly date a bisexual woman. I just think that's an excuse to go back and forth as often as she wants and not take any responsibility in doing it.
...and no...I am not a homophobe, but I want a realtionship with someone who is sure of who they want a relationship with and doesn't try to use the admission of practices as an excuse to do such when we have a disagreement or times get tough. | |
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