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| What is great sex Posted: 1/5/2008 1:23:47 PM | For all the guys who are getting sappy knock it off already. For a guy great sex is as simple as unloading your balls on your lady and nothing more. Making love, is the same thing with the difference being you take longer before you unload. Go run a batch off by hand and then go at your lady, you'll be able to rub her into hamburger and make her walk like a duck for a week. javascript:smilie(' ') javascript:smilie(' ') | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/5/2008 1:45:55 PM | Oh Grizzly how romantic I did have to wipe some vomit off my keyboard, but it is ok...
But I guess you have a point (actually four on your post) - the question being asked is about great sex and not making love. I do think great sex is making love... | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/5/2008 4:07:12 PM | Great sex is when you do it for hours (in different rooms) have multiple orgasms and its so good the man makes you cry..because you are so overwelmed with him pleasing you so well...but at the same time you are like spegetti...and you just are wore out to the max! That is love making  | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/5/2008 10:28:12 PM | Great sex.. requires passion, passion requires feelings. The best sex I ever had is when I made LOVE to a man I had feelings for. It went from sex.. to passion.. to making love..to neither of us wanting to move.
The last thing I remember saying to him was, "I'll give you $20 to reach that water bottle" He said, "Make it $50, and a bubble bath, and I'll think about it" Neither of us moved. | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/5/2008 11:31:55 PM | | Great sex happens with all it's fan fair when the two people fanning the flames of desire are totaly, deeply, and passionately in love with other, and I hope I find my other half soon. | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/8/2008 12:29:21 PM | I'd make a comment on the ' . . when you want More . . ' .. ' Yeah! '.. train of thought . . . . but . . . . My modesty . . . *BLUSH!* . . .. .. .. .. . . ** 'Pretty-3016' . . You know your Stuff . . !!! ** | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/26/2008 1:07:46 AM | If we have to explainit, you wouldn't understand anyway...... keep trying!!
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/26/2008 11:02:04 AM | Great sex is what works for both people and makes them not feel unappreciated, unloved, or self conscious about what you do together.
If you have to ask, you are not there yet - time to hit the bookstores and adult shops to enhance what you have and improve on what you are doing. | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/26/2008 12:27:16 PM | Hey, ARTZ,
I am still laughing at that one! Good description! | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/26/2008 2:27:05 PM | Its hot, sweaty, loving, tender, gentle,, wild and filthy all wrapped in to one tired heap.wheww  | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/26/2008 3:50:09 PM | | Sex is only great when your souls have bonded and meshed before two bodies do,,, | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/26/2008 6:16:23 PM | great sex is when both are into each other , have feelings for each other, rather than a one night stand situation...when both try to please the other and where both make one another feel like they just entered another universe....that is why one night stands do not work...there has to be some level of feeling or affection for your partner otherwise it;s just sex...not great sex | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/26/2008 6:33:55 PM | Getting to great sex isn't so hard, if you are with someone who you are comfortable with and are tuned into each other. It helps if you are both into the same turn-ons. I would say a little flirting, turned into groping ---> oral is pretty good foreplay. You can skip the candles, wine and roses. Guys should know that, for most girls, oral isn't a 15 second exercise and that if stimulated appropriately, would usually result into even greater sex. But since we aren't talking technique here ....
Great sex is when you're done, you're out of breath, body numb, can't move/don't want to move, forgot about your headache, no more insomnia, can't find your clothes, can't find the sheets/pillows/cushions or light switch. You can't walk straight, feel a little intoxicated and just want to catch your breath before it happens again .... | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/26/2008 6:36:40 PM | I think I should add that passion/making love/romance are not prerequisites to great sex.
The question was about sex, not love. The two can be non-related.
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/26/2008 6:52:28 PM | | When, after several climaxes each, we want nothing more than to fall asleep cuddling. | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/26/2008 9:17:55 PM |
great sex? Your clothes are scattered all over the house. The night stand is turned over . The bed side lamp is broken. the sheets and blankets are on the floor. Maybe even the mattress is on the floor. You look up and wonder how that bra got on the ceiling fan?You can't remember exactly what happened but you sure want it to happen again. The two of you won't be able to wipe the silly grin off your face for at least a week. Great sex is two people who are really in tune with each other. You somehow just know when and how to please your partner. it can be a quickie, playful ,wild or gentle and tender lasting all night long.
Hmmm....Let's see...when you can feel the heat, no matter where you touch, and where you touch, comes alive..thousands of unseen hairs, muscle up into goose flesh at that deliberate soft, slow touch. You feel her quiver beneath your hand, draw a sharp, ragged breath...watch her lower lip tremble. Watch her nipples become painfully taut with merely the breeze of your warm breath. Explore, caressing with your hand, till you can actually breathe in the need she feels for you...slip your hand between her thighs, touching only the very tender flesh where they join her body on both sides, your fingers spread, soft as a butterflies wings slowly pulsing on a flower..working your way inward. Your fingers feel the soft flesh beneath them, and glide through slowly, one end then the other. Where you encounter the heat of a hundred summer days at once, and, when you dip slightly are met with that slick, wet readiness and a soft moan of approval. Where you slowly finger-paint upon her canvas of desire, softly ,.. reading the reaction. Like trying to slowly work your way into her soul. You work softly, deliberately kissing, softly biting, exploring..bringing her to fruition, time & time again, each different. Feeling the need building inside you, but knowing you must wait...Tasting her, everywhere, inhaling her scent, her breath, her lips, breasts, everywhere,. Controlling your needs, until it becomes impossible, feeling her, from the inside...that burning feeling, that makes your own lip quiver, that,. ever tensing winding...inside you. Hey.. are you guys SURE, you want to know this stuff?? If so,. I'll finish it, and THEN tell you about REALLY great sex!
Any other women thinking we should take a road trip? What am I doing in CT? | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/26/2008 9:58:10 PM | | Great sex is when she KNOWS what the football helmet hanging from my headboard is for and (being the trooper she is) she eagerly agrees to wear it! Or, when the jungle gym installed over her bed crashes and burns at some point in the middle of the night, and nobody noticed. Or, at 4am a trip to the emergency room for Gatorade because you have both lost too many bodily fluids. Or, waking up and your both wearing the same pair of underwear. Or, you wake up and your entire body feels like a glazed doughnut. That is great sex! | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/29/2008 10:54:45 AM | Being able to connect without saying a word..Eye's in constant contact..Taking your time, and REALLY suduce one another. Making sure you really heighten every sense in your bodies, making sure that you please one another till you can no longer breath,,Pay attention to what your partner wants and needs from you. Experiment and explore all of your fantasies and not be afriad, nothing is taboo!!
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/29/2008 10:56:13 AM | | Great sex , to me, is about being with a man that is in tune with my needs as much as I am into his. It's about being with someone that I can talk with and share my desires and my fantasies with. It's about knowing that I can completely be myself. It's knowing that if a specific sexual act is something that I need and desire, my man will work with, or , at the very least, be willing to try different things. For me, great sex starts with lots and lots of kissing and sucking tongue. I'm sure everybody has their own needs. I was married to a man for 17 years that didn't like to kiss, so, for me, that is an aprhodisiac in itself..... | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/29/2008 11:07:17 AM | | Great sex is when everything feels right, including emotions, and it is thoughtful, and both of you climax and feel totally satisfyed! | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/29/2008 11:08:35 AM | hey janaaz1,,, I believe we were married to the same man lol!!!! | |
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| What is great sex Posted: 1/29/2008 11:13:19 AM | | It's great when I don't have to pull out my VISA after an hour... | |
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