| What is great sex
Posted: 1/29/2008 11:13:20 AM | I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy, imkimmi. It's crazy how often I hear other women say that they can relate to being married to a man that wouldn't kiss. My best friend was married to the same exact type of man. My ex actually had the nerve to tell me that, on the rare occasion he kissed me on the lips, he didn't want any moisture to move from my lips to his lips ! No, I'm not kidding ! I stayed for many reasons, our child, my religion. I am so very thankful that now I am single. I still haven't met a man that is someone I'd call my boyfriend. But, man, it sure is nice to know that it is at least possible now!!!!!  | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/29/2008 8:24:22 PM | | To me great sex is physically fulfilling, where both partners experience orgasms are are stimulated and happy. Ive found that one of the secrets is easily achieving rock hard erections from sex pills. There are some available from the Stag Shop and the Condom Shack in Toronto. It's great | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/29/2008 8:32:57 PM | | Great sex is sex that all involved are recieving pleasure, whether it be physical or emotional. I think that sex involving emotions tends to be better, but I can't knock a hot tussle in a Burger King bathroom. I think the best is when both partners know what the other wants, and is willing and able to provide that. | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/30/2008 3:34:45 AM | Great sex is when, after the act, you're both out of it for like half the damn day because it was that good. And when you eventually stir, you're both sooo buzzed up and still into each other that you end up spending the rest of the day in bed, ordering Chinese food, drinking lots of red wine, eating cheese cake and Hagen Dass ice cream, and having yet more sex in between watching DVDs ordered from Blockbuster.
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/30/2008 6:25:37 AM | great sex is when words are not enough to describe it... mind you its also when your too busy trying to think straight ...focus...and not roll in the wet patch lol | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/30/2008 7:02:24 AM | | Great sex occurs when all of your senses are in tune with your partner...both minds seduced and passionate; both bodies alive and electric at every touch; no sounds exist except those of passion (ever notice you no longer hear Barry White once the sex really begins?); every ounce of your being is there to please and pleasure your partner; you are covered in sweat, and neither cares; you both collapse, totally satisfied, both hearts pounding in rhythm...at least, that is what works for me. | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/30/2008 9:28:48 AM | | sex is always great as long as i get a nut off ...lol just playing,i like to get em all wet and make em qweaf ..then finish off with a money shot,porno style baby | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/30/2008 12:31:04 PM | | great sex is when your in it, and it feels sooooooooooo......................damn good, that it brings tears to your eyes. when you nut, you shake like an earthquake, and then you look at her, and fall into her arms. and go to sleep for hours. | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/30/2008 3:24:16 PM | hmmmmm how to define great sex? do you have a day or so ?? it starts with a touch, not just any touch but a special touch, one that sends shivers down your spine followed by kissing, gotta love kissing and taking your time to kiss every inch of her. I could explain a novel here but getting back to the question at hand.
What makes it great, during the act when you look into her eyes and shes dreamy, your eye contact lasts a long time and her moans meet your thrusts... when you hold eachother and you feel at home, safe and alive.. What makes it great is knowing that you cant live without that person, that its not about the sex, its about the love you have in your hearts for eachother and that you know theres not another person out there that could replace this feeling... :: | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/30/2008 3:32:49 PM | Hmm interesting thread. What is great sex? For me it is a total sense (sensual indeed!) experience. It can involve lots of components like candles, music, different tastes or textures. There needs to be a lot of natural chemistry and attraction to begin with. It involves each person listening to and responding to the wants and desires of the other. Foreplay is good. If a guy just wanted to jump into bed right away that would be skeezy to me. I like foreplay and build up more than is healthy. :) The pay off is much better that way.
In the end even if it is a baron room with nothing but the two of you it can be amazing if your e really in it....
And since it's been so long I am going to stop torturing myself by talking about this.... *goes to take cold shower* | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/31/2008 12:34:26 AM | | You know you're having great sex if you're saying this to yourself: "Wow! I can hardly wait until I do THAT again" | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/31/2008 4:59:33 AM | when its done and u find urselfs holding each other tight crying cause it felt so good!!! | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/31/2008 6:07:42 AM | That's sooo true !!!!
It's both parties not being selfish when it come to foreplay you both have to be ready so don't rush it. If you men can't hold back that little bit lomger then there are pemature ejaculation clinics out there now days | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/31/2008 6:42:32 AM | ~Scoundrel~
What is great sex
Posted: 9/20/2007 4 07 PM
Great sex is when I don't have to do all the work. Really great sex is when I don't have to do anything.
Ditto. Definitely agree with this
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/31/2008 7:07:56 AM | Hmm. I need to consult w/ my SO for what is great sex ...and how we might improve on this mutually-enjoyed activity even more. [I am somewhat surprised that she didn't find this thread first.] Are you OK, bebe? 'Cat got your tongue' and/or fingertips for the typing?
I know that my tongue and the rest of me can't get enough of my 'cat'. Great sex? When we're both purring for days afterward, but are still in need of some more good scratchin' and lovin'. Best sex? When mutual 'consultation' before and during occurs. | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/31/2008 7:09:02 AM | Great sex is when my partner and I start off with a lot of hugging and cuddling. Deep lingering kisses would be a big part of it as well. If she can perform oral on me as zealously as I perform it onher, then this is bound to be one hot night! When a woman can take all that I have, and for an hour or more straight, then we are having GREAT sex. If I am relaxed and sleepy afterwards, and she can do nothing but lay in my arms and purr, then it has been a wonderful night. If it has been REALLY great, then after a bit of rest, we can go for round two!
One love,
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| What is great sex
Posted: 1/31/2008 11:19:44 AM | | Umm......just thinking about this question warms up the body! I guess for every person the answer would differ slightly depending on what you like. For me great sex starts with intense physical attraction and the ability to be comfortable with them. Someone with whom you can lose all inhibition and get lost in the passion. Soft lights, eyes open, sexy music and two bodies that move together like silk. Each lover doing whatever it takes to satisfy their partner. The taste of their mouth, the smell of their sweat, the feel of their skin against you, and the sound of their breathing is complete sensory overload. If you are lucky enough to be with someone who you share true intimacy with, your souls connect as well as your bodies..........and there are no words. | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 2/16/2008 11:38:53 PM | Your so in tune with each other that every touch, kiss, is explosive!!! You and your partner are drenched in sweat, sweet smells of sex, when you don't want it to end!!! You have touched every spot that turns your partner on from start to end it is all about you and your partner exploring your deepest desires !!! It ends when all energy is spent and there is no way of going any on and extacy is acheived!!!
Damn I need a new GF!!! lol | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 3/20/2008 4:20:29 PM |
sensuality, intimacy, and loving communication, where it leaves you breathless , but yet feeling more alive than ever.
I couldn't agree more, there are many different sex styles & for me it really depends on the moment & what mood I'm in, whether its light & fun & filled with laughter or long marathons romantic & tender, alfresco sex or just plain dirty, also who I am with plays a large part.
Infact who I'm with will afect my mood as I may not feel comfortable being a certain way or doing certain things if I haven't built up a relationship with the person & we haven't taken the time to get to know eachother exploringly.
I had a couple of flings & short lived relationships whereby the limit of time wasn't conducive to learning about eachother, myself or sex. It wasn't untill being in a relationship for a while with someone that I felt comfortable enough to enable our sex life to develop(which is a natural progression just like in the relationship itself). I was with him for a very long time & am now deffinately not shy when it comes to sex, I'm a sexual being & if there is one area I'm very direct about - its sex!
When we had sex i felt like we were communicating with each other , we knew each others bodies well and knew what we wanted from each other . We could be adventurous with each other also , i explored and did many things with this man and it was because he made me feel alive
He was someone who taught me to be open with my body and love myself , and I think that is also what makes great sex with others is when both parties feel open and can explore
with this in mind it don't always have to be a 2 hour session at times just coming in kissing and going at it can also feel mind blowing also
Very well put christi66 I agree quickies can also be very uplifting, just depends on the mood, but great sex for me comes from having in general a healthy sexlife & also recognizing it MAY NOT ALWAYS be great. In a LTR life in the bedroom will go through stages of ups & downs just like in the emotional side of one's relationship so acceptance of eachother, respect, communication & boundaries are important here.
Above all else the best sex is always with someone I love. | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 3/20/2008 7:03:09 PM | | when u get outta bed for a pee after and u fall to floor cause ya legs have turned to jelly!! | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 3/20/2008 10:27:14 PM | When she cries during sex because your both mentally, physically and emotionally connected. Makes sex very different when you have that connection.
Doesn't get any better than that. | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 3/20/2008 10:43:51 PM | I think Hemingway summed it up pretty well:
"Then there was the smell of heather crushed and the roughness of the
bent stalks under her head and the sun bright on her closed eyes and all his
life he would remember the curve of her throat with her head pushed back
into the heather roots and her lips that moved smally and by themselves and
the fluttering of the lashes on the eyes tight closed against the sun and against
everything, and for her everything was red, orange, gold-red from the sun on
the closed eyes, and it all was that color, all of it, the filling, the possessing,the having, all of that color, all in a blindness of that color. For him it was a
dark passage which led to nowhere, then to nowhere, then again to nowhere,
once again to nowhere, always and forever to nowhere, heavy on the elbows in
the earth to nowhere, dark, never any end to nowhere, hung on all time always
to unknowing nowhere, this time and again for always to nowhere, now not to
be borne once again always and to nowhere, now beyond all bearing up, up,
up and into nowhere, suddenly, scaldingly, holdingly all nowhere gone and time
absolutely still and they were both there, time having stopped and he felt the
earth move out and away from under them."
This passage rocks my world. Reading THIS is great sex... | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 3/21/2008 3:19:14 AM | | Great sex is when it leaves you both very satisfied and wanting more of it | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 3/21/2008 8:55:50 AM | | Great sex happens .. well, for me .. when I am connected to him emotionally. The physical parts will work themselves out as we grow together. Without the heart connection, it's just a deed. I've done enough deeds I care for no more of those. I seek the one who will grow with me as a soul-lover and who will go with me to places we've both never reached before. Can only be done if the emotions are joined. | |
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| What is great sex
Posted: 3/21/2008 9:57:12 AM | Great sex doesn't always mean both partners finish, nor does it have a time limit, position requirements, or propts!
Great sex means you feel friggen awsome afterwards.
You can ususaly tell if I felt the sex was great cuz I'll offer up a high five at the end! | |
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