| What would you do if you know a woman on POF is playing guys for financial help
Posted: 9/22/2007 3:53:38 PM | ^ Ok, I *will* admit that there was one woman I dated (briefly) that had a 15y/o cat, that quite literally would be sh*tting out one end while it was eating in the other, "skin and bones"... she was barely scraping by on her bills, and asked if I could pay to have her cat put to sleep - which I did, and helped dig a hole in the back yard to bury it. I will say, though, that while it was technically giving "her" the money for a "bill", I really did it out of compassion for the cat, because it really was at the point of having a miserable drawn out death, and I really didn't want to see it suffer just because she couldn't afford to do the "right thing".
That being said, a month later she called me up complaining she couldn't pay her phone bill... uh, ok, sorry, you dug that hole yourself.
The pet thing I probably would do again, if the circumstance came up... purely out of compassion for the animal, not the human. | |
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| What would you do if you know a woman on POF is playing guys for financial help
Posted: 9/25/2007 5:05:05 PM |
The only Problem is, in the beginning, they don't seem that way.
They are all lovey dovey and all that, "wants to be with you forever" BS.
Sex every weekend, cooking for you that makes your mouth water,
Shoot, Hows a guy supposed to turn that down...
Then comes the "oh, My cables getting cut off so i won't be able to email
you for awhile" or "my cell is getting cut off, so i won't be in touch",
Or the infamous, "i have to sell my favorite (whatever) to make rent". Maybe it's a payment for sex? 
Is it very hard to find such an idiot who will buy all this BS? 
If anyone up to paying my bills - welcome, e-mail me. I am beautiful, adorable woman, I'll tell you anything you wanna hear | |
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| What would you do if you know a woman on POF is playing guys for financial help
Posted: 9/25/2007 6:55:03 PM |
I've not seen the woman, been with her, in almost 3 years.
Yet, you are positive she is only here trying to get money from men.
I'm over her, I'm not angry and I've moved on.
No, you haven’t or after three years you wouldn’t even bother mentioning it.
As to warning others, I suppose since it is a free site you could try emailing every male a warning, but that would be time consuming. In my opinion after three years you really have no clue what her intentions are unless you are still in contact with her.
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| What would you do if you know a woman on POF is playing guys for financial help
Posted: 9/26/2007 7:26:26 AM | DO NUTIN!!!
Man if da girl got the skillz , and u too oblivious to seee it... ur fault. not hers.
Here 's a kick...
u know how many guys are out there jsut to get laid and jet??
If da girl to damn to fall for it, her fault not his...
What im trying to say here is: Personality .... Very important... Take a deeper lookkk.. | |
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| What would you do if you know a woman on POF is playing guys for financial help
Posted: 9/26/2007 8:00:37 AM | Dont you know how to say NO? and you not only blame her but try to expose her as a fraud. You bonked her for a year and helped her out with some bills wow you poor hard done to man. Leave her alone and stop pretending to be generous with the next girl. You sound like a bitter man, get over it:
to the guy who said dont give her money unless shes your wife, Ha. do you realise how many men suicide after they find out wife has new boyfriend usually his best mate sitting in his home on his lounge watching his tv with his kids and has to pay a huge part of his wages to continue the demorilisation. WIFE is no saftey net to being ripped off totally. They say you can meet the richest women outside the divorce courts! | |
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| What would you do if you know a woman on POF is playing guys for financial help
Posted: 9/26/2007 9:27:46 AM | Nothing you can do on POF...
However..
You DO have the advantage of having Halloween being so close. Go out on the Halloween full moon.,..dig a hole in your backyard 6 inches deep by six inches wide. Then sacrifice six virgin chickens into the hole and cover it back up while uttering the most vile curse against that woman you can think of. It's a absolute sure thing that will have an effect.
(The chicken farmers will have sold 6 more eggs than they would have otherwise, thereby increasing revenue for chicken farmers - eggs after all are virgin chickens)
(Next spring you can plant anything here and it will grow like a mofo)
(Your neighbors will observe what you are doing and will think twice before letting their dog crap on your lawn again)
(You'll feel MUCH better about the whole situation)
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| What would you do if you know a woman on POF is playing guys for financial help
Posted: 9/26/2007 10:13:03 AM | I was in this situation. I met him on myspace, well, actually, he emiled me there for weeks. I was there cause My whole family had one and it was easier to keep in contact. So, I emailed him and said hi and we started talking. 3 weeks, maybe 4 he shows up at my job, we go to lunch and we are inseperable. Right away, he starts "Oh, i havent gotten paid" or " My bank was closed" and I pay. I believe it should be 50/50 anyway, at least I offer, but I was paying for everything. 3 months go buy and Im broke and pissed at myself and all hell broke lose. I was Sick, I was in the E.R and he was constantly on My cell phone, redirecting calls, somehow getting my account numbers, asking my frineds for money, FROM ME. After all was said and done, He got alot off of me. To much. I litereally paid him to date me and I was PISSED. Someone SAID "LOOK OUT FOR A SCORNED WOMEN? HELL, lOOK OUT FOR A SCORNED, PISSED AND BROKE WOMEN..After all was said and done and he had moved onto his next victim, which was the 17th, I went into action. I posted his myspace everywhere, dating sites, big girl sites, I blogged about him, Contacted all my ffriends and they did the same. Contacted his old parole officer and he got me in contact with the D.a, who is still watching him, not just for the theft, but other thigns he did that I found out about. There are things you can do and it takes very little information. What he did to me was criminal, if I had receipt, and the money to go to every place and get the tapes.. I wanted over this, IO wanted done with him, to a degree. I email him once in a while, to keep him "updated" on all his actions. It pays to have friends and family in law enforcement and the fact that he can not leave cleveland, due to his parole, Makes it soo much easier. he does regrett the day he met me, used me, stole from me, touched me, and threw me away. I will make sure I put the effort in it so other women do not have to put up with him.
side note: Im not an idiot, I did background on him .But, his name was bogus, I found out AFTER when I found a receipt for his cell phone. I did meet friends and family and they were nice, but in on it too. especially his mother... | |
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| What would you do if you know a woman on POF is playing guys for financial help
Posted: 9/26/2007 12:51:42 PM |
OP. Just exercise your right to free speach and disclose her profile Really? What if someone is not happy that I am not dating him, will disclose mine? In the order to exercise his right to free speech?
Or I might say someone was trying to rape me on the date?
She didn't steal his money -- he gave it voluntarily to her. If she's so good actress or he's just not smart enough -- good for her. What to disclose?
I am not taking her side, I just think if I'd be so stupid to support a man with my money and he'd just use me, I'd rather watch out next time then tell whole world what a fool I am | |
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| What would you do if you know a woman on POF is playing guys for financial help
Posted: 9/26/2007 4:49:18 PM | It took you an entire year to discover that you were the victim of a gold digger?
I would be doing some serious soul searching to find out why I didn't catch on sooner and working out a way to prevent this from ever happening to me again.
I can only hope that she meets a rich guy who feels the only way he can have a relationship with a woman is to buy her affection. They should get along just fine in their own little twisted way, until he runs out of money. | |
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Rhett1
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| What would you do if you know a woman on POF is playing guys for financial help
Posted: 9/26/2007 7:20:30 PM | OP: Let's say for just one second that you can let any man she may date in the future know what she's like...do you honestly believe that he will listen?
Now, I know that this tends to be more of a female trait...you know, "I can change him", "He'll be different with ME"...but I'm pretty sure men do it, too.
Even after a warning, there will probably still be a relationship, so I wouldn't even bother.
I'm going through that right now...the woman who took my boyfriend from me is seeing the EXACT same things that I warned her about...and is asking for my opinions. I really wanted to say "I told you so"...but I didn't.
Unfortunately, most of us have to learn these things on our own. Now, if it's a buddy of yours that she ends up with, by all means, WARN him. | |
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| What would you do if you know a woman on POF is playing guys for financial help
Posted: 10/3/2007 11:36:23 PM | Apparently men do the same kind of thing - especially younger men to older women. Develop a radar for detecting it for yourself for the future, that's all you can do. I avoid all people who regard me as 'useful' - they turn up acting nice and want you to do something for them and when you can't/won't snap at your heels. End of. I've got a radar for it; if I choose not to rely on my radar it's my own fault. Same goes for women who only want me for baby-making and no relationship and women who have a boyfriend but want you to think they're available. I can smell it a mile away now. It's all radar fodder.
Only problem is you'll end up walking away from 90% of potential relationships because there's a lot of it out there. But a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do.
Men and women out there develop these strategies because there are a lot of people who fall prey to them. Just learn not to be one of them. | |
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Viel
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Joined: 9/14/2007
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| What would you do if you know a woman on POF is playing guys for financial help
Posted: 10/4/2007 6:36:55 AM | Are you serious ? I've come across so many of these women on here that it's funny.
Hell a lot of them have come straight out and told me what their rates are !
After all I live windsor and prostitutuion is legal here so it was just a matter of time before the street corners got tiresome and they decided to just stay home to solicit.
My ratio on here is probably about 5 out of 7 women who live on welfare with 3 or 4 kids that need some type of financial help. Why would I think to report them after all if it's all they can do I'm sure there is a sucker out there somewhere desperate enough to take care of them . | |
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