I don't expect anyone to agree with what I am passing along, but there maybe a few out there who agree but say nothing when their mate is in a romantic mood.
The secret and the real joy in relationships is finding that balance, where you can allow two people to grow..under one roof. It's a learning experience, and it's a mutual respect thing. None of us are ever perfect, and those imperfections make us so wonderfully human.
Nothing should ever come before the relationship, and both must have each others back 24/7/365. At that point, nothing the world can ever do to you can break that bond you both treasure so much.
It's as important to have time together, as it is to have time apart.
It's really all just balance, attitude, and priorities.