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 arteezer

Joined: 9/26/2005
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 5/12/2008 4:22:37 PM
yeah that true but lets look at it from this prospective too cleavage means curves and a tight dress or blouse and blue jeans does the same thing even if there is no skin showing these days and the fashion industry some times good looking woman I am guessing here cant find any thing with out some thing exposed unless they are liveing with those texas cult of paligemy sect that has gotten arrested and they are braking up all the kids into foster care... and what about the men and cleavage mens jeans are soooo darn baggy, and really I dont get it with black guys dropping their draws and wearing them below there A_ _ . ?? any way I am an artist and I think I have a duty to stare to remember the beauty of life and paint it from memory well if I could only ... some things are perverse even if they are pretty because of the girl and the way she does things, others are sweet and others are just too overtly eXentuated that you just cant help but, go .... Wooooh ! Wow what was that I just saw was that reallll... or a goddess from another world ... I think I am honest but not crude shy enough not to want to be and yet I love the figure that woman present and have . I say thank you God I am a man and she is a WOMAN!!
 LonelyNCurious

Joined: 4/12/2008
Msg: 227
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 5/12/2008 4:29:56 PM
I have no problem with a man looking at my cleavage. It's when men take it upon themselves to make rude vulgar comments about it that pisses me off.


And for the record , I always go out in something low cut, not because I am trashy, but because my cleavage takes attention away from the 30 pounds I gained that all seemed to have ended up im my stomach LOL, wait not funny
 nutcase27

Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 228
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 5/12/2008 4:32:44 PM
women crave attention... they love a good chase watch discovery channel...

you will learn all you need to know about a women on there.

Its actually kinda funny I see women putting naked pics of themselves laying doggy style with a thong on showing their face and then when you message them they are like how dare you look at my exposed back.

Give me a break you nincompoop women what the hell do you think we think about when you put a pic like that on there grow the hell up.

Its just like the lion and lioness... the lioness will lay on her back asking the lion for a f uck then she will bite him, the lion then forces himself on her and fuc ks her silly. Same crap I think its foreplay ( electronic foreplay) if such a thing exists.

More technically a form of sexual escalation... anyway meet the people screw this electronic nonsense ,, meet them immediately so your not disappointed with your 1 year chat session and find out the girl is a water buffalo.
 nutcase27

Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 229
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 5/12/2008 4:40:44 PM
Dear Iamshay,



Lets be honest...they are a beautiful part of the female anatomy. Dont lose your mind and act stupid...its natural! Respectfully and briefly admire, reminding yourself that there is a whole lot else about the person standing before you that may be worth exploring and dont blow it by being obnoxious! And some of you guys cant seriously have made some of the rediculous statements you have made in this thread and not ask yourselves why you are still single..


especially





some of the rediculous statements you have made in this thread and not ask yourselves why you are still single..


rediculous = she ment .. ridiculous

My answer:
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You are my definition of a nincompoop, grow the hell up and don't make accusatory statements like "this is why you guys are single.." ... if your not single when why the heck are you on POF anyway. Are you on medication?.. no one needs to put up with some catty fishwife that beats on guys because of their opinions everyone deserves better.

If your having a bad day and have the urge to beat on guys ... count to 10 and kiss a tree if that doesnt work... call your family physician and ask for some happy pills.
 Wishes Granted

Joined: 3/6/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 5/12/2008 4:46:24 PM

Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts
It's an ugly double-standard *hangs head*
If we like who's staring at em.. then it's okay. *bats eyelashes* If we don't like who's lookin.. well then it's kinda creepy.

What ISN'T merited is staring down a woman's blouse like the cure for cancer is down there.
lmao!
 sorrypluto

Joined: 4/10/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 5/12/2008 5:10:09 PM
According to a Discovery Channel doc I once saw, when a woman is shwoing cleavage, it means they're halfway through their menstrual cycle therefore being incredibly....err.....amorous...if you like?
But in saying that, it would be the same if a guy walked around with a tank top on or no shirt on and women would naturally look at his muscles etcetera. So, I think if you don't want a guy to stare, well the answer is simple......
 lostintheshuffle

Joined: 5/8/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 5/12/2008 5:30:47 PM
I had a date with someone that was nothing but cleavage. I looked into her eyes, she told me it made her very uncomfortable that I looked into her eyes. Like I was judging her. So I broke eye contact and looked elsewhere in the room and we got along fine. Then she asked if I was gay cause I didn't stare at her cleavage.

I then went out with another girl, a model straight from Poland that was nothing but cleavage. At some point durring dinner, she told me in her accent... look down, they are there for you on this date. Her words not mine, later she pointed out if she did not want a date to look, she would dress like book keeper (her Polish meant librarian).
 theinnerdark

Joined: 2/9/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 5/13/2008 3:48:39 AM
I always look a woman in the eyes. I have excellent peripheral vision, despite the glasses.

Yeah, I'm going to look. It's not always "WOW! BOOBIES!" sometimes it's "Dear God what a train wreck."

I think there's a breakdown of logic with some women. "Hmm, this shirt makes me look good. Shows a lot of cleavage but isn't trashy." Which is why she wears it. Unfortunately, when a guy admires he choice of clothing it can turn into "WTF? He's staring at my tits like I'm a whore!"

I'll probably lose what little of my Man Card I have left for this, but I go shopping with women. And more often than not, women pick shirts/blouses/tops/sweaters etc that will show off cleavage, comment on the fact that it does so and buy said article for that reason.

As a guy, I buy my clothes because they make me comfortable first, and how they make me look second. This has been the case with only one woman I know, all the others are in reverse order of that.

But also, leering at a woman is not acceptable. Go ahead, take a glance and either move on or say "Hi". I usually say hi so that the woman knows I'm acknowledging the person attached to the mammaries.

I get a lot of weird looks and then usually a pretty sweet smile out of it, and on occasion it strikes up a conversation.

So yeah, I'm going to look. And I'll probably let you know I was looking without resorting to "NICE RACK!". I don't think there's anything wrong with my approach.
 SixFeetUnder77

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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 5/17/2008 2:19:45 PM
Because they can never make up their minds.
 racer256

Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 235
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 5/17/2008 2:28:21 PM
Give me a break...We are human...Are we (men) supposed to turn away in disgust...Not me..But Im not one to stare anyhow...Depends on how hot the woman is...I like the whole picture anyhow...
A 2 second stare vs. a 15 second stare... ...Im not even going there..
 Ummmmm Betty

Joined: 2/24/2008
Msg: 236
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Posted: 5/17/2008 4:15:21 PM
Yeah,

This does my head in too.

A girl will have her headlights on full beam ............... almost her lady garden on show.

Then in her profile she'll say....ooh please stop sex emailing me..................... derrrrrrrrr. or must not have emailed anyone looking for intimate incounter etc. Derrrrrrrr.

Freaks.

The only time I ever look at them is when I'm pissed and not thinking straight.

Throw em in the trash.... with the trailor.
 actualized

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 237
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 5/18/2008 12:14:04 AM
if you're in public and want to show your goods, then even a 2-minute stare is fine.

dress like a nun if you dont want to be seen as a sexual being.
 Ms.Beavenhouse

Joined: 5/7/2008
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Posted: 5/18/2008 1:12:11 AM
I get upset when I can't stop looking at a woman who is showing her cleavage! I don't have sexual feeling about it but boobies are beautiful and if they are out, how can you avoid looking.

What upsets me more is when I catch myself, staring at a man with a hairy bum wearing a thong while riding a bike.
 BeerShark

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Posted: 5/18/2008 11:42:01 AM
I love this question! It proves tat even women got a little cave man in 'em. They just aren't as willing has men are to admitt it. It's all about putting out te most atractive display to win a mate. Women will spend hours getting ready to go out, making sure they look great, but then are often surprised when men do find them attractive, specially if the one they wanted to have take notice doesn't.
 Ummmmm Betty

Joined: 2/24/2008
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Posted: 5/18/2008 2:54:24 PM
I think the rule is:

If you ogle my tits and I like the look of you it's fine.......... if I don't fancy you then you are a perv!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's like having a shop window with wonderful assets on display... yet only certain selected folks can purchase the goods. The ultimate in the Trades Description Act. Don't display the goods unless they are for sale.

Q. What happens if you tempt a ravenous dog with a piece of meat??????

A. You'll get bitten.

OMG. Then the dog will get put down !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 lady_bugg65

Joined: 9/16/2005
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Posted: 5/18/2008 2:57:26 PM

According to a Discovery Channel doc I once saw, when a woman is shwoing cleavage, it means they're halfway through their menstrual cycle therefore being incredibly....err.....amorous...if you like?


....sounds like a mating ritual or something....are you sure it was the Discovery channel and not the Comedy Club?...too funny...

showing cleavage has nothing to do with my menstrual cycle...neither do my mini's or my hooker boots...........sheesh...
 Ummmmm Betty

Joined: 2/24/2008
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Posted: 5/18/2008 3:37:25 PM
I have seen similar programmes and read other articles on the subject. The results always showed that a women would always dress more provocatively during the most fertile times in her cycle.

At the end of the day we are all animals and this is just the same as animal courtship rituals.

Why hunt and display your charms for a mate when youve got visitors?? Obvious.
 Avarielle

Joined: 5/12/2008
Msg: 243
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Posted: 5/18/2008 3:43:28 PM
cuz they are stupid bitc#es.
seriously...if im letting my tits hang out its cuz i want the attention.
Poor guys, you will never win
 BadBoy4204U

Joined: 8/15/2007
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Posted: 5/18/2008 3:58:55 PM
I hear you completely, I think dave chapell summed it up best with his line about the man dressed up as a police officer who gets asked for help from citizens and replies 'Hey Hey, I'm not a police officer, I'm just wearing a police unifrom', if you wear it, you can't expect people not to treat you accordingly.

I think they get upset though, when an unattractive man notices their boobs. Especially if they are still making payments on them! lol.

( I paid all that money for this creep to look at them Grrrrrr)

To answer your question, because they don't always actually dress nice for men, they dress nice for themselves and other women, and if cosmo said tomorrow that baggy clothes that didnt show a single feature was in, thats what they be wearing.....
BadBoy~
 actualized

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 245
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Posted: 5/18/2008 9:14:39 PM
i don't know what cleavage does for others as i see it more as adipose tissue with a skin covering.

however, if i see the mounds pointing, i'll stare like a deer fixated on a car's headlights.
 *S|n_C|ty*

Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 246
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Posted: 5/18/2008 9:17:02 PM
Wow.....theres a huge difference between sexy pics to show creativity and men flat out msging you saying : wow baby!! how big are those!!
I do have pics like that but its because i show what is my best feature...eyes...legs....and yes boobs!!!!
 BamaBob

Joined: 11/12/2007
Msg: 247
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Posted: 5/18/2008 10:08:49 PM
Women who get upset when men stare at their cleavage...IMHO... are soooooo ignorant. It's a common principle that those who put out something for the public to see are advertising. If they don't want the attention from everyone who sees the product(s) for sale or the suggestion that the view makes should keep it covered. Myself, I have a problem with women rubbing my butt when my jeans are a little snug.
 CentralValgal

Joined: 2/18/2008
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Posted: 5/18/2008 10:23:39 PM
Being a senior citizen, here is my two cents. I can always spot a woman who is divorced and hunting by what she wears. Its just so obvious. I really dislike it when her children are in tow and they get the message that is how they are to dress. I used to see it in the classroom all the time. Mother was wearing the same kind of low cut clothing that their daughters wore.

And when I have mentioned that to men ,they agreed. They can tell who is hunting by how much is showing.

So ladies, if you show it, its there to look at. And people look. So don't get upset.
 actualized

Joined: 4/13/2008
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Posted: 5/18/2008 10:35:06 PM
we need to get polls in these forums. i'd like to see a break-down on the stats of all those who posted herein based on categories of ages and sexes. it would demonstrate a difference that could be further spoken of to not just pontificate about the topic but to pontificate about why some groups see it differently.
 giggleparts

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Posted: 5/19/2008 12:25:19 AM
Honestly.... there are better things we can use our brains to ponder... why should you care if a women gets upset because of shown cleavage noticing? I mean, let's face facts here. No matter how much of a gentleman you are and no matter how interested you are in a woman as a genuine person, you still want to look at their breasts... This isn't hard... why make it hard? Should you just stare slack-jawed at her chest the whole time? No.

Eye flicks are life's lubricant.
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