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 Author Thread: Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
 Mikezxc

Joined: 6/7/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/16/2008 9:24:57 AM
Bunch of bunk just like when women were those tight fitting pants and then are always pulling down there shirt to cover there ass... Women are weird!
 ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/17/2008 6:55:42 PM
I guess it's the same as when a guy puts a photo of his expensive car in his profile and then complains women are after his money.
 boogywoogy

Joined: 2/7/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/18/2008 2:45:12 AM
hallo was standing outside a train station yesterday and happened to glance up at a girl wearing no bra and a loosae fitting top wen she bent down u coulnt help but notice here pert titties exposed it was only 2 secs or was it 3
 lavender44

Joined: 5/29/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/18/2008 3:29:46 AM
as a top heavy lady i choose not to go round making the most of my assets ,but it makes no difference men still stare. any guy who approaches me an dont look me in the eye has no chance with me as i consider them to be damn right rude and it makes me feel uncomfortable being leered at, although that is great source of my friends amusement but it drives me mad
 leggymaturemom

Joined: 3/26/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/18/2008 6:07:46 AM
i love to show mine off, thogh not as much on profile but i am proud of my girls and how they are after 48 years and two kids
 duckling

Joined: 2/28/2006
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/18/2008 7:00:29 AM
What I find even stranger, is men who pay $5,000 to $10,000 for breast augmentation for their girlfriend / wife, and then get upset when they see men staring. Do they think that they're the only one who will notice the 105 pound girl with the 38C's?
 cambsguy50

Joined: 5/16/2008
Msg: 282
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/20/2008 4:33:20 AM
Well if you like to show them off, I would love to see them
 irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/20/2008 4:47:04 AM
If they are showing cleavage, they want you to look. They can say they "just like the clothes" but that is the point in wearing clothes that show cleavage. If they say they don't, they are playing games.
 leggymaturemom

Joined: 3/26/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/20/2008 6:44:13 AM
i agree with the comment above
i do like to show my girls off, but same time i dont wnat someone talking to them all night
but if got it flaunt it and i do
carole
 Henry L. Moon

Joined: 6/1/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/20/2008 6:59:09 AM
Of course a woman wants you looking and everybody looks, that's why she is dressed the way she is, but there is a huge difference between looking at her to admire her and staring and drooling like you never saw a boob before.
 mainewife

Joined: 5/24/2008
Msg: 286
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/20/2008 7:03:40 AM
i dont mind,its a part of flirting
 actualized

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 287
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/20/2008 9:22:38 AM
boob cleavage does nothing for me. if her pants are too low and bends over showing butt cleavage, then my eyes will bug out!

 TxSippiGal

Joined: 9/30/2007
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/23/2008 5:24:45 AM
as a top heavy lady i choose not to go round making the most of my assets ,but it makes no difference men still stare. any guy who approaches me an dont look me in the eye has no chance with me as i consider them to be damn right rude and it makes me feel uncomfortable being leered at, although that is great source of my friends amusement but it drives me mad


Well said lavender44

I worked with two ladies who were top heavy.. they did not show their cleavage at all.. wore high necked blouses and if they had a V neck they made sure they showed no cleavage. I worked with them over 10 years and never once did they dress inappropriately at the office.. But, it was obvious though that certain men that we had to work with were obcessed with their well endowed bossoms.. A supervisor of there's could not look them in the eye when he spoke to them his eyes magnetically went to the chest when he talked to them.

To me that is disgusting.. and totally inappropriate.. and it made me angry because my friends were so self concious. They were both able to have breast augmentations which was good for them both.. their whole appearance and outlook changed after they had that surgery.

Now on the other side of the coin those women who dress provocatively deserve all the attention they can get.. Sometimes for me it is a thin line between being provocative and looking pretty... and sometimes it is in the eye of the beholder like the guy I worked with one time who told me that he spent all day trying to see through my eyeletlace blouse I wore to work one time.. sheesh.. For all those who might not know it.. eyelet lace is not that revealing..
 shimbo

Joined: 6/15/2008
Msg: 289
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/23/2008 5:32:37 AM
Reading through the various anecdotes, I can't help but wonder if women are confusing "leering lust" with "morbid curiosity".
 Rainbow918

Joined: 3/20/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/23/2008 6:00:58 AM
Wizwoman, I agree with you wholeheartedly. I despise the word hoe.........these ebonics have to stop being used by all but puff daddy, lol. But woman calling another woman hoe is disgusting. A hoe is a garden tool, a whore is someone who makes money on her sexual exploits. Cleavage has diddly squat to do with hoe-ing. If you ask me any "broad" (another word I despise, lol) that would call an ample breasted woman a hoe is just jealous. But I guess the standard Jerry Springer types must be in this pot of fish too, lol. And the other person was dead on..........men will be men, and their eyes will always land on your breasts. Whether your in a turtle neck or decolte!!! Just as we watch their butts in tight jeans. Just as natural as gays drooling over a considerable wad in that guys pants over there, lol.
HUMAN NATURE> the attraction, the physical which is what our eyes are subject to are all acceptable and can be insulting (more when its not one you want to be staring) and it can be flattering. Although I will say that whether we chose to show cleavage or not is our own business, and not up for judgement by other jealous woman. Cleavage is all over the place.........lets blind fold anyone. I have never worn jeans.........does that make me less of a hoe???? Anyway BOTTOM LINE.....NO NAME CALLING!!!
 *Just Jim*

Joined: 7/6/2007
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/23/2008 6:24:54 AM

You know people are going to judge no matter what so just have fun with it.Smile it makes people wonder.


The obsession with breasts will never end and the interpretations it eludes too.
Was 'Baywatch 'about saving drowning swimmers or was it about Boobwatch?

I had a gal pal who had a slender built and a perky set of twins, she was not over weight and never considered to augment her breasts or over eat to make them look like a flotation devises.
And she said once if its more than a mouths full it's a waste.
I would have to agree with her in her humor and logic, I on the other hand enjoy a nice set of gams,yum! The big or fat boobies don't get it for me but I will agree it will help those who do in getting a stare, whether intentional or not. ~Have fun~

Now,show me your........gams! fooled ya...
 arrowhot

Joined: 3/3/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/23/2008 7:36:54 AM
The world according to Seinfeld....

"Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun, you don't stare at it. It's too risky. You get a sense of it and then you look away."
 arrowhot

Joined: 3/3/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/23/2008 7:38:47 AM
>>...if its more than a mouths full it's a waste

More than a face full....would be more appropriate these days. (I can hear it now...oh whata PIG!)

I'm running the local recycling center for all the excess cleavage.

Oink.
 Tigerlilly15

Joined: 6/2/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/23/2008 7:58:09 AM
You are totally right Wolfie!!! I know when I where what I where I am trying to attract the right guy...Not some perv that just looks at me like a hoe. I am far from that but I am all woman and want to find the man that can see ALL that I am!
 caskey

Joined: 5/7/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/23/2008 10:05:15 AM
You know tho, some women just can't cover up enough. I am reminded reading this of a picture i recently saw of a middle eastern woman, totally covered head to toe, with the most strikingly beautiful eyes , as sensual as any woman hanging on a pole could ever hope to be...
Does this make me an Eye man???
 leggymaturemom

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Posted: 6/23/2008 10:22:21 AM
well may make you an eye man
but i knwo what you mean
some women and men can dress so conservatively but still have their assets being very sexual. As stated above one of my mates she is huge and never showe cleavage off excpet on occasions for party etc but can tell she has a sexy figure
 cherie70

Joined: 12/16/2006
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 6/23/2008 10:33:21 AM
Whats so great about boobs? I really dont get it. lol...
 caskey

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Posted: 6/23/2008 12:45:50 PM
I have mostly noticed on POF, that many models with original equiptment don't tend to highlite this attribute, where as models with this feature where it is an aftermarket addition proudly display it as a car with new zenon headlight technology, and a few larger models want to focus attention on it to avoid excess attention to other areas such as larger trunk space
 LRV1981

Joined: 6/29/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 7/3/2008 5:58:10 PM
I agree with Flavius. If woman is in public places, whatever man around the woman is gonna look at her chest. She has no control over who enters public place. Nor does she have control over another person's eyes. Women, get your heads out of the gutter and smell the flowers, for crying out loud. Like Flavius said. Either show them for all, or show them for none.

Women, if you don't approve of the guy who looked at your breast, too bad. It's your fault for showing cleavage.
 LRV1981

Joined: 6/29/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:05:05 PM
You are right mikezxc. Why the hell do women put on tight pants and then try to pull down a shirt that is not long enough to cover yourself. Word of advice, you don't want people to look, don't wear it. unless you're a certified slut.
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