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 Author Thread: Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
 Mercy Mac

Joined: 3/29/2009
Msg: 426
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/10/2009 8:52:08 PM
I think it would be weird if a guy DIDNT check out my boobs at least once. I mean even if u dont wear a revealing top dudes will still check it out, so its whatever. Cleavage or not men are animals, if u got it flaunt it!!
 xeot

Joined: 10/25/2007
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/11/2009 12:18:36 AM

it would be weird if a guy DIDNT check out my boobs at least once.


Too bad more women don't think that way.. :)
 Xboxer1971

Joined: 3/9/2009
Msg: 428
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/11/2009 7:36:15 AM
I think the women who "aggressively" display cleavage who get upset when they catch ya lookin', want to show off their boobs and then control who notices at the same time... doesn't always work!
 cuddlelicious

Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 429
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/11/2009 9:37:55 AM
I show them cause I want you to look...and not afraid to admit it. cause their GREAT!
 Eddie2704

Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 430
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/11/2009 4:12:24 PM

But gentlemen, just a tip: Glance, don't stare.


But women, just a tip, Don't let as much hang out as you can possibly get away with and expect men not to stare. That's just stupid. When you purposely ware something that either just barely holds them in or something see through and no bra your asking for what you get. Good or bad. Go to places like California or parts of Florida and see the girls and some older women walking on the street with there butt cheeks hanging out with nothing but a string up the crack of there ass. They get grabbed' hollered at' cat called you name it and they feel insulted because some guy said it straight to her face that he would like to Fu$% her. You see them with just enough top on to cover there nips but everything else is hanging out. But they get offended when some stranger either stares or cops a feel. You get what you ask for in this world and and a lot of things you don't. But if you ask for it the odds of you getting unwanted attention are very good. If you don't want a man that you are not attracted to staring at your boobs cover them up. When you find a man that you want to let stare at them get a room and let him do it in private. Act like you got some sense. You might actually attract a guy that is attracted to what you have between your ears instead of what you left hanging out.
 alasteph

Joined: 2/26/2009
Msg: 431
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/12/2009 5:57:55 AM
Unless I wear a shirt that comes up to my neck it's hard not to show at least a little bit of cleavage. I do at times though when I go out with my friends where something just a little more revealing but they sure are not going to be hanging out because I agree that women that do this should expect to be ogled at and such. There is a classy way and a trashy way to show what you've got and I prefer the classy way anyday. I cannot deny what God has blessed me with but I'm not going to make it where I get visually violated either!
 ConcreteCowboyFl

Joined: 2/23/2009
Msg: 432
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/12/2009 9:05:17 AM
right on DOLLY. Just like @ wal mart.........................
 PirateJohn09

Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 433
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/12/2009 11:36:18 AM

I think the women who "aggressively" display cleavage who get upset when they catch ya lookin', want to show off their boobs and then control who notices at the same time... doesn't always work!

I remember reading something a while ago about police officers who were chatting with some teenage girls who had been posting revealing and/or nude photos of themselves on the internet. What the cops said basically amounted to -- you are posting these pics so that the boys in your school can see them, but what is really happening is that 50-year-old men are looking at them. They got the point across.
 Eddie2704

Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 434
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/12/2009 11:57:00 AM
I have had women on here to send me boob pictures. I had one to send me pictures of her boobs with the question' "What do you think" I said' "Kinda saggy" She asked for it. I think i offended her. LOL. I told her the truth. She is one of those attention hungry types that can't stand to be ignored. I wrote her one time before this' She shot me down' I didn't bother with her anymore. 2 months later she writes me. At first i started not to answer' but i did. She put me on her favorites list' Then didn't speak to me for 3 weeks. I wrote her' shouldn't have done that but i did. She read/deleted it. Never answered. I removed myself from her favorites list' She noticed it and put me back on her list and sent me those saggy boob pictures asking me what did i think. STUPID!. There are some real winners on here.
 Reveal1K

Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 435
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/12/2009 6:39:47 PM
If you don't want me to look at them, don't show them to me!
 Eddie2704

Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 436
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/12/2009 7:48:39 PM

One of the greatest mysteries in all of life, as far as I'm concerned... is why, why, WHY do women with beautiful, wonderful, heavenly little boobs... completely RUIN themselves by having a breast enlargement procedure. Not only is the concept of fake-tits, disgusting... but there's nothing remotely attractive about big ones, fake or natural either one. As for all that nasty cleavage, it looks like a big fat ass on your chest.


I know i am fixing to probably piss off somebody here. Everybody has there peeve. Mine is boob tats. That one i will never figure out. It doesn't make them look any better. They detract from the over all beauty of a woman. Big boobs' little boobs' I like them all. I just don't like them with a billboard on them. If you don't like what i said here that's OK. Your prerogative. I won't argue about it so don't even try.
 charminC

Joined: 3/29/2009
Msg: 437
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/13/2009 9:51:44 AM
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?

small iq?


ohhhh im so going to get it for that one
 Swann85

Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 438
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/13/2009 2:26:19 PM
Ok first off just to state a fact it dosent matter what you wearing we will look at your breasts its just a law of nature.

now the difference is makeing a passing glance is normal, sitting there staring with your mouth open in just not ok.

but as a addition the more cleavage you show the more we will look.
 Lara_Marie

Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 439
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/13/2009 2:49:35 PM
When you wake up in the morning society does not dress you, you dress yourself. The way you dress reflects who you are. If you wear something revealing you have to keep in mind that men are wired to look. They might not even find you attractive, but they'll look. If you do not want that attention, then change what you wear. It's impossible to wear a revealing top and be able to pick and choose who takes a look. You have no ground being angry if someone is looking at your cleavage- you put it out there. You may appreciate 1/10 looking, but its impossible to weed out the other 9. Anyway, you can dress sexy and still be fully covered. (and they'll still look )
 PhilaPenn83

Joined: 4/8/2009
Msg: 440
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/13/2009 3:53:02 PM
This is true, if your breasts are at all visible the average heterosexual male is going to look for a second, even if he's nicest guy in the world. Any longer than a second, and he's just being a loser. But lets be fair, the sword cuts both ways because girls check out guys and stare them down all the time too. Sometimes they will even go further and actually pinch your ass or otherwise touch you, something thats somewhere that most guys won't go. So I think especially in today's society, you can't just put it all on guys acting like pigs. It seems like everybody is getting a little sexually expressive.
 surely im shirley

Joined: 6/14/2008
Msg: 441
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/13/2009 5:04:13 PM
I honestly don't know. If I displayed my cleavage, I'd be kind of offended if they didn't look.
 kellygrl51

Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 442
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/13/2009 5:11:19 PM
^^^ Then again when you have something else going for you NO need....
 zangie

Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 443
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Posted: 4/13/2009 8:59:06 PM

^^^ Then again when you have something else going for you NO need....


I think this is an illogical assumption....

I have plenty of things going for me... ( I'm smart, funny, fun, caring, etc)but, feeling and looking sexy are also good virtues...if I dress a bit sexy, it is because I feel good when I do, and that translates well in real life too...I don't use my sexuality as the only means of attracting men, but, it is a reasonable and valid tool...especially knowing that men are visual...IMO, dressing or looking a way that accentuates what are assets is just one of many ways to look appealing to the opposite sex..and don't we all want that?

I guess I don't understand people who think you should cover yourself all up, and mute your sexual presence...as long as it isn't overboard...chemistry is in part sexual attraction...

I would be concerned that any man who found how I dressed to be tacky or "slutty"...wouldn't be a match with me in the bedroom...
 kellygrl51

Joined: 9/21/2008
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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/18/2009 3:10:24 PM

I think this is an illogical assumption....


Not everyone chooses to advertise the same things....Not to say that their assets are not as good....
 c_deacon

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 445
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Posted: 4/18/2009 3:20:04 PM
I am always one that is willing to check out all the assets, shown, covered, hidden or just totaled as one bottom line.......

Are we talking accounting or bodies? Either way, I guess, the end result is either positive, negative, or a variance of some form.........

Just my opinion........
 zangie

Joined: 5/30/2007
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Posted: 4/18/2009 3:23:30 PM

Are we talking accounting or bodies?


Since I am a bookkeeper by trade...maybe that's my problem...?..lol..
 GeminiDreams

Joined: 1/7/2008
Msg: 447
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Posted: 4/18/2009 3:26:25 PM
One big thing that a lot of guys don't get....

When a woman spends hours fixing herself up all nice, guys assume that it is for them.

Many women fix themselves up all nice for themselves or probably for other women. (what ?!?!?)
Attention guys: Women like to compete against each other even if they or you don't realize it is happening. If you were a single woman in a bar (not that I think that is a good place to pick up people), would you want to feel like the hottest chick there or feel like the ugliest chick there? They are comparing themselves to other women. You, the 'typical' guy, probally are not the one she is trying to impress. Yes, there are exceptions, but most guys tend to be too egotistical, thinking that it is all for them.)

There is nothing wrong with admiring a woman's assets and hard work she had done dolling herself up, but there are ways to do that properly. If you are gonna stare at her breasts, you just gonna give your self the 'I'm a creepy dude' label.
 mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 448
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/18/2009 3:48:38 PM
OP I agree; they want you to stare at their breasts but then get offended.

The other one is wearing a short skirt that barely covers their butt; they spend the whole night tugging and pulling down on it; I mean if you want to be modest dont wear it so short.

Dressing sexy is one thing; dressing like a horny girls gone wild girl is another; if she looks like a ho, acts like a ho, she's a ho!
 El_Mariachi

Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 449
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/18/2009 4:11:25 PM
I am seriously trying to figure out how to AGGRESSIVELY display cleavage. Do I yell at them? Threaten? (the boobs, I mean) Anyway... they're small, but they are there.
 GAAL1963

Joined: 2/24/2009
Msg: 450
Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 4/18/2009 4:24:09 PM
Well personally I show very little, rather leave some things up to the imagiation. But I never get upset over a fella checking the girls out, afterall they are quite noticable on their own and real! Figure it that gives them a smile then so be it I made someone's day?
However, I do have a few tops that are ment for showing more which is reserved for special occassions with a special someone the way it should be. Call me a Prude if you will but sounds better than a Sl*.....
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