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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 10:25:03 AM | | I have to laugh at some of these posts. Why is it that cleavage, which is usually only present with breasts that are rather large, or, hiked up and/or pushed together via bras, is "admired" or "impressive" in the first place? I don't buy into the BS that just because they are exorbitantly large, they are therefore more "desirable," "impressive," or worthy of "admiration." And why is it that women are boxed into two categories, "LARGE breasted," or "SMALL?" There are many women who fall somewhere in between these two labels, whose breasts are beautiful and worthy of positive comments. And as for the question posed, women buy into the reasoning churned out by Wall Street and corporate execs (largely men, or by women, paid handsomely to tow the line re: the marketing of large breasts) that large breasts is what men want to see, and therefore, it poses the only chance of being spoken to by one, which is necessary to possibly date one and be in a relationship. Young women, in particular, feel they must abide by magazine ads touting large breasts as the only thing attracting men, and so they hike them and push them forward using bras and God knows what else, (probably designed by men!) in the hopes they will get attraction. Yet, deep down, women would rather be cherished or liked, or found attractive, for OTHER reasons, namely WHO they are, not only WHAT they look like. And so, you have conflicted feelings and reactions. They feel pressure to be physically attractive according to the definition promoted by the media and magazines and designers, but yet want to be respected for WHO they are. I agree, it is difficult to garner respect when you are so obviously attempting to charge the interaction with some degree of bare-breastedness. Maybe if the media and designers and pornographers were not so geared to marketing women as merely a pair of breasts, there would be less pressure on women of all ages, to behave as if their breasts were the initial factor being assessed or judged by men. Personally, I think women are devaluing themselves by attempting to live up to these images, via wardrobe choices and surgery. Large is not always beautiful, that is for sure. And no, it's none of your business re: my own breasts. Frankly, I am happy that my breasts are healthy -- let's remember that 1 in 8 women are being diagnosed with breast cancer, shall we? | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 10:41:22 AM | | I admit when I go out, I wear the shirts that show off the cleavage. I dont get upset that they may look. But when they open their mouth and its a piggish comment, that doesnt need to be said. Sometimes I cannot help it, depending on what I wear. Its just THERE. Im not one of those girls who wears something revealing then complains of the obvious. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 10:53:21 AM | Here is my unsanctioned assessment of this phenomenon. The cleavage show is no doubt intentional when displayed prominently. Just like us guys with our tight shirts or wife-beaters in sub-zero weather - if we've got em' ,we flaunt 'em.
Generally speaking, the intent is to attract, but the desire is to attract only those who are "worthy" of gawking, leering, admiring, or whatever. Usually a well dressed, strikingly handsome, successful man will not be admonished for such behavior. When the admirer is of lesser means, re: homeless, unkempt, unattractive; he is not welcome or worthy of these delights and his actions are deemed offensive. A double standard? Yes, but that is the law of nature. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 11:06:42 AM | | I don't get upset when someone just stares at them. Staring isn't a big deal, unless they won't look at your face at all, just the breasts. What is more upsetting to me, and I've had this happen a number of times, is when they feel they have the right to touch them, no matter where we are or what we are doing. I've had men try to stick their hands down a dress, not low cut, down regular button down blouses, t-shirts, etc. I don't care how I feel about the person, if they try something like that, they aren't showing any respect for you. And, yes, I happen to be well endowed, it doesn't matter what I wear, there is no way to hide them. I get stared at just walking down the hall at work. Let's just face it, some men are boob men, some like butts, and they are going to look, as long as that's all they are doing, what's the big deal. I don't see anyone complaining about a man staring at a different part of your body, so why complain about this issue. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 1:05:07 PM | Oh heck! No harm in anyone getting their appetite outside, as long as they dine at home!
Women dress provokatively because they WANT that attention. Anyone who claims different is only fooling themselves and no one else. A man who strutts his stuff in tight jeans and a muscle shirt, is doing the same. It's perhaps a sub-conscious thing, but it happens. Do we need to sweat over it? Nope! We all enjoy looking at a nice bod. It's normal, natural and can even put a smile on our faces. If I see a handsome looking dude with a nice bod, why wouldn't I look!! I'm not dead and certainly not blind.
What's that saying? You can look, but don't touch? Yeah, that's the one. Look to your heart's content, but if you touch, I"ll snap your fingers in half  | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 1:12:53 PM | ....well just came in from gardening ...it was 90F outside....the turtleneck was a little uncomfortable but just kept squirting myself with the garden hose....well now the neighbours think I am into wet T-shirt contests... Had to take the 79 year old neighbour away for oxygen.
Admire away...just don't assume I am a Hoe, easy, or there for the touchinng...you will know if I want you to shove your hand down my blouse. .... no guessing involved........
and response to "Either you put it out there for all to look or not."....breasts are out there ...???? and sometimes it is just friggin hot out....it's not always about you.
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 1:21:25 PM |
men stare or admire womens boobs no matter what they are wearing. if you don't mind me staring or admiring your crotch or ass then I don't mind you staring or admiring... Stare away. If we're wearing tight-fitting jeans, we're only wearing them so you'll check us out. If we're not, it's still a compliment. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 1:28:54 PM |
Stare away! I don't care. They are coming home with me and not you at the end of the day!
I get to sleep with them, tuck them in every day before heading out, I get to lather them up in shower, and rub lotion on them.
What do you get? A stare!
Best post on this threat yet :D
As it were--breasts are, in most societies, sexual in nature. If you give a peak, you're sending a message. Feminism is all well and good (and we should be able to wear what we like, when we like, how we like) but we should also take reality into account. Some men will find it titillating.
However just because we like to show a bit of skin does NOT give leave for anyone--male or female--to be rude. You want to look and admire, great. Guys with great shoulders/backs usually get a grin and a faux swoon from me. That's natural. What ISN'T merited is staring down a woman's blouse like the cure for cancer is down there. Have some self control. Because it says something about you, if you can admire a woman's beauty while still respecting her. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 1:38:56 PM | ....and another thing....I sometimes wish that men's genitals were in the middle of their chests and they could see how it feels
How to hide them...disguise them... Push up jock straps, water jock straps, jogging jock straps, lacey jock straps, strapless jock straps, underwire jock straps oooo look at the rack on him.... he has a big jock strap...I bet you he puts out. He's just asking for it with the way he flonts his stuff right out there for everyone to see. Jogging ...ouch
Having them slammed in a cold machine for yearly checkups. Having women commenting on them...whether they were too big...too small...."I bet when you get a chest cold it must be a big chest cold" Look at the headlamps on him....Are you cold...shrinkage...... hardie har har or...iddy bitty dinkie or snapping your jock strap in elementary school, rubbing up against you or hugging you a little too long and hard to get a cheap feel, trying to get under your shirt to get to first base and then have her brag to all her girlfriends...
Oh ...what am I saying...you would probably love it.  | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 2:08:57 PM | Man I think we need to give men a break!...Its just breast ladies....Some of us have them and at times its hard not to show them. And if I man likes what he see's well....bless his heart...LOL...
Like one of the other posters said...they are coming home with me at the end of the night.....
Its all good | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 2:25:51 PM | Maybe this is a reasonable answer maybe not But,
women for many years have known that certain parts of female body
attract the attention of the male species. Men as a general rule are attracted
by the physical more so then the intellectual parts of a woman.
(note: Not all men, but most) Therefore, women take advantage of the use
of there body parts to attract those men. it doesn't necesarily mean she's a hoe,
But more the fact she understands the male attraction to them. i know a woman
that is quite stunning in clothing that is a little revealing and she knows as well how
men contact her here because of those assests. She uses what she has to get the doors
open then weeds threw them and picks the ones she chooses to interact with. The ones
with more of an intelligence level then the," how big are your Ti*s".
It's kinda like with men showing a bulge in thier jeans. Although you hear of so many
women that say it's not an attraction to them, "when they are in the public eye",
but in private...Size DOES matter! Whether it's too big or too small, can have a woman
say NO WAY i'm going there! yes he ahs to know How ato use it and you can deny all
you want, but i've talked to too many ladies over the years and seen how the second
thing they think they are unknowingly looking at, is a mans crotch. A woman pointed
this out to me a few years back and i started to pay attention, WOW!! Almost every
woman i ran into, even in passing, Looked Down at my zipper then back to my eyes.
So bottom line is, i think those women that show all that cleavage are just using what
they were graced with to find what they are looking for or at the least, giving
themselves More Options to choose from. yea, maybe some just want attention,
no matter the positive or negative of it, but i don't think that's the Real reason they show so much in thier pics.
just my 2 pence | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 2:26:50 PM | When you ask a woman for sex and she provacatively says 'no'-(she means yes).
When a woman bares her breasts provacatively for you to notice and then says
'don't do that!' (she means glad you've noticed my femininity!)
TRUE MEANING : next time if you dont stare at her provacative breasts she'll think you've found a better pair to look at on pof-and will get all huffy.) | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 2:58:18 PM | To me it is called "CLASS". Outside temperature is BS. If you do not want a man staring at your chest, keep them covered. We may still look, just to get a peak at the size, but not every other man will get to see all the assets either.
The basics still apply, dress, act, talk like a whore, you probably are one. If a man stairs, makes comments, he is probably a dog.
This is a red flag for me. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 6:29:48 PM | another hypocritical thing that women do.
if a girl is showing cleavage... *especially* very noticeable cleavage, deep cut and clearly trying to get attention, I think its fair game to stare. Not stare and be unable to talk, or look at her face... but a few seconds here and there are fine. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 9:07:06 PM | I read an interesting scientific study that examined exactly what happens to a man when he sees a provocatively dressed woman. The study found that for many men, their brains literally stopped functioning normally. They explained that's why some men will part with so much money when they go to a strip club. All rational thinking leaves their brain and they really have no control. 
So, women, if you really don't want a man to stare are your breasts, don't show them. Otherwise, if you want to complain, take it up with God, because he made men that way. And before you flame me, think about women having no control over PMS. Hormones control us more than our brains.
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 10:21:06 PM | they don't really get upset ...maybe they just pretend to be If i dress sexy it is because i want to ,and i want to show something .When i don't like guys to look at my breast i will avoid the cleavange..it is not that hard to cover up .But wemen like to be admired ,to feel sexy.It is hard for mre to understand why some of them cannot admit the truth  | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/24/2007 7:25:57 AM | Same kinda thing as:
Which shoes look better with this dress?
Which dress looks better with these shoes?
Which pair of pants makes my ass look smaller?
Which hair color looks the best with my face?
Which perfume smells best with my body chemistry?
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We can't win, we might as well just smile a lot... | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/24/2007 9:10:45 AM | I hear yah...I have a secret...... I love a bald man...just want to go up and rub my hands all over his hot little head......mmmmmmmmmmmmm...can't control myself.......and if they don't want me to comment and lear at their shinny little noggins they should all wear hats....... oooo baby | |
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