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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/15/2009 12:24:26 PM | Clothes are clothes. I'll wear v-necks and I'll wear turtlenecks. No biggie.
Some women DO make sure they wear boob-tops, however, but would never ever admit that they wear them so they'll be looked at. There's a multitude of other reasons, I'm sure... but being looked at is in the top 5 at least.
Some women don't care if you look or not and would never get pi$$ed about it. The only thing that'd make me angry would be the assumption that my low-cut top means.. in your mind, anyway... that I'm a whore or stupid. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/22/2009 3:07:36 PM | From what I have heard most women understand if you take a glance at their cleavage if it is showing, they just don't want you to stare. If a woman gets mad at you for looking at her breasts, chances are you were probably looking at them too long. The same really goes for any other body part you find attractive and want to look at, the butt and legs for most guys. Take a glance but then look back up at her, if she smiles at you acknowledge her in some way even if it is just smiling back.
As for me, I live in an area where the dress tends to be a little bit more conservative. A lot of women around here prefer to cover up their breasts (not a bad thing) and even their legs because they want people to get to know who they are on the inside. I actually think that having cleavage showing can be a distraction to the conversation since for me I'm not just worried about what she is saying, but also trying not to look at her boobs because she might take it the wrong way. Of course I can't help but to take a glance if she has them showing but I do try and keep it to a minimum because I don't want to be offensive. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/22/2009 5:12:03 PM |
Women show cleavage to get attention, or because they want to show what they've got. If they get upset, it's because they don't want that attention from YOU specifically. Tough break.
Not always true.... there are women who are "built" such that they could be wearing an average v-neck or tank top and they showing tons of cleavage. What are they supposed to do in the summer.... sweat it out?
Any man who considers himself "mature" knows that staring at a woman's cleavage is not acceptable behaviour .... just as women know that staring at his crotch is not acceptable behaviour. If a man stares at my cleavage, I just figure he has done me a favour and shown me his true colours early on.... NEXT! | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/29/2009 4:03:32 PM | Great Question-- I wonder-- you see many women with very small breasts showing the same area of their chests, blouses open to their navels or almost. No one says anything about that.
However, if a woman has full breasts all of a sudden SHE is being suggestive if she has cleavage?? If a woman is flat chested and showing most of her chest then she isn't being so?
I think it goes back to the old thinking, that women that dress a certain way--ASK for IT!! Not so.
Women with big breasts should not have to wear a turtleneck to hide them. What is wrong with cleavage? Doesn't make you a loose woman or one that is wanting to be oogled. It is part of your body. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/29/2009 4:10:47 PM | PS --I must add I never get upset, if it is a compliment could be my eyes, or hair, or body, Women!!! we ALL want to feel attractive and we should have each other's "BACK" and take up for each other, not put women down for their bodies. Show what you want, bodies are beautiful. I think women that dress to attract are great and full of confidence in their bodies, when I see them I think , great looking woman. What woman does not want to show off her body, in nice jeans maybe a great butt, nice shirt maybe some cleavage. Women need to support women and the beauty of not only our minds but our bodies.  | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/30/2009 6:07:14 AM |
Any man who considers himself "mature" knows that staring at a woman's cleavage is not acceptable behaviour .... just as women know that staring at his crotch is not acceptable behaviour. If a man stares at my cleavage, I just figure he has done me a favour and shown me his true colours early on.... NEXT!
So if you were to eat a banana, I assume it would be best if the guy looked at the floor the whole time?.... | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/30/2009 6:58:31 AM | I myself don't like shirts that are tight around my neck so most of the ones I buy are scoop necked or V necked. Therefore sometimes my cleavage may show. It doesn't mean I'm trying to show it and it doesn't mean I want men to look at it. I know sometimes they can't help it but I'd hope they'd move their eyes after a second or two..... | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/30/2009 8:26:38 AM |
Women show cleavage to get attention, or because they want to show what they've got. If they get upset, it's because they don't want that attention from YOU specifically.
And here is where the logical disconnect occurs, n'est-ce pas? You can't put out a saucer of milk and expect only tabby cats to come drink from it. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/30/2009 9:09:31 AM | because they are screwing with your head.
any woman who walks around with half her boobs hanging out wants you to look (stop lying, ladies, you want to showcase the assets. if you didn't care about a man staring at them, plastic surgeons wouldn't be millionaires and silicone would still just be toxic waste.).
however, women have this odd idea that if they show it off but tell you not to look, they will come across as virtuous and somehow sexy because, if they say, don't look at my tits, respect my mind, and blah, blah, blah, you will think "by gum, she's got a fab rack but she isn't easy! perhaps i will listen to her talk and engage in discussion so that i can fall in love with her brain, then!"
yes, i know that is the dumbest shit ever. but that's how (most) chicks think. they confuse sexy with sexuality. so yes, she wants you to look, but she also wants to yell at you for looking so she can feel like less of a slut for dressing that way.
***and before i get the obligatory negative blah blah response/email- i have a huge rack. i enjoy summer specifically because i get to wear clothes to show off that rack. and i've never gotten mad at a guy for looking. who cares about looking- just don't touch and we're good. if you show it off, then enjoy the attention, otherwise dress like a mormon polygamist and stfu. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/30/2009 9:57:01 AM | So if you were to eat a banana, I assume it would be best if the guy looked at the floor the whole time?....
Lol...I eat at least 1 banana everyday; they're great for on the go energy..and I'm usually eating them driving. Some of the eyes meeting @ stoplights is pretty damn funny. Made me blush once or twice. Lol. Life is funny. And that green bananana looks really perverse to me ;-)
op..I only dislike disrespect...and that's not necessarily disrespectful. I , like many girls ...who are liars if they don't admit...will dress sexy of course. It's fun. And if you dress sexy; whether it be a low cut blouse or a short dress..whatever...and you get attention, well, I agree, it's kind of why you put it on. For me...well, I normally prefer understatement. But to each their own. And there is definitely a time when more is less..though normally less is more for me...bonus points if you actually understood that karenosophy , lol.
Poker...I will shamelessly wear a push up bra & low cut shirt for 'texas or open tournies...all is fair in poker. Just saying. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/30/2009 6:56:19 PM | Attention whores.
I don't get that either. I see these pic's girls take of themselves with camera angled to show cleavage and it just rings pathetic and desperate. And this coming from a girl....with DD's.
On another note, I don't like strangers commenting on my boobs, but my guy can stare/comment/touch all he wants. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/30/2009 7:25:18 PM | Ok guys, I'm a bigger breasted girl here and yes, they do show prominately in my pictures, because.... well... they're just there..... I don't think women mind as much if men look at their breasts but it shouldn't become the ONLY focus of the discussion. I don'tknow how many time I will talk with someone,they will mention my breasts and then immediately they start a conversation about what they want to do to them in explecit details and the conversation doesn't veer from the subject until I end all conversation with them. So, yes it's ok to look, to admire, stare if you want, but remember that there is more to us than just our boobs and we want to discuss something more than them. We already know they're there,but when you come off as the guy who just wants to talk about them and everything that you want to do to them, that's when we lose interest.
Just my thoughts. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/30/2009 11:17:08 PM |
Some women don't care if you look or not and would never get pi$$ed about it. The only thing that'd make me angry would be the assumption that my low-cut top means.. in your mind, anyway... that I'm a whore or stupid. - El_Mariachi
I don't mind if men look, I would be surprised if they didn't. But it isn't a license to be rude or boorish, either. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 8/31/2009 9:24:47 AM |
I don't get that either. I see these pic's girls take of themselves with camera angled to show cleavage and it just rings pathetic and desperate. And this coming from a girl....with DD's.
Bottom line is, that if their on display, men will look, some men will stare.
It ain't rocket science. Duhh...
You can choose to get upset about it, you can chose to do something about it, men can choose to do whatever they want with the light that is reflecting off of them, y'know?
It's not a violation. You don't own the light rays that you reflect.
Stop projecting your thoughts onto mens'.
Can we move on to something more perplexing?..... | |
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