| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/24/2007 9:23:49 AM |
hear yah...I have a secret...... I love a bald man...just want to go up and rub my hands all over his hot little head......mmmmmmmmmmmmm...can't control myself.......and if they don't want me to comment and lear at their shinny little noggins they should all wear hats.......
hilarious (and cute) 
it's those guys with nipples on the top of their head that you gotta watch out for.  | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/24/2007 10:00:59 AM | I agree about them wanting attention and saying look at me. There is expensive clothing by designers that reveals cleavage and I wouldn't go so far as to call them Hoes for those who elect to wear that apparell...I do find it hypocritical for those women to think by showing it, its not going to be looked at......I also find it hypocritical for those who show it on POF and then have the audacity to select the mail options for contacting them, must not be looking for intimate encounter........Yea right.... a set of boobs staring me in the face always make me think of golf., sky diving, etc .. I wouldn't dare think of intimate encounter with those pups But then again maybe they aren't being hypocritcal, just dingy because they didn't pay attention to the mail settings before entering their info. One female rebutled and said....well there are several things that could be deemed intimate and not sexual in nature like holding hands, hugging .....and I said........uh... so you are saying you are looking for action by posting your profile on this site as in someone asking you out ,.....and you show cleavage and you dont want someone to look at you for an intimate encounter by someone wanting to hold your hand  what bafoons | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/24/2007 10:33:48 AM | Experienced this myself ~ Housemate met an Amber ~ aka, Amberlicious ~
beautiful face ~ early 30's ~ Huge hips ~ 70+ inches ~ waist ~ maybe 38 inches
The twin sister's , a good 50 inches ~ a shocking sight to behold ~ alway got 20 lbs of breast showing ~ She gets upset !! ~ It's hard to not look ~ you keep wondering ????// ~~~ What'ta hell!
My guess with this one person ~ It's a matter of it being hard finding cloths to cover her well. ~ poor girl ~ she's got Dolly Parton sitting in the cheap seat.
The rest of them ~ I'm clueless! ~ dar | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/24/2007 10:36:34 AM | I tried staying out away from this one but in seeing this:"........Yea right.... a set of boobs staring me in the face always make me think of golf., sky diving, etc .. I wouldn't dare think of intimate encounter with those pups" , it is NOT the fault of the woman that happens to have a noticeable set that YOU think this way.It's your hormones thinking then. Just because they have some that are "showing" , it doesn't mean they are offering anything more with them. At my age there is USUALLY cleavage. It's a fact with gravity and aging combined. Either that or a tshirt seems to emphasize the width of them (my daughter once said to me when she was little: mom, you have 'fat' boobs..kids are so outspoken) Op: The women that complain are likely gawked at by ones they don't want the attention from. I 'm still looking to find a tshirt that has a pair of eyes placed right on them so when a guy does look they can actually feel they look back in return. Women should feel a reason to start getting upset when men stop looking at them. I started having some when I was in middle school years, boys noticed. You get used to it. They exist, it's a fact in life. It doesn't mean they are offered to feel, etc. When stared at, if disgusted then look away. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/24/2007 10:36:42 AM | People are going to look. Men and women. Geesh.
I was at Disneyland yesterday, and there was this lady with half her gut hanging out and a tank top 3 sizes too small for her, and her boobs were GIGANTIC! ***I*** couldnt help it but to LOOK. (obviously I was not admiring).
Im simply saying that, as a woman who does have rather large breasts, sometimes it doesnt matter what I wear. However, like another poster stated, if I like a style of a shirt, and it is form fitting, I will wear it. I dont mind the occasional looks, but making it obvious or it being accompanied by piggish comments is really immature and not needed.
Go ahead and look, you wont be touching them or sucking on them anyway. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/24/2007 5:21:45 PM | | Showing just a hint of scrotum drives women crazy. I'm always careful never to reveal more than a sliver of my testes (tastefully done, of course), because I don't want to be thought of as "easy". Brief stares are expected and welcome, but linger too long, and yeah, I'm gonna get pissed... | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/24/2007 5:48:10 PM | I have no idea,, I really do,, but not worth mentioning,, I will only get beat up by the womam here.. But here is a story,, I'm 5'10",, I'm talking to the woman a party a couple years ago,, she was about 4' 9" her breast were,, just guess on my end, 38 DD.. so we are talking,, I'm looking down at her,, why there is 13"difference in height,, now add my boots 15" and yes I could see the tips of my boots as I'm looking down through her blouse and chest,, I could see to my toes,, while we are talking.. and she had the nerve to ask ,,why are you staring at my chest,, I said,, because they are exposed and you are flaunting them,, and then I said I really need to clean my boots,, yes she was pissed,, I like 34.. 36 A B or C,,, so I was not turned on at the least... just a funny story,,  | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/25/2007 5:55:08 AM | hear yah...I have a secret...... I love a bald man...just want to go up and rub my hands all over his hot little head......mmmmmmmmmmmmm...can't control myself.......and if they don't want me to comment and lear at their shinny little noggins they should all wear hats.......
That's "cute " ...but , it is terrible comparison.
You would have been much more accurate to say ...." I love men's buns ...can't control myself ..and if those men don't like me staring , then they should not wear really tight jeans ( or those pants with those see-through clear plastic arzes , lol) " If men don't want women staring at their arses they should wear regular fitting pants.
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/25/2007 6:31:58 AM | Interesting topic
I wont write a blog, just a breif explanation.
Many females consider thier breasts as a means of thier womanhood. They compete with others on thier size (making them more/less a women). Females display thier breasts like trophies, if you dont notice them, they will make an effort to ensure that you do notice them. And yes, if your a cute guy and viewed by her as eyeballing her chest (low class males are attracted to breasts/psych report 2006) shes enthralled, but if your not her type, she's offended.
Selfish creatures we all are to an extent. Subconscious behavior is mostly always readable. Everything we do is for a reason, often unoticed.
Rod | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/25/2007 6:32:58 AM | I'll let you in on a little something that I don't think has been mentioned yet, but I'm not reading three pages of responses to find out that my insight isn't as eye opening as I thought...
Basically a lot of women (and no not all of you) show cleavage cuz they are insecure about the rest of them. I'm not stick thin now, but when I was heavier, I don't think I wore a top that didn't show something! (except at work, and I sell men's clothing, so that's probably the only place it would have helped me...) It might not have been the best way to catch a mans attention, but when you are at a bar with your supermodel girlfriends, you gotta have something to give you that slight advantage.
I still wear low cut tops now - and they ain't small - but I'm not going to dress like a nun just to hide them. Girls who wear revealing shirts don't care that you look, it's when you don't look up and there's a little trail of drool dripping off your chin that creeps us out. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/25/2007 6:41:25 AM | | I think one of the most hilarious ads I saw by a woman was a 48 year old blonde that her whole ad said things like DO NOT MESSAGE ME SAYING HEY SEXY, and do not message me saying how hot I am, bescially dont make any remarks on how she looked. She said she wasnt a bimbo and didnt like to be treated as such. Then I looked at her pictures and OMG, every one of them showed more skin that I could at the beach. Lingerie poses, bra and panties, laying on the bed sucking her finger. Not a bimbo ? Who where ? lol If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck and LOOKS like a duck then it must be a BIMBO ! lol | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/25/2007 6:50:00 AM | This is just too much fun. There will never come a time when men don't look.....and I've been made the most uncomfortable by women looking and commenting.!
You learn to live with big boobs - the looks, the envy, the comments and your own thoughts that go from proud and happy to "damn if only these things would go away"!!
Having always had to accept what I had, I honestly never thought too much about other women and their feelings. I grew up with sisters...one flat as a pancake and the other with normal sized boobies....... we just dealt with the ration.
Years later, I had a woman working for me that was tall and thin (as opposed to my very short/round body). It never thought much about her posture until she got a boob job!
She had poor posture before...she was stooping over. All of a sudden, she stood upright and stuck her chest out...like a rooster ready to fight!
Literally, she was empowered by her new chest! A boob job had been her goal! And she worked her buns off to reach it.
I was married to someone that didn't even notice that I had boobs......to evolve years later and have men tell me they were in love with my boobs.
There is no accounting for what makes us all tick. But, the best thing for all of us is to be
tolerant as well as comfortable in your own skin...boobs or no boobs.
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/25/2007 7:20:33 AM | | Good question. I have no answer. I did learn something recently, which I thought was absurd . . . . yes, Men do stare at ladies, but a lady told me she was staring at me - down there. I thought she was just strange, but she said her girlfriends were doing it as well, so I began paying more attention to women's eyes and lo and behold . . . . I was totally blown away by the number of ladies/women/females who were staring at my crotch when I was trying to converse with them. Some even broke eye contact while approaching to give a casual "glance". This revelation, being new to me, was seemingly old news and acceptable to all the ladies I entrusted with this discovery. It gave me a reality check, women look and so do guys. Tip to the guys, don't stare! Glance if you must, but eye contact and conversation will open more doors than that weirdo axe-murderer look you're used to giving. Try it. If you think I'm wrong, post it. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/25/2007 7:35:12 AM | ^^^ Ummm ... If you're carrying around a banana in your pocket ...that's cheating . lol
And yes, if your a cute guy and viewed by her as eyeballing her chest (low class males are attracted to breasts/psych report 2006) shes enthralled, but if your not her type, she's offended.
That's interesting about class and breasts .
And yes , women like to hold the power as to decide who is staring like a pig and deserves a slap or who is just being sensual and enticingly flirtatious. That is probably a big part of why this whole 'show off - but don't look' contradiction exists .
I have read how women use their sexuality to create neurosis in guys as a psychological weapon.
Nothing new there .
But, who cares , it can provide a guy with some nice scenery . (-: | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/25/2007 9:28:28 AM | You guys are making me nervous about my profile pic....
Here's the deal...I'm not cheap or easy..but, first of all, when you are large breasted, unless you want to wear unflattering t shirts...you are going to have cleavage. On another site I posted some pix without out any skin showing...trusted male friends of mine suggeted something tasteful, but sexy, because I was disappointed abou tmy views...I got their opinion on my new pix, they said ..cool.. here's some psychology for you...from the day I posted the new pix?...I got 300 views in three days?...Now, tell me that men arent visual?..lol.
And that's the point...you have to have something visual to get their attention, and my smile and my cleavage are my best assets...
As for looking...I expect them to look..what I hate, is continued staring, or never looking at my face, or in my eyes when they are talking to me? | |
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