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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/25/2007 11:45:37 AM | | I think wizwoman is great and master irisheagle is the wise god among men,I do hope others get to read the pearls of wisdom from these two.I definately have the boobs and I will wear what I damn well please because either way you cannot win!..I recall at a local beach bar at two in the afternoon getting a soft drink, my dogs tied to the outside bench where I was going to sit,wearing an old baggy high neck t-shirt and capri's, to the rightof me a group of guys sing,looking .whispering and making remarks like a bunch of thirteen year olds let out for the day....to the left a death grip on the boyfriend who she kept in check lest... god forbid he might glance at me,if these people are you then here's the deal .....this group of guys don't get laid often but tell each other they do, they use their pencil**** for digging holes in the yard or stirring coffee and between them couldn't satisfy me on a good day.Sexy men who have it going on have little to say and those eyes say it all!!!!!,..and we women love it! and whatever body part is your shining glory you love the right attention don't you?,to the women who think I might be remotely interested in your pot-bellied sweaty man... get a life!!!!! | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/26/2007 9:41:17 AM | Not I...
Interestingly enough, I had this situation this past weekend. I went out to a local bar and decided to play it up a bit - dressed in a *very* low cut shirt.
Bar was crowded (good band!) and getting to the bathroom meant squeezing by people. I squeezed by one guy and I saw his eyes go down as he simulaneously nudged his friend and grinned. *lol*
Then he realized I saw his action and he gave me this sheepish "Oh shit" look. I just shrugged and laughed.
For the rest of the night, he grinned like a maniac every time I walked past and even tried to grab my hand at one point.
Is it really that rare that a woman is that laidback about it? I mean, I chose to wear what I wore, knowing it meant guys would look/stare (kind of the point of a shirt like that, eh?) and as long as they aren't trying to grab ahold of my chest, they aren't hurting anything by looking! | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/27/2007 8:37:47 AM | Looking's free. Women know that men look at their breats.
As far as I am concerned there is nothing wrong with looking at a woman's breasts.
There's the whole gamut from a passing glance, an admiring look to downright oogling and leering.
It depends on so many things; the woman's frame of mind or mood, the man's look and what she reads into it etc.
I have seen first hand where one man will look at a woman's breasts and she will give him a look as if to say "What are you looking at" and another man will look and the woman will smile. What does that say? It says to me that she is using her breast as an advertisment. She will therefore dissuade a guy she is not interested from going any further while inviting a guy she is interested in to go further.
Oh what adult games we play! | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/27/2007 10:15:32 AM | I think it's only a problem if it bothers you that she is upset. If she's putting them out there for inspection and you glanced rather than leered, well . . . that's why were all here - to get noticed.
My favorite are shirts with the sayings in small print, "Yes, I'm staring, I'm trying to read what is written on your shirt that you obviously put on because you like what it said and wanted others to know that you like what it said and I don't have my reading glasses on".
I had a woman that reported to me at another job. We were friendly and nothing more. She wasn't that big on top but I guess she had put on a shirt that morning from a time when she was thinner and didn't check the mirror on the way out the door. Anyway, she comes into my cube to discuss work and it looked like her breasts were on the attack. I looked at the top of her head, the ceiling, out the window, trying to be polite. At some she realized what was going on and she wound up carrying a file folder infront of her the rest of the day. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/27/2007 11:30:15 AM |
I read an interesting scientific study that examined exactly what happens to a man when he sees a provocatively dressed woman. The study found that for many men, their brains literally stopped functioning normally. They explained that's why some men will part with so much money when they go to a strip club. All rational thinking leaves their brain and they really have no control.
Funny - saw this in action this weekend. I was wearing aforementioned top and dancing with friends (female) while another friend (male) just hung back and relaxed at our table - so he got to watch people. Said one guy was in the act of lighting a cigarette, caught sight as I turned in his direction (not purposely, just while dancing) and stopped, lighter halfway to his cigarette and just froze like that for about 10 seconds before shaking his head and lighting up. Amused the hell out of my friend and gives credence to your study's theory. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/27/2007 12:04:27 PM | mmmm as a woman with a great rack (natural, too!) if i choose to wear a low cut shirt or anything sexy i love noticing guys noticing me. we know what you are going to see because we have checked ourselves out in the mirror before we left the house... we know we look good.
if u see me walking, feel free to stare
as long as u are appreciating my beauty and not looking like u r gonna drag me into a white van, its cool to admire. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/30/2007 5:20:44 PM | As posted by Rottenprincess, I am also a woman with a great (natural) rack.
If I wear something with cleavage, I know that I will be noticed. If I don't want to be noticed, it would be wise for me to wear something more conservative.
Since forming a relationship with my partner a year ago, my "cleavage" wardrobe has noticably dissipated. My sweetie figures that the only man who should be noticing my cleavage is HIM.
Besides, he notices my rack no matter what I'm wearing.  | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/1/2007 5:59:08 AM |
As posted by Rottenprincess, I am also a woman with a great (natural) rack.
If I wear something with cleavage, I know that I will be noticed. If I don't want to be noticed, it would be wise for me to wear something more conservative.
Since forming a relationship with my partner a year ago, my "cleavage" wardrobe has noticably dissipated. My sweetie figures that the only man who should be noticing my cleavage is HIM.
Besides, he notices my rack no matter what I'm wearing.
wow I like this girl but, what if she is still with the guy and likes to show her cleavage what does that mean then?
She trying to look good for you or trying to make you jealous?
I dont dare question their clothes I know thats a touchy subject but
sometimes I get a gut feeling its something else?
Can anyone enlighten me, it doesnt bother me but I just get this hunch. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/1/2007 6:57:32 AM | Well, you can't do a 2 minute stare, that's rude. The lady does have eyes after all.
BUT...... lol
I look at it as sort of a test of wills, lol. I meet a lady and she's wearing a low cut top with her boobs right out there, I KNOW she's watching my eyes and waiting. Si I make a point of not looking for the first little while. Then when I do look, I give a sly little smile. You don't always have you use words to flirt after all.
Why would a lady want a guy that's so easy to controll that all she has to do is show a little (or alot) of cleavage and she'll know how the guy will react.
Guys, don't look at first. And then, when you do look, make sure you look her right in the eyes after a brief glance. So that you both know what you were looking at. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/1/2007 8:38:38 AM |
wow I like this girl but, what if she is still with the guy and likesk to show her cleavage what does that mean then? She trying to look good for you or trying to make you jealous?
Well, Luv Docs, I like you too!
This is my partner's point exactly: why would I want to wear something with cleavage when I'm out with him? It made him nervous; did this mean I was still trying to attract other men? This was particularly true early in our relationship. He says that at this point in our relationship, he would not have the same worries.
From my viewpoint, I was dressing for HIM, and him alone. I wanted to look pleasing to him. But it quickly became apparent that he was far more pleased when I dressed in a less revealing fashion, and henceforth, that's how I dressed.
To be honest, I did wear something rather low-cut last weekend, and he seemed to quite like it. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/1/2007 4:28:14 PM |
This is my partner's point exactly: why would I want to wear something with cleavage when I'm out with him? It made him nervous; did this mean I was still trying to attract other men?
I think it depends on the guy. Some like to show you off. Some want you all to themselves. I've had men request that I wear things that I felt uncomfortable wearing. Either because they were inappropriate in my eyes for some reason, or I didn't think they flattered me.
And others who didn't like the least bit of obvious sexuality in my attire.
In the beginning they may like it because it attracted them, but, after, they don't want you attracting other men.
The challenge is to find a compromise between what I'm comfortable with, and what they would like. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/1/2007 10:20:09 PM | Zangie: Yes, I think that's to be discussed between the couple. I don't go to extremes, but my boyfriend is a bit of a boob fiend, so he's always throwing his vote for what is going to entertain him the most. I generally dress fairly conservatively when single, but once with someone, I'll adjust a little around what he likes. My boyfriend isn't trying to show me off, it's really just so he can look and be entertained while we're sitting at a restaurant.
Once I discovered what happens when he's not entertained  and several other women got plastic forks lobbed at their heads. (He knew them, he was just misbehaving because he was bored.) If he's focused on something else, he doesn't lob plastic forks. :-p
breasts is to make men stupid I haven't quite figured out why those drive some guys crazy. They are nothing more than a large gland for producing milk for babies. Most women's breasts look like sunny side up eggs (that metaphor came from several men). There are some cultures where those aren't focused on as a sexual organ. Maybe it's the thing with glands...and if so, wouldn't women with large pores be the most attractive??? Big glands ya know. :-p | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/2/2007 2:26:16 AM | I absolutely agree. A woman knows exactly what she is doing when she "show it off". They complain only when men they are not attracted to look. They also use the opportunity to complain to assure that everyone knows they have big boobs. You know the saying "always be at your best". Apparently, women feeling the need to flont their breast believe that is the best they have to offer. For all you gamblers out there remember "almost everything beats a pair".
To answer the question about a woman looking at a man's wallet. If he keeps it where it belongs there would be no problem. However, if he pulls it out and flonts all his money, well, YES women will look. I am sure he figures he has nothing else to offer so he flonts what he has. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/2/2007 4:43:52 AM |
Well, Luv Docs, I like you too!
This is my partner's point exactly: why would I want to wear something with cleavage when I'm out with him? It made him nervous; did this mean I was still trying to attract other men? This was particularly true early in our relationship. He says that at this point in our relationship, he would not have the same worries.
From my viewpoint, I was dressing for HIM, and him alone. I wanted to look pleasing to him. But it quickly became apparent that he was far more pleased when I dressed in a less revealing fashion, and henceforth, that's how I dressed.
To be honest, I did wear something rather low-cut last weekend, and he seemed to quite like it.
thank you for that I had a feeling about that | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/3/2007 3:07:04 PM | | I do show some cleavage and am dang proud of them. Like one poster said she gets to shower with them put lotion on them. They are mine and I can do what I want with them. I do not mind people admiring them but if that is all a man is interested in than he is not my type. I don't emails guys saying I love the bulge in your pants you must have a big tally wacker. Just how big is it, or is that a sock lol. | |
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