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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/4/2007 1:55:36 AM | | well, hopefully you aren't drooling as well as staring! and what about leg men? does this mean we should all wear trousers? ok. just kidding. it's all relative. if the woman or man is tastefully dressed, a little reminder here and there should entitle each to some eye contact as well. if the person is not tastefully dressed, then i suppose s/he would not get upset. if i am wrong, then the person is a tease or attention seeking or insecure. some say if you have it, flaunt it. however, in this day and age, i'd say to keep riskay dress in secure places where the interaction will be acceptable to both. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/4/2007 2:33:50 AM | So true, so true OP.
This one just cracked me up.
Frankly, I see no reason to be upset and no need to apologize. We are guys, so of course we are going to look. Sure it's different from the admiring look vs. the 15 second stare where we drool all over the place and trip over ourselves. Good thing you pointed that out.
If a woman is upset at an admiring look, then maybe it's because you were not the one she wanted to have notice her natural attributes. Something else, you wonder if this is the type of gal who would complain if men didn't look/stare.
Other than that...enjoy the view. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/4/2007 3:49:48 AM |
Well, go for it girl...you know better than anyone else what you have to offer a man. Some of us have brains, some of use have good character, some of you have boobs...I say, if that is all the good lord gave you to offer up...go for it!
Wow, nice display of passive-aggressive behavior there. I can't even begin to point out how incredibly ignorant and rude it is to assume a woman who shows off what she has is stupid and lacks character. Or I could just be a fool, and this being the internet and all, missed the tone you were attempting to apply.
I'll be blunt. I have a huge rack. I've had these things since I was in fourth grade. I love them, and I'm comfortable enough with them to let them come out and play now and then. Hell, even when I don't want them to, they will. I'm fairly certain I would have to wear a parka for one not to notice my breasts. This does not mean I'm a whore, that I'm a bad person, or that I don't have brains. It means "Hey, I'm comfortable with my sexuality and my body.". Besides, it's a good tactic! Haha, bait them with the cleavage and then reel them in with the wit and intelligence.
And to the OP...do women like this actually exist past middle school? I wasn't even aware this was still an issue among adults. This is seriously something I haven't encountered with any of my girlfriends. Most of us take it as a compliment as long as you don't act like a creep about it. Look all you want, but there's no need to try to touch or make comments such as "Nice boobs lol". Yes, I know, that's why I'm wearing a low cut shirt.
I wouldn't loose too much sleep if a woman tells you off for looking at her chest when she's wearing a shirt cut down to her navel. If she's going to flip out over something so small, then she's probably not the kind of person you want around. It's a fact of life; women flaunt, men stare. Man stare even when you're not flaunting or purposely letting 'em hang out. Get over it. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/4/2007 4:02:03 AM | Well normally I would not pose in my bra and show my breasts off... have more about me than just breasts!....however this month in the UK it is breast cancer awareness month and we as a group are wearing pink bras in support of research into this disease....one month only though!... after this I will go back to being a plain Jane ...lol...yeh right!
each to their own I say... x and women that complain about being looked at.. cover up or shut up!.... | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/4/2007 11:05:11 AM | Womens' breasts evolved to draw male attention. That's why they exist. If women have problems with men focusing on breasts, they're ignorant of reality or denying it.
(And no, breasts in mammals did not evolve for milk production. The mammary glands did. Mammary glands are *in* breasts, but one doesn't need to be a B+ cup to adequately produce milk. In humans, the breasts are a secondary sex characteristic used to attract mates.) | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/4/2007 2:36:43 PM | | usually women that show cleavage on pictures are overweight and they do that to accentuate their best "asset". It's really annoying and its not a good representation of who they really are. It's false advertising. If you cant put a full body picture then dont put up a profile, that's just IMO | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/4/2007 5:29:56 PM | | Because they are stupid little girls who think that they can flaunt their sexuality and then behave all irate when a guy takes notice. If you don't want someone to stare, then cover it up! Wear a turtleneck, then there won't be a problem. They would probably be just as annoyed if the guy took no notice of her "assets"... It's like the people who pierce every visible orofice, eyebrow, nose, lip, and stretch out holes in their earlobes so you can see what's behind them; then they get bent out of shape because you can't help but stare at how freakish they look. "Don't judge me"! Sorry, but EVERYBODY judges you, and if you choose to give the impression that you are a circus freak, OK, but don't expect to ever get a decent job, or be taken seriously. Sorry, but that's life. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/4/2007 5:49:26 PM | | lmao Texas transplant. reajusting the sock. too funny. You know men are always gawking at our legs, boobs, butt, asking us what size our bras are etc etc. How would they like if we asked them how well they are hung or how long can they keep it up or is that a sock your sporting lol. I have known some men with wide front loads lol. I am wondering if it was real or hanes lol. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/5/2007 4:54:02 AM | [
men stare or admire women’s boobs no matter what they are wearing. if you don't mind me staring or admiring your crotch or ass then I don't mind you staring or admiring...
Oh I love that, by all means stare away and I will watch and wait for you to raise your eyes up to mine, check out my face and I will give you a very nice ‘knowing’ smile!
You see I understand that one-day, probably all too soon, I might no longer get those looks and stares, so bring em on baby, it makes me feel great!
I probably don’t get threatened as I have a great sense of my self, so stare away.
Now if you notice me checking you out, I am not going to look away, I am going to smile, nod my head and say “Hi”.
Hoping you will talk to me, but you will probably be too embarrassed as I call you out and you can’t follow up, a girl will not engage. A woman will and I love you sexy women who do!
Comfortable in your own skin, looking for opportunities to meet and have a life…oh baby!
As one of my girl friends says (she has been either a 38 DD or 38DDD since 12 and she is a voluptuous sexy woman of 5’3” with a very ‘sexy’ small waistline, wow). Well she has a healthy sense of humor, she understands that both men and women are going to look and instead of feeling embarrassed or put off, she enjoys it. She will tell you if you are going to hate her, “Hate me for my big boobs” and you have to say booobs in a weird voice, very cute and very funny when she does it. Also incredibly disarming! What a woman!
Gotta love a feminine Leo! You ladies ROCK! | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/5/2007 5:27:15 AM | I love it when the "twins" get a glance or too. I have caught some even giving more than a casual glance!!! Thats all good but when you got to touch or inquire about "Real or Fake" THEN I take offense cause its over the line to me....
You got it show it!!! Cause only god knows how long you'lll have it!!!!!
Tori | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/5/2007 5:43:38 AM | if you don't want to talk about them why are you showing them? what are you ..in grade school. you can't have it both ways.
if they are showing then it's ok to ask about them. don't want to talk about them then hide em. you've crossed the line by letting them hang out. what's wrong with you? | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 10/5/2007 6:36:42 AM | | What happen to commen sense and being polite? So many on pof have a bug up thier butts and use the forums to take out their frustrations on others. Big breast little breast, showing not showing. Whats the freakin big deal. We all have alot more to offer than our bodies. Its just a part of us. People who cover them are not prudes and those that show then are not whores. Can we get out of the dark ages for petes sake??? We should all be admiring each other and looking for the good in people not taring them down. So many misereable spitefull sharp tongue people. I for one think we need to practice John Lennons song more often. "Imagine" Stop acting superior, and as if your perfect and have the right to critisize others. | |
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