| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Posted: 9/27/2007 12:53:12 PM | I have run into the same problem as ageorgiagal but no with the guys . I am ready to settle down but I also want to take my time in doing it. I want to make sure it's the right person and I want it to happen naturally. I don't want to go out with someone and think about settling down. I think that sends off a bad message so I just try to enjoy the moment and if we keep seeing each other for a month or so then I think it's time to talk about being exclusive.
I really want to know someone before I make that commitment. My mistake is jumping in to quick. I don't want to make the same mistakes at 34 that I did when I was in my 20's . Hopefully someone can relate to that.
I have not been on here to long so I don't have experience to share with this site other than I met one person and we hit off great as friends but nothing more. We still talk and hang out. Sometimes I am just as happy with that but I would like to meet someone I click with one more than friendly level.
I normally just read the post here but I wanted to respond to this one. I thought it was good topic
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Posted: 12/11/2007 7:03:21 AM | OT: Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? I think they're in either the Georgia in Russia or they're in Canada. That's ok tho; fishing is FUN! ~BenedictTea
Pffffffffffttttttttt!!!!!
Not all of us.............thank you soooooooooooooooo much! I do want to settle down! I have known the joy a relationship wtih someone special and I want to enjoy that once again! I will be patient, you as well OP!!
Take care,
~Sneaks
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Posted: 12/15/2007 10:07:18 AM | Ignoring that last exchange......
On topic....I have found that many of the GA guys looking to settle down have a very tight age range they are looking for posted and therefore are not open, due to the blocking mechanisms built in here to contact from those outside, even if just by a bit...sure makes it hard to even make first moves....
One never knows what a couple/few years can bring to the equation..maybe even the perfect match...JMHO | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Posted: 12/15/2007 5:53:05 PM | | i lost my fiancee last December due to cancer and starting over dating really bites...reason being is there are alot of players on theses dating sites also lot of one with issues. But im still hanging in there i think mr right is out there. And Mr cool i maybe more than 50 miles from you but ill say this if right one comes along it maybe worth traveling for. | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Posted: 12/15/2007 7:54:47 PM | Personally I don't think its a matter of being ready to settle down as much as it is finding the one to settle down with. Why would a gentleman settle for Ms. Wrong when he could wait the extra time and have Ms Right.
Personally I wouldn't settle down unless I had what I knew would work cuz I surely have no plans of getting married or living with someone again unless he plans on sticking around for a long time. | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Posted: 12/28/2007 11:22:14 PM | I would say that I'm ready to settle down. I was once before too, but that didn't work out. I told her that I WOULD NOT get married, unless that was it, I was being buried next to her, she said fine, we got married, 3 years later, I find out I'm paying for her to shack up in W. VA, when she was visiting her sick mother.
People are farked up, if I found a good woman, I would snatch her up, marry her, have about 87 kids, and die happy. | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Posted: 12/31/2007 1:38:37 PM | You ladies make us work too hard. You watch too many romantic movies and then want a guy that will make a fool of himself for you and, tell you what you want to hear. Then decide that if he has no self respect he's not what you're looking for. Or you get played by a player. Who said "Honesty is the key, if you can fake that you've got it made ?" I'm me. Nothing more, nothing less. I'm honest, loyal, and sincere. And as a result I'm not dating anyone right now ! But thats OK. I won't change for anyone. (Well maybe for Pam Anderson !)  | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Posted: 1/20/2008 11:23:31 PM | There are guys out there that are ready to settle down, I know I would be provided the right gal came my way and we both decided that we wanted to be partners for life. Unfortunately I havent found anyone that really is ready for what it takes, love, devotion caring, a willing to sacrifice if needed, work thru the rough times that sometimes face a family, Its too damn easy to turn away when the sh!t hits the fan so to say, it takes someone who honestly cares, and too many people these days are very selfish. Im sad to say Good luck with your quest, I know Im not giving up quite yet thats not to say I dont get frustrated All the best! Stu | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Posted: 2/24/2008 2:56:59 PM | Myself, I'm looking for the right person with whom to build a family and spend my life.
As to this site, I am finding many single women that are interested in dating.
My issue is that I can't find a woman with whom to build a family. I'm at a point in my life at which I'm mature (and financially stable) enough to be a parent. However, I'm not finding women that are interested in building a family.
I am finding single women with no children, but they also don't ever want to have children.
I'm also finding women with children, but don't want to have more children.
Still, I'm not going to gripe about this site. It is free. (laugh) | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Posted: 2/25/2008 10:32:06 AM | | Some of the women that have children but have selected that they do not want anymore are just simply unable to have anymore due to various reasons but are willing to date someone that does or does not have them. It's not that they would not like to have any more it is more along the lines of can't. The problem with that is that it is hard to find someone that is willing to be with a person that cant have anymore kids but has kids from a previous marriage/relationship but will not be able to have any more if they happen across that "love of their life". Good Luck to all on here.... | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Posted: 2/25/2008 10:54:15 AM | | Ok, I'm not from Georgia; but I have been to some of the POF rallies over there. What I would like to know is why some women won't talk to guys who are beyond the norm? Meaning, I don't have kids, never been married, or such like that. Not downing anyone who has, heck I would love those things; it just seems I'm the oddity!lol | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Posted: 4/21/2008 11:03:12 AM | here's the scoop ladies, from a guy who's been doing this for 12 plus years.
I find MANY women on these sights who claim they dont want sex, yet you meet them, talk a little sweetness, show a little attention and they are in the bed before you can get your shoes off. Guys know the tricks, and the words... maybe if women would take the time to truly get to know someone BEFORE they climb in bed, they could weed out the dipsticks and get a few free dinners to boot. Desperation is only a turnoff to men AFTER they get some... got it??
I say this because I get tired of the women who make these claims then act like something is wrong with me becasue I don't try to jump them on the first month of dating. I seek FUN, DATING, and the TRUE compatability for a long term relationship. Sex is of no importance to me .... pleasurable yes, but not important when it comes to spending time together without it.
This is why guys don't settle down... they can get some when they want it... just go online and have a feast. Then when the dinner is done.. they find the next meal. marriage for a guy who has something, is a serous business... why would I marry a woman who sees me as just a means to having something knowing that when she decides on a cuter guy, she will get him and half your stuff too. . I work for what I have, have enough to be happy and will continue looking till I find a woman of the same means. toughen up ladies... that thing aint gold anymore.. unless of course you are dealing with a man who has nothing to lose. Be sweet, take care and Be CAREFUL. | |
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