| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down?
Posted: 5/5/2008 7:36:00 PM | loves2giggle.
I'm not hiding. I am right here. Never hid under the first rock. Never had to. My only problem is i am to short seems like. At 5/10 i seem to get looked over. Maybe if i were 6ft or more i might be a little more easy to see. As for me, I never been scared of a woman in my life. Can't get no sugar that way . I love my momma. But she ain't gonna cuddle with me and keep me warm on those cold winter nights. Who knows, Maybe that dream is a reality and right in front of you. You just gotta wake up so you can see it. About the spelling thing. I am not the best speller in the world. I just know where Google is | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down?
Posted: 5/5/2008 7:54:18 PM |
You can borrow my tongue anytime Miss Giggles. I assure you, she doesn't like "Wolf" tongue.
Ya know when you offer a women something.......... Be perpared to pay up buck-o Watch out what you ask for Giggles my dear, the dogs will come a running!
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down?
Posted: 5/6/2008 12:04:47 PM | DAMN! What is up with this Anvilghost /wolf crap???? Man, every thread Sneaks goes to it seems wolfie appears and starts up....You guys need to go arm wrestle or something!! Man...most treads lately are getting corrupted and off track due to this...  | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down?
Posted: 5/6/2008 5:35:45 PM | Yea im getting tired of sneaky man to. Following me and trying his best to insult me and accuse me of being someone im not. Im Sabian, not Wolfie. Get over it already. Im bout to shut him up about a certain thing right now. Check your email sneaky man.
Here I am, Im ready to settle down with the woman with the best offer.
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down?
Posted: 5/6/2008 5:50:54 PM | They just want you and me to stop. I will stop. But can you? I will stop and ignor you for awhile, but a man can only ignor so much. So can you stop spreading drama on the forums? You can think what you want about me, you have made up your mind. Everyone knows you think im wolfie. Get over it by now.
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down?
Posted: 5/17/2008 6:47:37 AM | When it comes to settling down, I've always had a sort of ideal timetable. It's not like I don't want to settle down. I do! I just want to settle down with the Perfect One(TM) for me.
Here is my timetable. Exclusively date a woman for one year. If we're still "crazy in-love," we get engaged. The engagement lasts for the second year. After those two years, I'm assuming we'll know enough about each other to know if we're each other's Perfect One(TM) and ready for marriage -- all the while being "crazy in-love" -- or not.
This prolly sounds like a simple answer, but in my heart, my Perfect One(TM) will be worth waiting for.
Ciao4now, 
jon (jonslate) | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down?
Posted: 5/17/2008 6:46:07 PM | Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down? Some of us are ready, we're just meeting some Ladies that are not. Obviously quoting the question, some men are not!
It's "Hit and Miss" folks.......eventually, we'll all get a hit!!
~Sneaks | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down?
Posted: 5/18/2008 9:11:27 AM | well contradictory to popular beliefs you have one georgia guy left hailing from
the decatur belt. I have noticed woman want there own way just like the film hitch
and men want to get in too soon this is why this problem exists but both desire similair
futures.
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down?
Posted: 5/30/2008 7:52:47 PM | It is amazing to read this stream from beginning to end. (This, I believe, is Post No. 95).
There was a question posed earlier on of "how do you define settle". And that perhaps is the key question. I have been on here long enough to know we all have different definitions of words. Clarifying them are important.
For me, "settle down" is the wrong wording. My experiences suggest that there are several types of men, and this may hold true for women as well. To use shopping as an analogy, there are several types of shoppers: the window shoppers who look only; those that go in the store and feel the items and put them back; those that buy items and return them; and lastly, those that, no matter what know what they are buying will fit for a long time.
In the several conversations I have had with men on here, I feel like the shopper at a Super Department Store. For the men, it is more like a boutique, wherein the sales ladies are a little snotty and may not let them in the door. (So, for the ladies, keep this in mind... more men approach us than we them...... ) I have choices and I know that. I also know I am worthy of the best. I am lucky, and I know that, and I do try not to take advantage of it. We women are the items that they are browsing. If we don't present something that they will want to keep, if the fabric is not of the right fiber and strength, or if the fit is too lose or tight or shrinks after the first wash, then they will certainly not want to keep us.
Luckily, this is a two way street.... we both have the option of not starting or stopping something (not the word settling) until you find someone who you think makes you happy, and you the other (for whatever agreed upon purpose). Is that settling? I think of it as more like starting, because isn't that what you want? To start a great thing in your life? So, whether men or women are ready to start is more appropriate. Whether you are ready and open to what the other person is ready and open is another obstacle, but it does happen, and that is why we are on here, I think - or at least hope.
Yes, there are the great misrepresenters - I have met a few and have been sucked it to the whirlwind of OMG, this really could be IT, to be slammed when I woke up... but if I had not had that experience, then I would not be able to stop the next. But, I too have hope and confidence that not all men and women are like this - I certainly do not think this is gender based. If I have to go through some of these things to risk finding someone who fits perfectly, I will take my chances, but I try to do intelligently, within my own rules - luckily we all have that right.
We all know that whether you want a FWB, swinger, long-term or activity partner, there are people on here who want the same thing - the rest of it is fit - that is the hardest part - finding the perfect fit.
I am looking to start something wonderful thats a dual perfect fit. I would gladly settle up for that. | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down?
Posted: 5/30/2008 10:12:29 PM | ^^^ Very well put lookingfor1inamillion!! I like the moniker you chose for your screen name, it should tell folks why your here.
I believe Sturdivent asked the question "how do you define settle". Ask ten people that question, you'll get ten different variations that somehow eventually will lead to the same thing. Our approach in the "settling down" process defines the sort of relationship that satisfies our heart or need. You go through a sea of meetings, dates, or POF get togethers to find that one person that might walk the same path we want to travel. You may be looking for some time in some cases, depends on how picky you are.
I know many folks that wished they were pickier. I have a friend, that was once on POF, declare to me as we ate dinner, that "Our pickers are broke"! I think they still are, that was last year sometime when she said that.....Hehehehehe!!
I am hopeful that I will find the one that will settle down my desire to keep looking.
~Sneaks | |
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| Where are the Georgia guys that are ready to settle down?
Posted: 5/31/2008 8:10:09 AM | As many have said... not ready to 'settle'...but, as Sneaks has said in his last sentence..and it's so nice to hear....
"I am hopeful that I will find the one that will settle down my desire to keep looking."
And I might add...am still hopeful!
~Lowadee | |
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