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 RedDeerGuys
Joined: 4/12/2005
Msg: 26
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If i am with the one I love, I am home. Distance means nothing when you are together, and thats how I like to look at it. Distance only gets you down because you can't be there now, where they are is where your heart is, and until you get there, a peice is missing.
SO I guess, I wouldn't have to go anywhere for love, when my heart is always with them anyways. But distance wise? probably go so far that it'd make more sense to just turn around.
 courage3000
Joined: 2/15/2005
Msg: 27
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/20/2005 3:57:27 PM
I WILL FIGHT CANSERVERUS AND WILL BRING HER FROM THE DEPTHS OF DEATH
 travelguy69
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 28
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/20/2005 6:18:20 PM
14 years ago i flew all the way to england on a hunch and ended up marrying the girl. unfortunately it did not work out and i am out looking again. i think now that i have a daughter i would like to find it more locally. i am maybe a bit dumb but i have no idea what a soulmate is or looks like. i hear it often and women post it on their requirement list . i guess if i was i would know.
i think i would rather travel to the ends of the earth with the right one rather than to look for that one.
 Pecaminoso
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 29
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/20/2005 8:07:18 PM
I'd meet her half way. That way I would be sure she loved me as much as I loved her.
 HollyBerry
Joined: 7/8/2005
Msg: 30
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/20/2005 9:40:34 PM
1292 miles and not a mile ova that
 CROSSFADE
Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 31
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/20/2005 9:41:33 PM
Ditto to what she said!!! (Arms crossed in defiance!!)
 UrDreamGuy
Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 32
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 5:13:18 AM
For Me distance isnt a problem

she can live 200 or more miles away even live in another country

There is Somebody Out there For Everybody for those Who Don't Give up Hope
Finding there Other Half

Your not ever gonna find a Soulmate at a NightClub
Your Looking for a One Night Stand

Not Me...Long Term Relationship all the Way With Relocation or Her Coming to stay with Me...

 HollyBerry
Joined: 7/8/2005
Msg: 33
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 5:31:10 AM
atta boy positive!!
 babygirl_101
Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 34
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 1:11:31 PM
but my ? to every one is if i act on a stong connection with this guy should i go and see if there is really something potental there or should i not go because i was hurt bad in the past and havent dated in a while and i really like him we talk all the time well should i go to hawii for him and see if he could be the one besides he is payin to get me there lol well lemme know what u guys think i should do
 HollyBerry
Joined: 7/8/2005
Msg: 35
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 2:15:17 PM
babygirl.. being hurt is part of the process.. theres not a single person out there that has not felt pain from a failed relationship or a love that didnt' happen. Although its not healthy to rebound into something until you have healed from the previous, meeting other people IS the only way to find your mate..
sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince

First off, be SAFE.. make sure you know this person is ok.. second.. he's paying for your trip, but still set some guidelines.. get your own hotel so that if your not comfortable, or he is not what you expected your not stranded in a foreign place.
go with your heart.. but.. go open to this possibly not working.. if it doesnt work out, you have a great story to tell of how you flew to hawaii in search of true love.
 ourmanflint
Joined: 6/6/2004
Msg: 36
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 2:48:22 PM
I've had a change of heart.....

I'd certainly go as far as Justified, Texas!!!!


 random4
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 37
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 3:04:54 PM
I would go 24,000 miles in any direction, just to avoid traffic.

I would go wherever the woman was who I wanted to meet. It would be a good motorcycle ride.
 babygirl_101
Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 38
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 3:13:19 PM
yeah i guess i would huh i would come back and let u guys know how it went the thing that scares me is the fear of the unkown but i guess that is what keeps us all going but its been 2/1/2 yrs for me i think its time well thaks seasonal and i hope that things go well but he already knows there is gonna be boundaries and he is ok with it plus if i was there alone it wouldnt bother me because i think hawii is paridise so yeah but i still wanna come home alive
well thanks
write back
 samvegs
Joined: 5/6/2005
Msg: 39
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 3:21:59 PM
I'm an independent and career focussed guy; but, I have to admit that I do get lonely. After loosing my first love, I have to admit that I miss it.
In response to the question, guys do get lonely and scared. Some are just really good at hiding it.
 hac3011
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 40
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 3:23:46 PM
I would go just as far as I need to! What is miles when you want to be with someone. I think too many people lose out on someone special because they feel they live to far away. Love is worth travelling any amount of miles, even if the love is not forever, it is worth it!
 random4
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 41
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 3:25:38 PM
I wouldn't go to an island unless I was sure I could get back off if I wanted. If the guy is going to be in control of your air fare or other expenses, don't go unless he sends the money up front and you have control over it. Also, have him checked out, and make sure he is above board. Youy don't want to end up chained to a wall in a basement someplace.
 hac3011
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 42
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 3:35:53 PM
Jeesh Random! Not a whole lot of romance in those bones is there?
 random4
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 43
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 3:47:30 PM
romance is fine, being safe is important

Let's see, is there any reason at all a young woman might want to check things out before putting herself under the control of a stranger in unfamiliar surroundings? Nope, I guess you're right. She should hitch hike to the airport, too. And who needs condoms, they only spoil the mood.

You are in school for something...what was it again?
 3karat
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 5/21/2005 4:47:09 PM
As a single mom, I would never ever put myself in a position that a stranger had control of the situation.

I would agree to meet someone half way in a public place. As long as I have my vehicle and my money to get me out of there if I so wanted then things would be ok.

I do however check out the people I'm talking to so that I can make sure that I'm safe. I'm all my boys have. If that makes a guy uncomfortable then he's not the right guy for me.

If he understands why I'm doing it, then he is worth dating.

Karat
 hac3011
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 45
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 4:57:12 PM
WHOA! First of all, the topic is how far would you go for love. When you are in love with someone you are established with them in every way! So, if I were in love with someone and moving was necessary to be with that person, I was saying I would do it. Where you have to be cautious is when you are first meeting the person, especially if you have met them online. I have a set of "rules" I follow when meeting someone online. I have yet to have any problems. I may be just lucky and have met genuine people so far, but I am perfectly aware of what could and can happen. Every situation is different, and as much as I would love to run my life by my heart, that is not possible. Yes, I have a brain and do know how to use it. Oh by the way, I am a criminal psychology major.
 CEC93013
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 46
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/21/2005 5:07:59 PM
I have always been alone,so I never get lonely and I fear nothing...

Even the whole world is not enough to please just one woman,so why try???

It is said that I live in paradise and that all the beautiful people in the world come here...


So I will just stay here and wait for them...
 babygirl_101
Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 47
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:28:41 AM
ok here we go lol
well i am kinda scared now because i really like this guy and he used to call every night and now he says he is gonna call so i wait by the phone for his call and it never comes and soi decide to call him and ask why he didnt call an he says sory i forgot and i would ask what he is doin and he sys drinkin with some old friends and he hasnt had time toi get to call me and i hear a females voice in the back ground and i dont know if he is doin somethin wth them so i hurry up and get of the phone because i dont wanna bothr him but to me it dosent seem lkke a relationship ne more what should i do aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh write back i need all the help i can get
 misfit
Joined: 2/11/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 5/23/2005 11:45:30 AM
nofx-whatever dide wants.
I wouldn't walk five hundred miles when I could fly coach but all most anything.
I wouldn't swim across the nile cause I coiuld get a moebic dysentary

cause iof there is anything you want I want
I will probally get it
tell me what you need
and I will try not to forget it
you need someone to blame I said I said it
cause what ever didi wants shes going to get it

I wouldn't climb the highest mountain when I could get a blister but al most anything
I wouldn't thrown coins in the fountain that I could be useing for a phone call

theres more too it but I don't feel like typing it I just thought this would be a good song for this thread too. AND NOFX IS ****ING A GREaT AWSOME ROCK BAND BUY THIER ALBUMS IF YOU DON"T OWN ONE ALL READY.
 SmartAlec
Joined: 2/8/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 5/23/2005 12:12:31 PM
Travelguy69- wow a hunch and you went to england? Huge hunch?
 CPOsteve
Joined: 12/9/2004
Msg: 50
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR LOVE
Posted: 5/23/2005 12:32:17 PM
At least 1/2 way, sounds fair to me.
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