| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/28/2007 12:38:48 AM | My thoughts on anal sex are as follows:
If a girl wont take it up the butt while doing my laundry, cooking me dinner, and bringing me my slippers.... she simply does not love me enough.
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/28/2007 2:25:08 AM | IMO:
a) Do you enjoy it equal to, less than, or more than vaginal intercourse?
I am very liberal but my reply is: Less, much less, and I find it literally "dirty" and potentially very DANGEROUS in this era, plsu this body part is not IMO a sex organ, its use is very specific and non sexual. Doggy is way better in that "in your back" department, IMO!
b) How do u percieve a woman who enjoys it?
Not sure. As "anally minded" or "anal" maybe? And healthwise, very high risk?
Hetero anal used to be "big" when/where virginity was a marrital "asset for women. .
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/28/2007 7:26:14 AM | Lets see,....My ex loved Anal sex,....as for the sensation,....it was a little tighter,..other than that ,..it was pretty much the same. I think it was just a little bit better because of the Tabboo facter.
But i have said the before ,...and i will say it again,....why would you stick your d-ick in a a$$,...when heaven is just a few inches away. | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/28/2007 7:53:43 AM | | Anal is nice for variety and I perceive a woman that enjoys it as being a woman that enjoys variety just as I do. | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/28/2007 11:22:53 AM | Gunner, get some facts before you break people up.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hepatitis_A
At 21, you hardly know how to behave socially, never mind about medical factors unless your an MD or a trained paramedic or RN | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/28/2007 11:30:19 AM | | Women catch Urinal Infections merely by wiping themselves the wrong way (front to back). So need I add more re the hygenic aspects of "anal"? The anus is not a sex organ IMO. Especially since as a prev poster pointed out, "heaven" is there, next to the anus!!!! lol lol Not into sheep either. | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/28/2007 7:13:29 PM | At 21, you hardly know how to behave socially, never mind about medical factors unless your an MD or a trained paramedic or RN
can I get a courteous wipe here....sheesh..
stop being so tense... and loosen up a little , I may not know how to behave socially but I know it still poses risk that may be involved.
as far as breaking people up? any one who breaks up over reading some thing on the Internet shouldn't be dating in the first place. | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/28/2007 8:40:34 PM | | Call me old fashion but I like the V.. And don’t care for the A.. really have no interest in the A.. | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/28/2007 10:16:12 PM |
Do you enjoy it equal to, less than, or more than vaginal intercourse?
Less than, yet so nice to fantasize about. Mmmmmmmm.
How do u percieve a woman who enjoys it?
Mine! Mine! Mine! | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/29/2007 2:56:16 PM | | I knew a woman who preferred anal and she said that was the only way she orgasmed. I never got with her so wouldnt know for sure but what ever floats your boat | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/29/2007 3:28:46 PM | As I woman I love anal sex. For whatever reason, I am able to orgasm 10 times easier and ejaculate during anal sex. With vaginal sex there is very little sensation. (I think that is the way it is meant to be because that area of the body is used for the most painful thing ever, child birth!) Problem is there isnt alot of guys who know how to do it probably so I have to teach them. So I guess I could use this opportunity to disseminate what I have learned.
Take a shower before hand, both men and women. Cleanliness is a must!
Use plenty of lubrication! The anus doesn't naturally get wet like a vagina.
User small dildos and viberators first. It can help the woman relax.
Take it slow and be patience.
And I think that trust is really important and will make the experience more intimate.
Do I think women who have anal sex are dirty, immoral or easy. No I don't they just have different tastes. | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/29/2007 4:34:01 PM | Which is enjoyed more or less? Unfortunately that was not a time for contemplating or scoring. On reflection I would have to say the cold part of the bed gets bigger if anal is included. And I do mean included.
There was an earlier question of will she need or something like the vaginal looked after at same time.
Give your head a shake. You are behind but your arms are not strapped down,or perhaps they are. Never waste an opportunity to explore your partners body. You can have little shivers playing with the back use your head, or open your mouth  after your scream, enjoy, let go of the bedsheets you will not fall off, reach around, find something you like??
Comments that the dogie position gives the male control over rhythm and pace apply here as well. Use that and yes when your partner does climax.  It is different but if you are thinking of going home in an hour forget it. Need to take your time. | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/29/2007 4:59:29 PM |
Give your head a shake. You are behind but your arms...
Learn to read, bud... I was suggesting it might lead to her wanting to try more than one partner at a time...
Of all the posts in this thread, yours is the only one that creeps me out man... | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/29/2007 5:15:37 PM | | uh...ehem...op...let me put this in very simple english if SHE likes it..more power to her...but me and self just asked "winky"...and he said no way in hell was he goin up the poop shut...he said its a one way exit...........and its too dark(he gets scared of the dark, I have to leave him a night light on) | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/29/2007 6:40:07 PM | 1. I like it more, but not as often.
2. I've known several woman who enjoyed it. I rated these women the best lovers I've known. But not strictly for this reason--they had other outstanding talents. | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/29/2007 7:11:06 PM | | I've been with several women who enjoyed anal sex,including my current Gf who has very intense orgasms from it. Remember that doggy style is not the only position that anal sex can de done in. We use a variant of the missionary position so we can hold one another and kiss all the while. It's a different feeling,hard to describe. Usually a bit tighter and more stimulating. As other posters have said,the key is lots of lubricant and preparation. | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/29/2007 10:13:06 PM |
If a girl wont take it up the butt while doing my laundry, cooking me dinner, and bringing me my slippers.... she simply does not love me enough.
LOFL!.... you are gonna be single for a long, long, long, time!
I don't think "they" will get your sense of humor tho......you are joking, right? ...lol! | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/30/2007 2:46:26 AM | Well I believe both good as it is a mutual idea something that is given is so much better than taken ................... | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 9/30/2007 4:36:30 AM | I enjoy it less than vaginal intercourse (vaginal is more intimate, I like looking into my lover's eyes and at her face)
A woman that enjoys it, my perception is no different.
I only do 'anal' for the woman, not for me. How could I care about someone, love them and not give them what feels good. So if they want it, they are going to get it.
If a woman did 'not' want anal, I would not miss it.
Hep C is more prevalent than AIDs, so I have heard. A tear in an Anal fissure is a 'blood' source therefore infection is more likely.
The new up and coming field in plastic surgery is Anal Replacements.
Evidently the spinchter does not tighten up after time the way the vagina does, so adult diapers are in your future if this is the only way you do it! | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 10/2/2007 5:51:31 PM | I would like to say for the woman that don't like it....more than likely your partner was not doing it properly. You need to prep it before you just dive into it. Learn about it and teach your partner how to properly prep it and I promise you will enjoy it.
I perceive it as NASTY....... | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 10/2/2007 6:39:17 PM | I enjoy vaginal intercourse more. It's more intimate in my view, because it doesn't require the lubes and condoms and cleaning up afterward that anal entails.
A woman who enjoys it would seem a bit naughty to me, but in a good way. | |
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| Anal..Percieved as...???
Posted: 10/2/2007 7:47:41 PM | It's hard for me to answer this question as you are addressing just the physical aspects of it. There are far more mental aspects of it that are more condusive. It's a bit naughty and she can have the best orgasms of her life if the mental aspects are there.
Do I like it more than vaginal intercourse? They are not a comparable magnitude. Apples to oranges. | |
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