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 hardngood

Joined: 2/22/2007
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Posted: 10/2/2007 8:24:27 PM
the main reason that ladies enjoy anal sex is due to the posterial fornix being stimulated via the rectum...any man with some knowledge and skill can pleasure a lady with his framazama by stimulating the posterial fornix!! and this is done by vaginal intercourse!! Having anal sex with a lady is actually stimulating the posterial fornix from the back side instead of "going deep" and just to the bottom!!
 Ravenstar66

Joined: 8/27/2007
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Posted: 10/2/2007 8:33:02 PM
Anal..Percieved as...???

a pain in the @ss

Come on people you're slipping!!!!

This calls for a dancing pickle! or banana, whatever this thing is
 franksfurter

Joined: 5/10/2007
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Posted: 10/3/2007 12:01:43 AM
the feeling for me it quite sensational..although my priority lies with the receiver, as they are trusting me with a some what coverted area of their anatomy. it is an area that requires preperation and training iff you are to realise its full potential. my perseption of a woman that desires anal stimulation is one of respect and complete trust towards myself and my abillity to deliver the required penetration.....
 nineteenthhole69

Joined: 6/22/2007
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Posted: 10/8/2007 6:17:30 AM
The older I get, the more I enjoy anal intercourse.

I love to start with vaginal intercourse after much foreplay which also includes playing with my mates anus. . .getting her good and hot and well lubbed. . .after we have an orgasm via vaginal intercourse, and we are still "hot", that's when anal intercourse seems to be the best. . .a man is usually about 85 percent as big a few minutes after he has come the first time which makes it more comfortable for the woman. . .and she has had a great vaginal orgasm. . .and now ready to anal play. . .

As far as the difference in feeling. . .I like it for a couple of reasons. . .it is "tighter" than the vagina, so naturally it feels really good to a man. . .and in addition, even though there are many positions that you can have anal intercourse, I enjoy entering from the back because I love the view. . .watching my****go in and out of her anus is very erotic. . .I also enjoy her being on top where we can both play with her clit at the same time. . .most of the time, she experiences a clitoral orgasm as well.

Remember, good communication is a key and a must. . .both parties need to agree and look forward to the experience. . .and it becomes a great addition to your sexual experiences.

nineteenthhole69@hotmail.com
 rjstanly

Joined: 5/27/2007
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Posted: 10/9/2007 1:00:35 PM
The sensation is very different and much more intense to me. It takes a lot of foreplay, patience and good lube for a woman to be ready. While oral can be very intense, especially when a woman really enjoys giving it to completion, there's something very exciting about slipping the head of my little fellow past the sphincter. That area of the womans body is very hot too. Its a combination of the brain and the tightness of the sensation. After all, the brain is the biggest sex organ. When I was much younger, I had committed relationships with women that loved anal and I think it was because of the worry about birth control. With anal, they could have penetration without pregnancy and the orgasms too. Me, I liked not having the worry about missed periods. (remember, this was the 70's) Anyhow, hetero anal is like a taboo thing thats "naughty". When a woman is properly warmed up physically and psychologically, she can experiance very intense orgasms when clitorally stimulated at the same time. To finish, I find it very special when a woman offers her behind to me. I take it as a sign of lust and trust thats not to be abused (:
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 10/9/2007 1:08:28 PM
Variety is the spice of life. I've known women that loved it, but again if that is all you do it gets old, but if you work it into the variety of things you do it will work well.
 Earl425

Joined: 9/21/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 10/9/2007 1:09:09 PM
I wouldn't want her. Anal sex is unclean and unhealthy, it is bad for both. And upon rentry to the vagina can cause numerous infectous disorders.

As most of us should have been taught as children.

"Don't play with poop"
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 10/9/2007 2:43:07 PM
Dude, what you do is know the rules to go anal. First of all, plenty of lubrication, second, once back there you can't go back unless you wash, and unless in a long long relationship, wear a condom, in which case rather than wash, just get another condom.
 _MichaelAngelo

Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 10/11/2007 4:01:56 PM
Do you enjoy it equal to, less than, or more than vaginal intercourse?
neither - it's just different

How do u percieve a woman who enjoys it?
that she enjoys it. everyone enjoys different things

Until I read this, I didn't realise there was any stigma attached to women and anal sex. Just that some women liked it and others didn't.
 vladtepes97

Joined: 8/14/2007
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Posted: 10/13/2007 5:22:30 PM

As I woman I love anal sex. For whatever reason, I am able to orgasm 10 times easier and ejaculate during anal sex.


that's not ejaculation! you just had an enema!
 droptop68

Joined: 8/27/2007
Msg: 61
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Posted: 10/13/2007 7:31:26 PM
It is a different sensation. Hard to explain it is just different. I have heard from women it is a different sensation also. Some say it is a stronger "big O". I like it about the same, I guess it is just a mood thing. I like being able to have the variation so I would rather be in a LTR with someone who enjoys it over someone who didn't but it is not a deal breaker either. More to a relationship than anal sex :)
 creamattop

Joined: 9/8/2007
Msg: 62
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Posted: 10/16/2007 4:26:54 PM
Let's ask the guys if they would like it done to them. I say "you first"- same size, same intensity, etc. I have tried it, ex bf was obsessed with it- probably the taboo aspect. I think he is the one who secretly enjoyed being sodomized- if a woman supposedly loves it, why wouldn't a guy? I didn't like it, it didn't do a thing for me. I did ask my gyn about it, he said that part of the body was not designed for sexual intercourse, and that there may be links associated with rectal cancer that are now being proven. Additionally, the comment about the spincter makes sense...stretch it and abuse it, and you may just lose it (oops!) Someone who isn't careful can contamine the vagina and cause a serious infection- taking all into consideration, the lack of true pleasure (just pain, and many people think pain is pleasure), along with the hassle, just not worth it. As I said, if you are a guy who wants to do it to a woman, take it yourself just to show how "cool" it is. You have an anus too.
 Heather_m.g

Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 63
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Posted: 10/16/2007 4:41:58 PM
ive never had anal sex b4 b/c from what ive heard its quite painful

my philosophy has always been "from the back but not through the back" lol

but id like to hear from you guys whats so great about it and if you like girls who are more into it
 bustybabe83

Joined: 9/8/2007
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Posted: 10/20/2007 5:54:15 PM
Anal sex is great, I often enjoy it more then vaginal penetration but all depends on the guy. Anal sex can be terrible plain and shitty (no literal pun intended) especially if he hasn't done it before and tries to hard
 bustybabe83

Joined: 9/8/2007
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Posted: 10/20/2007 5:57:10 PM
Droptop68, it is stronger because it awakens nerve endings you couldn't otherwise reach, at least in my experience.
 bustybabe83

Joined: 9/8/2007
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Posted: 10/20/2007 5:59:10 PM
creamattop you're exactly right about guys like butt play.. the best is when you seduce a guy into doing it that hasn't tried it and then he becomes addicted and its your special secret. As for anal sex and increased cancer risks, that's Christian scare mongering.
 plenty of tiger

Joined: 6/1/2007
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Posted: 10/21/2007 4:18:52 AM
I for one enjoy anal sex and if your woman enjoys anal sex and is looking for double penetration you do not need another man a toy works just as well. If you have her on her back during anal you can control the use of the toy or she can. Orgasms can be had from both the vaginal and anal walls so if you fill both at the same time your gal can have very intense orgasms. Lubrication and time to relax your gal will make anal more exciting for both of you. Using a condom even when you are in a trusted relationship is always good because then you don't need to shower or wash inbetween sessions(although I recommend it anyway) Never ever go from anal to vaginal without using a condom or you will cause an infection.
Perception of a gal who does anal? That she is in touch with her sexuality and knows what she likes.
 Daves-an-RN

Joined: 7/15/2007
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Posted: 10/21/2007 1:31:17 PM

...and all this time I've been working on being a good person-good mom-pretty-funny-successful-sweet-good cook etc...and that's all it takes???..



YEP, thats about it.

If we want to get something to eat we can go out,

if we want someone to be nice to us we can go to mom's house,

if we want to see something pretty we can go walk around a store,

if we want anal, and find someone who likes it ............... we keep her.

 neaseysis

Joined: 10/6/2007
Msg: 69
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Posted: 10/21/2007 3:59:47 PM
Well, studying A&P to become an RN right now, and just the other day the instructor said, "The rectum was not designed as a receptacle." The lining is much too thin to withstand the thrusting. It also is very absorbent, taking up water in the feces that is waiting for exit. Hmm, a nasty situation all around. Besides which, if I have a feeling of fullness back there, I think I need to go potty. A man with skills can deliver a very satisfying O without having to fill up extra orifices.
 beav0901dm

Joined: 10/16/2007
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Posted: 10/21/2007 5:51:51 PM
like you said, answers will vary but i feel that i should post my opinion in this matter because i get asked this a lot by my friends

personally i believe that anal sex is just wrong and downright disgusting

think about it, having sex is a display of affection towards your significant other i mean sure you can find new ways of having sex but putting it into her pooper isn't romantic at all

in regards to it being disgusting, stop and realize that hole is where fecal matter exits i don't know about everyone else but i don't want my penis touching any area where there's a guarantee that poop once was
 LivingByBeats

Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 71
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Posted: 10/21/2007 7:08:20 PM
it depends on the woman whether i enjoy it more than or less than. Every person is different for me.

If a woman enjoys it? awesome!!!!! the entire point is mutual satisfaction isn't it?

I'm orgasm driven, meaning that I don't and can't be satisfied unless i can drive her crazy and it is practically a mission for me to make sure she has at least 1 orgasm and let me tell you .... some girls are more difficult than others, no matter what the method, be it oral, anal or vaginal...

 LivingByBeats

Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 72
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Posted: 10/21/2007 7:09:45 PM
it depends on the woman whether i enjoy it more than or less than. Every person is different for me.

If a woman enjoys it? awesome!!!!! the entire point is mutual satisfaction isn't it?
though if she doesn't enjoy it, then well.. .it isn't going to happen is it? though most of the women i've been with have brought up the topic and encouraged the act.. so i've been lucky? yeah.. i guess :)

I'm orgasm driven, meaning that I don't and can't be satisfied unless i can drive her crazy and it is practically a mission for me to make sure she has at least 1 orgasm and let me tell you .... some girls are more difficult than others, no matter what the method, be it oral, anal or vaginal...

 jimi77

Joined: 7/13/2004
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Posted: 10/21/2007 7:17:12 PM
I personaly don't agree with it.. I know the pros and cons of it but to me its just not right.. it's a moral thing with me.. I wouldent cast a good woman aside for it but it's just not my thing..
 Bethlet

Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 74
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Posted: 10/21/2007 7:40:58 PM
Ok...since this is such a wonderful opportunity to openly discuss the beauty of anal...

Am I the only chick who, after any sort of anal probing of any sort, IMMEDIATELY gets diarrhea?

Yeah, I mean we are talking EXORCIST kinda flying axhandles.....

You know...sort of like taking your finger out of the hole in the dam?

Me and the Dutchboy...

The Explosive Cherries?
 100prcntMe

Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 10/21/2007 9:48:54 PM
If the woman is game for it, so am I.

Nothing like variety.
The sensations are completely different, however I love them both.

I have been with women who like anal and those who don't. I don't perceive a woman any differently if she is not a fan of it, or even completely opposed to it. Sex, whether anal or vaginal is supposed to be a mutual pleasure... whatever pleasures her... is my preference.
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