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 100prcntMe

Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 10/21/2007 9:48:54 PM
If the woman is game for it, so am I.

Nothing like variety.
The sensations are completely different, however I love them both.

I have been with women who like anal and those who don't. I don't perceive a woman any differently if she is not a fan of it, or even completely opposed to it. Sex, whether anal or vaginal is supposed to be a mutual pleasure... whatever pleasures her... is my preference.
 LivingByBeats

Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 76
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Posted: 10/21/2007 10:25:51 PM
in a word? enema... have a good little herbal flush for you and him :)

and well from my point of view? flavoring it with strawberries or something wouldn't hurt either...
 Chivo_diablo

Joined: 7/25/2007
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Posted: 10/21/2007 10:26:29 PM
Depending on the woman I can like it less than vaginal, equal to or way more. It's not so much the sensation for me as the reaction. I have been with women who cum so hard they cry when having anal and thats pretty hot to make someone cum that hard. I've had it happen with vaginal as well but far more often with anal. Yeah if she is into it alot I will be too. What do I think about the ones who love it? I think they are HOT.
 hello fromPA.

Joined: 8/30/2007
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Posted: 11/1/2007 1:26:09 PM
my girl friend did me with a dildo. I liked it.
 Imperturbable

Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 79
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Posted: 11/1/2007 1:45:30 PM

Do you enjoy it equal to, less than, or more than vaginal intercourse?
How do u percieve a woman who enjoys it?


Since it's more rare to get the anal, I would say I enjoy it more. However, if the opportunities were all equal, I would say oral is the most pleasurable, if you have a partner who knows what she's doing.

As for question #2, a woman who enjoys anal is likely more open sexually, which is always a good thing. Sex with the repressed is like going for ice cream in January - yeah, it's still nice, but it could be so much better.
 lilfurthernorth

Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 80
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Posted: 3/15/2008 5:44:43 AM
That is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard of.
Any man who wants to do that is gay.
any woman who wants to do that is sick and mentally disturbed.

I thought "anal" was a sick "joke" nothing more-
holey smokes it's real people really are sick.
what freaking water u been drinking
Brad Pitt is hot- but if I heard he tried that crap- I would not be able to watch another of his movies.

I could vomit.
The idea that it would even cross someone mind is so unbelievable.
What???????????? gross out




 laughinglibra

Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 81
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Posted: 3/15/2008 6:14:32 AM

That is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard of.
Any man who wants to do that is gay.
any woman who wants to do that is sick and mentally disturbed.


First off.... "I'm a happy, outgoing upbeat soul, a bit quirky and silly but mostly good natured. " That is what you state in your profile, but wow... you sure aren't when it comes to this topic! Relax and don't be so judgemental.

A man is only gay if he likes giving and receiving anal from another man and I've never heard of a woman enjoying anal as a symptom of any mental disorder.

You obviously did a thread search on the topic since you have posted in another thread about anal sex. Methinks you attack it so venomously for a reason other than disgust and scorn at those that do enjoy it.... possibly disgust and scorn at yourself for being curious about it? Hmmmmm....


 ohdriver

Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 82
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Posted: 3/15/2008 8:49:47 AM
ha - libra makes me laughing

Imperturbable said it (Msg: 79) … “a woman who enjoys anal is likely more open sexually, which is always a good thing.” And hey, I’m no Elizabeth Hay (or Sigmund Freud), but there’s a reason we refer to folks who are controlling as tight-assed! In my experience, women who enjoyed it were more relaxed than those who wouldn’t go there. Goes for men too.
As for sensation - not better or worse, just different. Can be vastly different psychologically, specially for her. And not necessarily tighter either. That's a misconception.
 lpeavlerLPN

Joined: 1/30/2008
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Posted: 3/15/2008 9:00:39 AM
Wear a condom!!! Safe sex is better than no sex!
 ohdriver

Joined: 12/26/2007
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Posted: 3/15/2008 10:58:28 AM
(Msg: 82 … I meant Louise Hay. It's been that long…)
 Kazot

Joined: 8/11/2007
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Posted: 3/15/2008 1:20:22 PM

Do you enjoy it equal to, less than, or more than vaginal intercourse?

Yes, all of the above depending on the situation.

How do u percieve a woman who enjoys it?

I won't continue to be with a woman who doesn't enjoy it.
To inhibited for my tastes.
 Dr S J K

Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 86
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Posted: 3/21/2008 8:31:04 PM
Well said laughinglibra.

I like anal sex because I like it when she clinches her butthole when she cums...and you get to hold on to her boobs while doing it...double bonus!
 ~Scoundrel~

Joined: 10/1/2006
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Posted: 3/21/2008 8:37:09 PM
I do not judge anyone about what they like in the sack. However, anel is not my thing. I don't want to put my fav body part in there. No thank you very much.
 NERO1

Joined: 3/8/2008
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Posted: 3/21/2008 8:41:12 PM
OP, IMO it is overrated. I prefer the "regular" way better........hard to really explain but once you're doing it it kind of just "feels" easier and more like what Nature sort of intended, so to speak. It's not like the other one can't be fun from time to time if you are w/someone who's into it or at least willing , but I don't know that I'd really go looking for it..... as for what to think of a woman who's really into it? I might think she's a little kinky, or "freaky" or whatever you want to call it, but that's about it. And that's not a bad thing!
 DakotaRx

Joined: 10/4/2006
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Posted: 3/23/2008 9:43:26 AM
it dpends its all good..i think that just the thought of a woman being open to it and liking it is a turn on to me..
 craig james

Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 90
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Posted: 3/23/2008 12:26:00 PM
well now...yet another swinging dic enters the forum...
 RedCassandra

Joined: 10/9/2007
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Posted: 3/23/2008 12:46:27 PM

You obviously did a thread search on the topic since you have posted in another thread about anal sex. Methinks you attack it so venomously for a reason other than disgust and scorn at those that do enjoy it.... possibly disgust and scorn at yourself for being curious about it? Hmmmmm....




laughinglibra,
He closed his account... you scared him away (or turned gay).
Damn it, woman. You have to stop doing that.
It's already hard to find a man as it is,
and you keep turning them sub/gay/scared lil bunnies.

Though, it's a form of filtering I suppose.

As to the original question(s):
Nope.

 Ask Me Anything

Joined: 3/29/2007
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Posted: 3/23/2008 6:39:38 PM
Here is my honest answer..

There my be a slight difference in the way it feels to me but it isn't enough to have a solid preference...

If she reaches significant plateaus with anal, I'm perfectly willing to keep her rocking all night long... Whichever makes her go crazy is fine with me.
 TLC_

Joined: 1/26/2008
Msg: 93
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Posted: 3/23/2008 8:07:49 PM
i find anal disgusting, evolution (or God) did not design the mail penis to be inserted into a females bum…. or another blokes bum if they are queers
 hydrogen

Joined: 2/22/2007
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Posted: 3/23/2008 8:29:13 PM
I enjoy it less than vaginal intercourse.
I'd love the woman more if she enjoys it in addition to vaginal sex. If she only enjoy anal sex not vaginal sex, she's not for me.
 fave21

Joined: 7/26/2007
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Posted: 3/23/2008 8:37:35 PM
cool thread. I have had anal on and off with trusted, caring partners for years. Protected by condoms. clean. loving and tender. I have introduced 3 male lovers to anal.... They thoroughly enjoyed it!! I gave the dildo to my ex bf at his request so he could pleasure himself after we split. He still does. Stigma? have never believed in it; see it as a challenge to learn.
It rapidly increased my turn-on factor for great orgasms. Respectfully, each to their own.
 lonestardaddy

Joined: 11/18/2006
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Posted: 3/23/2008 9:19:35 PM
sexy, Ain't been there, done that, nor have I been invited to try. Don't need to be either, but if I truly loved and respected a woman w/ such experience and/or ...inclinations, besides all those others that I value for her contribution to our "greater us", I'd do my best to make her happy.

This includes my not asking to be 'invited to a party' that she doesn't care to throw . If she does ...and I've got to side w/ a previous poster for not caring to see another hard-on be her next 'logical' step, I'd do my best to satisfy as directed. Anal sex? It's a preference, but not mine or my SO's. Good luck w/ your ISO.
 christi66

Joined: 4/17/2007
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Posted: 3/23/2008 9:23:15 PM
I must admit I have had some awesome sex when a guy has bent me over pulled my hair pulled out of my vagina and slide in hmmmmmm great orgasm !
 Greg8002

Joined: 3/11/2008
Msg: 98
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Posted: 3/24/2008 2:28:57 AM
I don't think I could ever engage in this sort of sexual activity.
 Justn_Otherguy

Joined: 3/16/2008
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Posted: 3/26/2008 4:19:18 AM
To each their own. If the world was full of identical people with identical interests it would be a much duller place.

I find it to be a huge turn on, but only if she's also in to it. Since it's been difficult for me to find someone that also enjoys it as much as I do, at the moment I'd probably enjoy it more than vaginal intercourse. Getting it on a regular basis, I'd most likely enjoy it equally as much as vaginal.

I see women that enjoy anal sex as sexually confident, open minded people who have learned that it can be the source of much pleasure if the right precautions are taken. I also find them incredibly erotic and if I'm lucky enough to find one I hope we can live happily ever after together.
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