| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 9/29/2007 6:31:30 PM | | maybe he is already bored.... just giving someone sex isnt enought to keep him wanting you... seduction is a big factor too. or maybe he isnt ready to get tied up to one person but like i said if you dress up nicely and do all those nice things woman do and keep him hypnotized then it might keep him. | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 9/30/2007 8:46:59 AM | | Any guy who is getting all he needs at home and still goes out and cheats is just a dog. Guys who are cut off or rarely get sex from their mate still shouldnt cheat but should end the relationship and move on. If I found someone who never or hardly ever said no to me I would be loyal and would try to make her life happy and devote myself to her. I just got out of a marriage where the sex was rare but I stayed loyal. Many times I would get angry and feel that I should or I had the right to cheat, however I didnt and I feel better that I didnt | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 10/10/2008 12:50:00 AM | | Some do, and some don't. The Boton Strangler: masurbated 10 to 12 times per day, AND screwed 3, or 4 female hookers per day, AND got head from half a dozen gay males per day, AND still was horny enough to go on the occasional sex slaying as well. I doubt that you know anyone quite that bad. Some guys are just greedy, and want as much as they can get. If you aren't enough for your guy, dump him. | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 10/10/2008 4:55:07 AM |
and for the record cheating is very realy about just the sex.
For you.
But the standard, accepted definition by clinicians, counselors and legal representatives is that "cheating" is doing something that you would not do with your partner standing right there next to you. It can be emotional cheating (plenty of affairs are "EA" style affairs, no sex involved), or one-night stands (obviously sex involved), or meeting someone out for drinks after your partner goes to bed and not having sex with them at all.
Cheating is not about sex; it's about cheating. | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 10/15/2008 3:19:12 PM | According to a twenty yr study done by M.Gary Neuman who gives his finding and advice to women w/ potentially cheating men....
only 12 % of men cheat because they lack sex... that means ladies if your putting out because u dont want your guy to cheat.... u have an 88% chance that your climbing up the wrong tree 
read the book: The truth about cheating, by Neuman. It may save u some pain... | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 10/15/2008 3:47:24 PM | | He may or not be cheating, and conversing may or may not be considered cheating depending on the person and relationhip. That being said, how do you jump from "he is conversing with another woman" to "do men ever get enough sex"???? That is a huge jump..an Evil Kneivel over the Grand Canyon sorta jump. I am not saying that there may not be issues in your relationship, but one doesn't imply he is not getting enough sex from you by his conversations with others. | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 10/15/2008 3:56:07 PM | Re the Opost
a) He is "getting it" 3 times a day but he is not cheating, sexually speaking, yet. And ig he does, he will probably first cut down on the 3 per day with his current GF, unless of course he is UltraSuperMan or does nothing else all day, every day.
b) Sex is grrrrreat but w/o good convo, before and after, with one's sex partner it is like a great sirloin steak - filet mignon but without any fries or salad. Leaves one wanting more and different. | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 10/15/2008 11:01:23 PM | | Relationships are built on more than just sex. It is built on mutual respect, friendhip, emotional support and a variety of other things that bond two people together and drive them to be committed to one another. If a relationship was just built around sex then it won't last. On the same token a relationship can have all the ingredients of emotions and a close friendship but if sex is lacking then the relationship will have a hard time surviving. Cheating seems very unfair and ideally should not occur. Yet it has become so common among couples in an attempt to fill a void of either sexual satisfaction, appreciation or emotional desires. It is important for couples to recognize the weakness, communicate and act upon fixing it. Unfaithfulness in many relationships can be avoided but it takes two. Most men can remain monogamous if the relationship is healthy. There will always be a few that just can't keep it in their pants. | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 10/16/2008 12:15:33 AM | | Swanner, cheating can occur physically but yet there can be emotional cheating as well and both are equally damaging to a relationship and dealbreakers in my book. Cheating can occur without sex being involved - a person sharing intimate thoughts and feelings with a person of the opposite sex while in a relationship is emotional cheating. A person who is in a relationship and engaging in webcam or cyber sex with a member of the opposite sex is cheating as well. | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 10/16/2008 12:19:57 AM | | OP, personally I'd make it clear that his negative behaviour (doing whatever with his other woman) is not acceptable. He should be focusing on you and the relationship, and not other women. If he refuses to stop, I'd move on. Been there done that didn't regret it either. | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 10/16/2008 6:54:36 AM | | simply because they can. Maybe you make it tooo easy for him. Men tend to be physical creatures.. they are all about sight & sound while women tend to look for the emotional connection. That's not to say that ALL men or ALL women or like that.. so don't go gettin' twisted on me. | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 10/16/2008 7:23:34 AM | Maybe just maybe he needs some mental stimulation that he cant get from a dumb bimbo like you who dont even know the difference between cheating and just talking/conversing ...but keep accusing him of cheating and he will be sure to comply .... if you feel threatened by him conversing with another woman you must down deep know that sex with you even three or four times a day just aint all that
conversating what the hell is convesaating ..is that dumb bimbo speak
How do you spell PLAYER
also women have no idea what a player is ...a player never commits and seldome comes backafter he has got it ...a player puts everything into seduction and seduction is the goal PLAYERS DONT CHEAT because players dont commit ..what you are talking about is a CAD cheaters are CADs ...not players ...a player is the guy who dated you till he got in your pants and then never called again a player dont waste his time on seconds ...there are new women who need him | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 10/16/2008 7:42:55 AM | funny most people here saw a cheater who was not satisfied with plenty of sex ...and no one except me saw a woman with issues who is so insecure that her guy cant talk to another female without cheating on his mind ..in her mind
we dont know we see lots of guys who are insatiable ...but we also see many times the one being accused of cheating ..is not cheating ..but insecurities on their mates part makes it impossible to have normal contact with anyone their mate perceives as a threat ...and often that is anyone of the opposite sex ...my first wife was like this and when it ended it was her that got caught cheating... I did have a sexual relationship before the divorce but only after I caught her in my bed with another ...but I was accused of it many times | |
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| why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
Posted: 10/16/2008 11:14:52 AM | To answer that question in my experiences he could get it 100 times a day from you and be satisfied sexually but its the wanting to have something different. Its like boy meets girl ... boy likes girl, but girl pushes boy off, boy wants girl even more girl gives in gives to boy, boy becomes happy but then boy sees something else he wants so he puts girl on back burner slows down with the sex and goes after new toy....
They have toddlers in their pants, they can play with something for five minutes get bored and want something else, but then after a while they realize that toy was no fun and the old toy was a little more fun but the old toy now belongs to someone else so now boy is sad because boy screwed up.
Just my experiences in relationships they always want what they can't have or could have when they get it they realize they were content but by then I've moved on without looking back.
Men will get sex anyway they can get it, most will not all. | |
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