| What makes a player?
Posted: 9/30/2007 2:58:53 PM | Yes, PLEASE do not compare yourself with Jude Law, there is no comparison...YES he did a remake of Alfie that i think grossed about fifty bucks.
AND NO, I have never left any great guy for a guy with a leather jacket and motorcycle...that is so NOT my type at all.
As far as judging your sex life, I'm doing it based on the comments you have made here in regards to women coming onto you and basically begging you for sex, and you being much obliged to give them what they want. You don't appear to be that discriminating as to whom you get it from or give it to. I don't feel i'm being judgemental, I'm basing my ideas on your profile and what you are saying, it is the vibe you give off like it or not | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 9/30/2007 3:30:31 PM | | Seriously dude in another thread you claimed to keep panties in a box and handed it to the girls you banged and told them to find their panties they might have left behind ... you are a old swinging dude who thinks your cool . Thats why girls leave their things they wake up realized they got drunk and run . | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 9/30/2007 3:35:29 PM |
A guy is labled a "player" if he won't commit no matter what the reason is.
I disagree with this. To me, at least, a (male) "player" is someone who leads multiple women to think that they are his one and only, when none of them really are. He's someone who pretends an affection he doesn't feel in order to convince a woman to believe in a relationship that also isn't real....usually for sex, although I suppose some do it for the ego gratification (along with the sex).
Someone who dates with sincere intentions but just doesn't find what he is looking for with that specific woman isn't a player.
Edit:
Alright. So what do you call a man that makes love to many women, but is truthful with them about it?
Promiscuous. And thus, to me at least, unappealing.....
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/1/2007 8:24:55 AM | Christi66........your post is just priceless--thanks so much for the great laugh!!!!
Seems most of us think this guy is just awful........... !!!
And,if hes really slept with all these hordes of women,i can only assume that they were DESPERATE.  | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/1/2007 8:39:41 AM | His shoes.........oh you don't mean sports.
His attitude, do I need to say more. That about covers it all i think. Oh yeah his actions too sorry. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/1/2007 9:41:34 AM | | Simplify it! its when actions and words don't meet! | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/1/2007 9:56:09 AM | Curlygrl: At last! A woman with a sense irony!
christy66: What I said in a previous thread was that women often leave things at my house. I said they’d leave things like a lipstick or their earrings and occasionally they’d leave panties. I said I put all these things in a shoebox and if they asked about them, I’d tell them where to find them. It doesn’t feel right for me to throw these things out with the trash.
If a man come over to your place, made love to you and then forgot something as he was leaving would you throw it away?
I do not have a large collection of panties and NEVER said that I did, the panties are YOUR fixation.
amelodyforadrian: about Jude Law, and me you’re right. I’m taller and still have all my hair.
Concerning you judgments about me, I couldn’t care less. You’re not in my target demographic.
Mafiachixrule: Most men do approach women as if they were hunting. I do not. I approach meeting women as if I were fishing. I throw out the bait and wait for a bite. A lot of it depends on the fishing hole, but I rarely have to wait long.
And to everyone that thinks I have sex indiscriminately, There is no need for me to justify myself. However, allow me to give you an example from my life where I am saying no.
I’ve just taken a new job. There is an attractive 19 year old girl there that has made advances towards me. She says things like “I really like older men” where she knows I’ll over hear her, she pays me complements daily and she often tries to stand near me and touch me. I don’t think I’ve said more than 50 words to her in the two weeks I’ve been working there. But, I will not pursue any liaison with her because she is a co-worker. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/1/2007 10:56:57 AM |
Alright. So what do you call a man that makes love to many women, but is truthful with them about it?
Single. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/1/2007 11:25:22 AM | depends what kind of player, but as far as i know sony make good dvd and cd players  | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/1/2007 1:15:38 PM | Wishes Granted asked:
With that being said.. I would be curious to hear how you dis-engage yourself from the ones who have fallen "addicted" to your awesomeness??
Managing expectations can be tricky. Sometimes we doesn’t know how strong our feelings are until we feel jealous. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/1/2007 3:19:02 PM | In my opinion, a player is a guy who sleeps with alot of women. When I use the word, however, I'm thinking that the man is also dishonest abot how he beds all of these women. Women can be players, as well. I have had the misfortune of being friends with a few female players. I once was the crying shoulder for a guy who was being played by a friend of mine, and I finally came right out and told him what was going on. He was so in love, though, he kept right on being played a bit longer. And I kept on being his shoulder...
"What do you call a man who has multiple lovers?" Someone who is afraid of emotional commitment, someone who hasn't had the opportunity to enjoy the wonderful pleasure of MAKING LOVE with someone you trust and love and whose body you have come to know well through evermore enchanting explorations. It's no secret that sex is better with someone you trust and know. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/1/2007 5:43:39 PM | I can't say I agree with his attitude, but at least he is honest!
A player is someone that does everything this guy claims to do, but is dishonest about it.
Thats my humble opinion anyway. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/1/2007 8:13:27 PM | when the intentions they present are NOT their true intentions.
In other words, it's DECEIT. | |
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| My panties!!!
Posted: 10/1/2007 9:45:35 PM | Hey Sexy,
Don't let me forget to grab my thong out of your box next time I'm there!!!
XOXOXOXOXOX
Sher | |
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| My panties!!!
Posted: 10/1/2007 9:50:40 PM | Alright. So what do you call a man that makes love to many women, but is truthful with them about it?
I'd call him by his name. No need to call him anything else if he's being honest. He wouldn't be having sex with me ~ but it's none of my business what he does with others as long as he's no health risk in my life. I used to frenzy-date. I was abstinent, nevertheless, I dated often and I dated several men at the same time. They were all aware. When I finally met one that I wanted to be intimate with, the others went buh-bye  I have no issue with a man dating more than one woman as long as he's honest. That leaves the option for me to say, "Ok, I'm good with that." or "I'm sorry, that doesn't work for me." JMO 
Edit: An online player and a player in the real world are two vastly different creatures. How do you know or what are the signs? Depends on how much game he has. Novice players are the worst. They think they have game, but it's really not working (they keep getting caught.) The more advanced players are those who lie like a rug and convince themselves they have the right to what they want, when, and with whom ~ basically ~ heartless baastards. But ~ there are women players, too, so I suppose it's all how one feels about their very own private life. I married a former player ~ great guy. He wasn't a great guy before me however. I really think it depends on the individual and what they truly are made of. JMO | |
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| My panties!!!
Posted: 10/1/2007 10:00:46 PM | I don't know what a player is, I'm inclined to agree with curlygrl. It's a guy who you let treat you like crap.
I do know what OP is, though. Laughable and pathetic. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/1/2007 10:01:06 PM | | A player is just a man who likes to play the field. Doesn't have to be attractive, doesn't have to be a liar. Nothing special. Simply just a man that does not want to commit to one woman. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/1/2007 11:07:03 PM | Christi, why can’t you get your head out of the panties?
Why is a shoe box any different from a dresser or any place else? It's been months sense that thread and you are still stuck there.
I’d like to thank everyone for their input. But, I don’t understand personal remarks. I didn't ask for a profile review here. Didn't any of your moms tell you say something nice or don't say anything at all?
Sher45, I’m looking forward to it. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/2/2007 12:48:44 PM | | I think what is missing from that formula is dishonesty/deceit. If an attractive man is totally upfront and honest about his sexual conquests....well, all the power to him. It's when a guy goes sneaking around to get as many notches in his belt as possible, and will lie to you in the process...that's when the word "playa" comes to my mind. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/2/2007 2:38:23 PM |
Alternatively, is a player a man who lies about himself, his job or does whatever it takes to bed a woman?
taking your user name in to consideration me thinks you know more than you let on concerning the topic of players........
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/2/2007 6:50:17 PM |
taking your user name in to consideration me thinks you know more than you let on concerning the topic of players.....…
I started this thread because what I’d thought of as a player wasn’t what women in this forum were calling a player. I think of the whole human mating dance (talking, dating drinks, dinner conversation etc.) as being the “game.” It has nothing to do with playing head games. It’s only the way men and women interact. Everyone plays this game. Anyone that’s good at attracting someone is a good “player.” Someone that attracts many is said to have “tight game.”
My idea of a player had nothing to do with lies and deceitfulness. Therefore, henceforth I shall refer to myself as a libertine. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/2/2007 7:10:27 PM | My idea of a player had nothing to do with lies and deceitfulness. Therefore, henceforth I shall refer to myself as a libertine.
thank you I enjoyed reading your disclaimer  but yes I have to agree on some level that every one is a player when it comes to the dating "Game".
attention grabbing , flirting, etc etc etc.....
how does that line go again by Leonard Cohen......."She's a hunter when she's wearing some thing tight"......lol ! | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:01:08 PM | For the benefit of those that didn't go to high school, Kynnie has the hots for me.
This stuff is textbook psychology. | |
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